Some texting help Please

[TOS]

Well, heres the story. Im a reforming afc. Every day im veering away from my old afc ways into pua. Prior to my new ways, i managed to hook up with the girl from my job and had an awesome time. But I then blew her off and let her fall hard. At the time I was Fighting with my ex, and used her as a crutch. So at the time I didnt care for the girl at work. But after me and my ex broke up, I wanted back with the girl from work. I made the typical mistakes and acted needy and all the other stereotypical afc ways. So i guess i dont need to tell you what happened. But now, i know I can get her again but am having slight trouble. She is now showing iois and things along that but theres times she just wont answer a text or she waits like an hour before texting back. Now the whole weekend has gone by and she hasn't texted me. I refuse to text her because the last text to her was in conversation on friday, and it was a small unmeaning question that she never answered. Also, she wont talk to me on the phone yet, but she will text me during the day. It seems this is going just too slow. I think my problem is i dont have enough comfort built at work. But its hard in an office. Any advice guys? btw, shes about a hb8

[CrasherAnon]

Pfft... Move on. Too much hassle.


Simple un-game related logic: You ||||ed her, you hurt her, you came running back to her, she holds the cards.


You're gonna waste way too much time trying to get her to even talk to you on the phone, when you should be in a bar/club/mall opening a dozen sets.


So get to it!

[TOS]

I didnt |||| her, thats the thing. I bitched out, now i want to reclaim wat i should have gotten before. lol btw, i knew i was going to get this answer lol.

[CrasherAnon]

Originally Posted by TOS

...Prior to my new ways, i managed to hook up with the girl from my job and had an awesome time...

Originally Posted by TOS

I didnt |||| her, thats the thing. I bitched out...

Umm... Have we reassigned the meaning behind "hook up" into something else now??

What did you do with her? Just make out? Just a date? Just sit with her at lunch?

[TOS]

Long story short, she just had surgery that she couldnt have sex for a month or so. Its not bs, she was out of work for a while from it. We hung out a bunch, i would say about 5 times. everything but sex. She was head over heals for me. You guys must think im nutz. I know. Even reading this that i am writing, im like wtf, is this me. lol. This is just something i have to do. Kind of like the two old guys in grumpier old men, Trying to finally catch the illusive big one.

[CrasherAnon]

Are you willing to risk the friendship to |||| this broad?


If so, then plow through. Make it obvious that you want to spend time with her, and then when you are with her, make it obvious that you want to |||| her.


Then |||| her.


Problem solved.