Gettin Kinky

[thedarkrocker]

Okay...so I'm seeing this new girl, and we've been ||||ing for the past three weeks. So far it's been pretty standard sex (a.ka. nothing kinky) until the last time. I totally blew my load in her face. So this brings up a two part question:

1. I'm not sure if she liked it. She didn't say anything, but there seemed to be a bit of unspoken awkwardness. Some girls really like it so I just did it...what can I say, I like porno ||||ing. My question is how should I treat this? Just let it be and not bring it up in anyway? Or if I should bring it up, how should I do it?

2. My second question is in general how and when do you go about bringing up kinky possibilities?

Shit I might as well bring up one more question:

3. Does bad sex turn you away from wanting to be with a girl?

[Kalu]

ouch. I can't believe you didn't ask first. Thats some frat boy shit if you ask me...

oh well, nothing you can do now. But seriously, if it becomes a dead body in the room you will have to talk to her about it. You could always be creative, ask her what kind of sexual fantasies she has. Ask her if she likes it in the ass.

And if you want to do it again, you should ask first. If she is ||||ing you then she should be willing to talk to you about whether she like it when a guy busts all over her face.

[FemmeFatale]

Ok .. what you watch in Pornos, doesnt equal what women like..
You really should have asked her if it was ok before you did that.. Kink comes with being open and sexually confident and comfortable... you cant have that if you arent communicating. You can slowly think about what kind of naughty things you like and then you can tell her and see how she responds.

In relation to bad sex.... :P who ever said that all it takes is enthusiasm was right.. if someone is eager to try new things and willing to improve, it can turn everything around..if you are bored with this girl.. its because you arent talking and you arent being open about what you like and dont like..