Hey parrot guy. I'm a newb here too, and trying to work out my Fear of the Approach. I'm just beginning to practice by trying to talk more to strangers I meet. Once upon a time, I made a commitment to myself. I decided that if I was ever in a public place waiting for something, I would talk to the people around me. Every person you meet is almost as complex as the entire universe. There is something to learn from each person you see every day. About 10 years ago, when I adopted this philosophy, I was amazed at how deep and fascinating these people actually were. And I did, in fact, meet lots of beautiful women. Somehow I slipped out of that habit of talking to strangers every day, but I am ready to begin again.
It's really like exercise... you will develop your social muscles with practice. Talk to everybody you can, but also talk to every beautiful woman you can, as well. Checkout this great post on "
Day Game":
Day Walking: The Differences between Day and Night Game
Mainly the challenge at the end:
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know what the time is?”
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know where the nearest coffee shop is?
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know where the nearest men’s fashion store is? [She replies]. Oh thanks, I’m trying to get some new shirts. You’re very well dressed, do you have any tips for me?”
• Tell 5 beautiful women, “Excuse, I just saw you walking past and I thought you were really cute, I had to stop and say hello. How are you?”
If you do that, you'll be ready to approach those babes at the bar.
Good luck, Parrot
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