Read "
Magic Bullets." It will answer all these questions for you. I know going to bars alone sucks, though. If your going to be frequenting this place often, get to know the bartenders, people that you see regularly there, etc. You need to be seen talking with other people to gain some status. It will make your night more comfortable as well, and get you more in a social groove. You need to be social, be fun, and have fun! Emerse yourself in the information available in this community.
The birds sound like a good tool for starting up conversation, work with that.
Dont ask anyone if they "want to talk." Engage them with something interesting enough that they will want to talk to you. Be a man and start the interaction, they will rarely initiate it. Ill say it again- devote yourself to learning the methods of this community.
good luck
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