Sigh... Ex back at my house again. Wrestling - can't kiss.

[MagicMTJ]

We were watching he olympics having a good time. I started wrestling with her, having a good time. got her in some very sexual positions. She was laughing and when she'd stop reciprocating I'd IOD and start shutting out until she IOIed me again. I wrestled her to a position where I was on top of her, and put my forehead on hers. I put my nose against her and went in for the kiss and she looked away. I went in for the kiss again a bit later and she backed off. Again. Again. This seems to be a sticking point of mine. I've been rejected at this point so many times I just like can't get it outta my head. She said she had a great time and wants to hang out wednesday but I just feel so crappy - like I could have closed it off again tonight. I don't know where I went wrong. I feel like shit.

I really want to text her, for no particular reason. I don't know. Next time I'm gonna pull the whole "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" line. I should have done that. Goddamn it.

[MrA]

You could be in the LJBF's zone.

[Vivace]

Wow that would feel like she was challenging my frame big time. You can either bring her into your reality where you two are on the verge of being back together or slip away into her reality of LJBF I would personally move on, give it a shot tho and good luck! I now feel like every single girl is replaceable in a single day with a strong skillset.

Some advice if you go for it, saying "I'm trying so hard to kiss you right now" would not have done it. Your meeting resistance not because of your approach on the kiss but because something else that happened at an earlier step which wasn't done right. Regame her from A1 and go for the kiss close at the end. You will need social proof/strong eye contact/early kino/ good body language. Come from a position of not needing/wanting anything.

on the kiss close be whispering something in her ear then k-close its less time for her to react or reject.

[MagicMTJ]

it seemed less of her resisting more of me freezing. I sat nose to nose forehead to forhead for a second or two before I said fuck it and she started wrestling again. I dunno. I'm supposed to hang out with her tomarrow and go out and everything. I plan on kissing her before we even get back to my house but if we don't i'm just gonna go for it right away (make sure there's lots of kino). If not i'll be bummed but I wont see her again cuz i can't let her detriment my mental state like this ne more.

[Vivace]

I dunno if her turning her face is you freezing up. Good luck tho let us know what happens.

[MagicMTJ]

I should be more specific. It wasn't an obvious turn like that. She started wrestling again and turned sideways after sitting nose to nose with me for a couple seconds.

[Vivace]

Couple seconds?!? Pull the trigger or lose attraction the choice is yours.... would you rather kiss her or watch her leave? Thats your options and the choice is obvious.

[MagicMTJ]

haha, hence why I was beating myself up. I'm just hopin' the opportunity arises again tomarrow (which I'm pretty sure it wil). Meanwhile I'm just calmin myself down