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"I think that your insight number 3 seems to be a little off. In strip clubs men tend to talk a bit cruder, a bit more insulting to strippers than they would otherwise talk to women. Mostly strippers will play along because it is as if the abuse is just part of the territory.
Hang out with enough strippers and it becomes obvious that most, if not all, tend to have deep rooted emotional problems, some rather severely. You’d be surprised how many tend to be of the type that will be all fun and games yet go off and cry at the end of the day. Every girlfriend/friend of mine who worked as a stripper has complained, sometimes bitterly, about the crude and abusive language of some customers."
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1st this can't be stated without further evidence. What type of abuse are girls at the club exposed to and how does this connect with their emotions.
Were not talking about physical,sexual or emotional abuse,you must have misread. Let me ask you what type of abuse were your "friends" talking about. It was an inside joke not even about her, she showed her volrunability by reacting to it. Never was there any abuse. It trully showed how a strong friendship is more important than a naked girl sitting on your lap. It's human nature to want to belong to a high value group and she was trying to prove she was better than me in that situation ,were Fader was giving me more attention than her. Just a tease so to speak.
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"The other thing that seems a bit amiss is the bit about not paying. Possibly things work differently elsewhere but all the strip clubs I’ve ever been to, with all the strippers I’ve ever known I’ve never seen this happen. Typically if a group of guys go into a strip club and proceed to act cool and have a good time and all and not tip the dancers, that the strippers mostly ignore them. And if one or more of those guys are looking at the dancers then the strippers tend to view those guys as essentially stealing from them. “You don’t work for free, why should I” is the typical reaction from the strippers. Those who continue to stay, peek, and not tip tend to get asked to leave.
Most clubs tend to have a regular bar crowd that doesn’t necessarily tip the strippers, at least not with any regularity. But there is a difference. They are part of the bar’s culture and typically don’t pay a lot of attention to the girls as they dance. Often you’ll see the girls talking to these guys but there is no pick-up going on."
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There are different setups at a strip club, I believe youre talking about "perverts row" If i'm sitting away from the bar and the dancers it's their choice to interact with me, I'm not obligated to tip. In fact i'm there with a friend to have a few drinks and if something catches my eye maybe.
to be continued