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Old 08-11-2008, 10:37 PM
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Default The "First Date Qualifier"

Sorry for the long delay
I've had this in the lounge a while, but didn't post it here...

I've been making field reports using this self-made routine, and people have asked me what this routine is all about.
Basically, it's a routine best used towards the end of the Qualification phase going into comfort, or can also be used to establish a strong connection in comfort.
Here it is:



(begin with an SOI) You know what? You seem really nice, (Qualifying time) but… ok, let’s say you went on a date. What would your first ideal date be like?

*She responds either two ways, she thinks about it or gives you a direct answer*

(If she thinks about it)

Alright, lets say you two go out dining during your date, who decides where you two go? You? Him? or both of you?

(If she gives you a direct answer)

Alright, lets say you two go dining out during your first date, who decides where you two go? You? Him? or both of you?

(She responds) 1

Alright, let's say the waiter looks you in the eye (look her in the eye), approaches you (get a little bit closer to her), and then asks your date if you would like a glass of Laissez Faire wine, and your date insists on getting it for you. Keep in mind that this wine is $200 per glass. Would you accept it or not?

(She responds) 2

Now, you open the menu (pause) and you see exactly what you want! ...but it comes in a huge portion! and there's something else kinda you want too and it comes in a small portion. Keep in mind that you're really really hungry... so what do you order? The huge portion or the small portion?

(She responds) 3

Then... after diner, he takes you home, walks you to your house, then talks to you for about 5 minutes, and you're really into him! You both pause… what happens next? Does he kiss you? Does he give you a hug? Or does he say goodbye and walk away?

(She responds) 4

Alright, you want to know what this all means?
*you then give meaning to each answer she gave you, the 1-4 numbers I marked*

(keep in mind that you could throw your own critiques for the answers she gave to keep attraction)

1a) She decides.
I tell her that she likes to be the dominant one.
1b) He decides.
I tell her she into guys who are dominant and know what they want.
1c) They both decide.
I tell her she's a very monogamous person.

2a) She accepts the rose.
I tell her she appreciates a guy with wealth and a good lifestyle
2b) She declines the rose.
I tell her she not into guys for their money, but who they are and how smart they are.

3a) She orders the big portion.
I tell her she's confident in herself and her figure.
3b) She orders the small portion.
I tell her that she's very self-conscious about herself. (A lot of ways to critique here)

4a) She kisses.
I tell her she's the type of person who likes to keep moments special.
4b) She hugs.
I tell her she likes progressing step by step in a relationship.
4c) He just says goodbye.
I tell her she likes to take relationships at a slow pace.

*Now, end the routine with this statement*
The fact that you said (First answer) on the date and that you would (Last answer) at the end says that:
You normally go on a lot of dates, but have trouble finding the right guy. Every time you think you've found him, you lose interest but you don't know why...
(At this point their mind is blown in amazement and she sees you as magical, or this very high value guy)



This routine demonstrates high value, social value, takes your target through an emotional journey and lets you hear her ideas on how a first date should go. I've gotten my best #-closes and @-closes with this routine, and even HBs who've told me they had boyfriends. I've also used this on a group, and this can make it easier to isolate your target when you win her friends over with this routine.

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Old 08-16-2008, 11:58 AM
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Old 08-27-2008, 12:27 PM
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That made no sense. I read it three times.
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If the routines haven't ended by the time you are on a date I would be a little worried. I'd prefer to be myself and if it works it works if not on to the next. I have never had a date with a girl I liked and not had a second date. You have to really screw up for that to happen. I also don't give girls that many choices on a date, I'm in charge. I pick where we go, what we do, I choose if there is a kiss or hug or sex. I think if you're doing routines on a date you might be viewed as a chimp who must perform all the time, constantly figuring them out. But if it works for you run with it.
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Old 09-02-2008, 03:18 PM
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Default v2.0 coming soon!!

BradP himself has helped me recreate this routine and add more emotion to it, as well as making it shorter and more understandable! I've yet to field test it variously to get the right contingencies.

So, coming soon: First Date Qualifier v2.0

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If the routines haven't ended by the time you are on a date I would be a little worried. I'd prefer to be myself and if it works it works if not on to the next. I have never had a date with a girl I liked and not had a second date. You have to really screw up for that to happen. I also don't give girls that many choices on a date, I'm in charge. I pick where we go, what we do, I choose if there is a kiss or hug or sex. I think if you're doing routines on a date you might be viewed as a chimp who must perform all the time, constantly figuring them out. But if it works for you run with it.
If you read the end of the routine, it states that this routine helps #closing and isolating the target. How could this be used while on a date? It's used in the regular interaction of the pick-up.

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You must be reading a different post then me, cuz the post I read was all about the first date. If someone is willing to go out to dinner with you I sure hope you have her phone number by then.
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Default First Date Qualifier v2.0

Here it is, field tested with the best adjustments and packing more power than the original!


You know what you seem really nice… but…
*Put arm around her shoulder*
Ok, on a date (Pause) Appetizer Salad or Double Lobster ala carte?

(She Responds)

Light or Sweet Dessert?

(She Responds)

Strawberries and cream (Pause) or Chocolate blackout cake?

(She Responds)

Long walk on the beach (Pause) or hiding away, making out on the booth?

(She Responds)

“Passionate” explosive kiss at the end of the night (Pause) or tension filled hug with teasing?

(She Responds)

*Then tease* I know what kind of girl you are! You’re one of those girls. (playfully)

(She's usually begging you or emotionally intrigued to finding out what kind of girl she is)

Oh, you know what I’m talking about! You’re one of those girls!

*Then deliver either of the following cold reads*

(1): You would normally go on a lot of dates, but have trouble finding the right guy. Every time you think you've found him, you lose interest (pause) but you don't know why...
(2): You’re one of those girls who likes to get really turned on by the sexual tension, you like to want it so bad, but not let yourself go for it, and then you like to submit to the guy, which is the head or control, because then it’ll be something that just happened not something you decided on. You like to get swept away, you like to get swept off your feet!


Much shorter and packed with more emotion now! Much of this credit goes to BradP for fixing the mistakes in the first one and coming out with this powerful routine! This routine demonstrates high value, social value, emotionally intrigues sexuality and connection, and lets you hear hear ideas on a date. This helps you create plans for meeting up later and aid with the number close. This is a routine best used at the end of Qualification and into Comfort.

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