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Originally Posted by _Shift_  I've been with alot of girls that don't want to... they honestly don't want to... what are the self conscious about? because i've never had any complaints... but some just don't want my face anywhere near their vajayjay |
It's a confidence issue. It's socially acceptable for guys to worry about their penis size/shape/girth. It's not socially acceptable for girls to discuss the appearance/smell/taste of their
vajayjay. We're taught to be ashamed of them. The only times we hear about what they might smell like is when someone in high school jokes about a fishy smell. I'm not sure about overseas, but here in Australia censorship laws forbid porn from showing anything but the outer lips, so the only vaginas we ever see are perfect, neat little lines that look almost prepubescent. We read stories of people getting vaginoplasty and because we don't KNOW what ours is supposed to look like, we start to wonder whether we in fact need this $5000+ procedure to surgically alter our vaginas before they are 'acceptable'.
So we become self-conscious. If you spend a mere five minutes in the ladies' changing room at the gym, you realize that boobs come in all shapes and sizes. But vaginas? They're a mystery to us. You men have seen far more vaginas than we ever have.
Generally, as we become more sexually experienced, we start to accept that there mustn't be anything wrong with us. But if a girl never lets a guy go downtown, she's never going to have the opportunity to get a positive reaction, so she's going to remain self-conscious.