Girl makes effort to contact me, but she is "busy"

[Lansing]

Hey

Situation is, met girl on the weekend. A bit of kino, chatted for a while, got her number. I told her I would text her later so she had my number, which I did.

Call her a few days later, she doesn't answer so I decide not to leave a message. She calls me back to see what is up (was calling to tell her I wouldn't be going to this event that we had talked earlier about which was happening that night). She said she wasn't heading out either.

Texted her tonight, she was suppose to be at another spot I was at tonight and she calls me back instead of texting me. She says she isn't going after all. She then goes on and says how she is busy all this week, blah, blah.

I responded by keeping the conversation short and telling her I would catch up with her later.


Bottom line question: I am wondering if she is trying to demonstrate higher value (busy) or what is going on. She is a lot younger than me (university age) and there seems to be some chemistry. I would be up for asking her out but if she is really "busy" I don't want to get a "I am busy" response..

Just feel like she is sending mixed signals.. not sure how to handle it. Should I work on building comfort over the phone or just hold off and contact her next week sometime when things might have settled down to get the Day 2. I usually don't use "phone" game much, just arrange Day 2s and go from there.

[Eyecontact]

Sounds like she is just really busy. She wouldn't call you back if she wasn't interested.

Give her a break for a few days and try again.

[Dr_Rockefeller]

Hi Lansing,

If it were me, I wouldn't read too much into it. First off, life is incredibly busy as a student so it's very possible that she is telling the truth. Secondly, you probably need to build more attraction with her. Because if you were ||||ing Brad Pitt, I doubt she'd be so "busy." Hope this helps you!

Peace and Blessings