since girls guage you before you even approach them...it helps to look nice. so if you have a nice body, that'll help immensly...they'll be wanting you to approach them. also, when i shop for shorts...i make sure they are unique. ie, no plaid shorts, flower prints, basic designs, or solid colors. and i lightly accessorize with a necklace and a bracelet[that a girl made for me] that won't fall off when i swim. ...and that's what you should have BEFORE even approaching them.
it also just happens that i go to the beach to swim with sharks.[sarging is always secondary...i don't live the PUA life, i just apply techniques/mindsets into my everyday life] i just lay my stuff next to a target and ask them to watch it, then make a witty comment about how you don't completely trust her and you're gonna hunt her down if she steals any of your coloring books.[or something funny and accusing] when i get back i sit down and start working on my projects [i usually have a journal with me...maybe i'll really get a coloring book one day] and i just stop and have a conversation as normal...then eventually bring up the sharks. i always have an extra pair or two of goggles in my bag...so BAM! ..instant date.
..thats just me though. you can probably find something else interesting near your beach/pool though. most beaches have cool beach bars or tide pools nearby. i don't really go to pools as much though. just know the environment, and then bounce them to that location because you are gonna go there anyway. |