I have to think of how I was in my early 20s. I made the mistake of growing attached to women I just wanted to have fun with.
You made the mistake of seeing her more than you should.
Why she acted so angry, she'll eventually explain. It's either PMS or her jumping to conclusions, but threats are never good. They can apologize and cry and beg you to come back, but assume you moved in with her and all your stuff is there AND she pulls that crap? You're out of a place, you might have a restraining order placed on you, and your life becomes a living hell.
Because she's older, she sees herself as having control over you. She also sees herself getting older, so she's got a ton of insecurities about that as well.
If she's open to you coming over, take her up, but don't fall into the trap of having sex with her. Goodbye kiss at the most, or you'll get the call "I'm late with my period" because you felt compelled to sleep with her. I can tell you that just from what happened to me,she'll just casually bring you into her bedroom and one thing will lead to another, and once it's done, the feeling of remorse is huge, and your self-respect for not being able to say no, is pretty much shot.
Have someone in the car closeby and have them call you, because if you're not interrupted, it's like being under a spell. It is dangerous to be alone with her because she is in a crazed emotional state.
Sometimes it's better to say goodbye over the phone, so if I was to pick one, do it over the phone and not in person. I asked a few female friends and they said phone breakups were easier than in person, but all agreed that text breakups are to be avoided.
She's "dumped" you, so the worst thing that's hurt is your pride, but you can move on from it. Just don't be so open next time.
She's lived more life than you have and has been manipulated in the past. She's doing the same to you.
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Originally Posted by masterH  I quit gaming for 2 months after meeting this woman.
I am 25 and she is a lot older than me (in her 30's)
met her at coffee shop to practice stuff. got her phone number and kept meeting her just to close the deal.(my first f close) I thought I was fooling around (so was she) but as we see each other more, we knew we were getting attached. we talked about our future and moving in together.
one day (yesterday), she became totally different person and broke up with me. If it was done nicely, I wouldn't be upset this much but like telling me she would call police if I show up at her house, totally broke my heart.
I still can't believe it really happened.
today at 2 am , she sent me txt saying how I was doing.
I really don't know what to do cuz she broke up with me like that and if I respond right away, I am just piece of sxxt.
But I do know that she can't just forget about me. I think she did that she can't see the future between us
should I wait for couple more txts and respond to her? |
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Broke up with her, now what should I do 
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