bleeds after sex - The Attraction Forums

trix8 · #1 06-15-2008, 11:24 AM

it says it in the title, weve been having sex for a couple months now, and the past 2 times weve had sex she started bleeding after

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is this somthing normal?
anyone know what it could mean??????

The Musician · #2 06-15-2008, 11:32 AM

She might be having her period...?

jacq69 · #3 06-15-2008, 11:50 AM

Depends where the blood is coming from. It could be a little bit left over from a period if she's just gotten past it or it could be from lack of lubrication. Some women's lubrication is thin and allows for friction, try just a dabble of lube and maybe that'll help. Ask her if it's painful for her in any way because it shouldn't be. A woman's pussy can stretch to push a baby through so even if you have a 10 inch |||| it shouldn't matter. Also, maybe a little more foreplay could get her more ready for it. What many guys don't know is a woman's body requires several minutes to become ready for penetration (a guy needs on average 7 seconds...). During this time a woman becomes lubricated and her cervix moves upward to allow space in her vagina. If there's not enough time and arousal then it can be painful and bleed afterwards.

Hope this helps.

LittlbigD · #4 06-15-2008, 09:47 PM

It is an indicator that something else is wrong in her cervix. A young healthy girl should not bleed after sex. She needs to go see her ob/gyn. Chances are she just needs a round of antibiotics or a different birth control and life will be back to normal for you guys.

mickyblueyes · #5 06-27-2008, 08:37 PM

dont mean to alarm you but you should both see a doctor as she may have contracted an std, probably a very minor one that will go away by just taking some antibiotics but thats what is sounds like to me!

trix8 · #6 06-28-2008, 10:39 AM

does that meen shes sleepin around??? if it is

mickyblueyes · #7 06-28-2008, 03:41 PM

well maybe you slept with someone and you gave it to her or maybe the opposite and she slept with someone
but she could of had it before you got with her or you could have passed it on to her,just she never new so i wouldnt jump to conclusions

seriously its very simple,just go to doctors and you get antibiotics...no biggie

FemmeFatale · #8 06-30-2008, 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by trix8

does that meen shes sleepin around??? if it is

No!
It could be many things.:
a) Her birth control could be causing her to "spot" in which case she needs to see a gyno
b) you could be too rough, especially if you finger her before sex (check your nails)
c) She could have gotten her period..

BEST thing to do is talk to her.

sampanye · #9 06-30-2008, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by FemmeFatale

No!
It could be many things.:
a) Her birth control could be causing her to "spot" in which case she needs to see a gyno

Very good point. Is she on the pill? Has she been very stressed or made significant dietary changes recently? This can mess with her hormones and cause her to 'spot'.

Mr Jack · #10 07-14-2008, 11:03 AM

right this happened to me first time with my girl, she didn't realise untill i pulled out n looked down n there was blood like, everywhere! all over the condom, looked like my soldier had just come out of the battle of the somme! so i just calmly said, like are u due ur period cos u've started? n she was like, erm no... n all like 'oh god this has never happened before'....

it stopped not long in though n we did laugh about it a after! i'm not especially big, average i wud say, although she is pretty tight so maybe try lube or something? thats what i'm gonna do!

happened with my ex tho as well the last time i had sex with her...