Kick me in the balls!!! HB10 One-itis!!!

[Steveo69]

Hey look Steveo lost his ||||in mind!!!!

Well 3 weeks ago I had two HB10s, two HB9s, and a mixed bag of 7s and 8s, I thought I was THE SHIT!!! Well I been out with this HB10 a few times, talk to her every few days, text almost daliy. We were like peas and carrots Forest! THere was some serious chemistry between us!!!

Heres my ||||ed up day yesterday... well first on Tuesday I had a date with the HB10 that casted this one-itis spell on me and two hours before the date she texted and said "i cant go tonight I will explain later" I thought nothing of it because this HB has been throwing serious IOIs at me just being super sweet on me. Well yesterday she informed me that she has been dating this other guy for 6 weeks and "he was very upset that she was seeing me and wanted to date her exclusive" and she agreed! My only fault I could see with this girl is that I can see she has been controled by men BIGTIME in the past and this was her weekness. He threw a baby fit and she caved in I read her email and laughed at how she kept making excusses and saying sorry over and over again to me.

Now it gets better I texted her and let her know I sent her an email(which I regret) and she starts texting me back like NOTHING HAS CHANGED!!! To be honest bros this PISSED ME OFF!!! Im like WTF are you trying to make me your GIRLFRIEND??? GRRRRRRR!!!! This HB10 is acting like she is still into me but now has a BF and the ||||ed up thing this was the FIRST women in years that I was 100% into for countless reasons besides the FACT she could be in playboy even on her worse day.

Well to make matters worse I know how to beat the One-itis so I made a text round to my other HB 10 the 9s and the 8s and got no answers from a few and the others said "3 weeks no call?... bitch bitch bitch" so Im like NEXT! |||| these little bitches time to get my game on... So today Im at the gym and this little rock solid HB9 Cameron Diaz look alike that I was gaming about 2 months ago approaches me when Im doing cable cross-overs and she says "hey! how you been?" I turned and looked at her and said "Im not here to socialize... go on now" as I pointed my finger away like she was a dog. I didnt do this in my ||||y funny manner but more like a ||||-||||head manner. My workout partner almost shit himself and he said "Im here to socialize!"

||||!!! My shit is messed up in a whole new way as this little case of one-itis has bloomed into a monster!!! The thought of going back to a 7 or 8 seriously makes me feel sick!!! Then my proformace at the gym today on a HB9 that OPENED ME well just makes me question my mental health.

Wow I seen myself in a healthy relationship with the HB10 and taking a break from the PUA rockstar lifestyle Ive created.... |||| |||| |||| I am just burned the |||| out!!!

I could put my |||| on the table right now and smash it with my laptop SMASH!!! ball matter alll over the walls!!! Holly shit wheres my Extra Strength Excedrin???

My one-itis has advanced into a sudo TOS or 10-Only Syndrome plus now I feel a little burned out with the PUA lifestyle that I once loved.

QUESTION: Any you bros ever get PUA burned out??? Or set your sights on 9s or 10s only then find yourself turned off by 7s and 8s to the point you feel like barfing on their faces?

NEED a little help here bros!
Steveo

[Scars]

I understand. I've deffinately been feeling PUA burned out. I had a really good run, and just between these past two months alone, I've probably slept with about 12 different girls. But now I've found this girl (I also have one-it-is), and trying to turn it into a LTR type thing. Fortunately for me, the girl is really digging me, only problem is were both super busy and never really have much time for each other... but as your situation. I would just act unphased by it. Maybe if she texts you again simply tell her you have no interested in being her "buddy", and that she had a choice between you and the other guy and she choose him. Tell her you're not the kind of kind to sit around and wait for her, then simply wish her the best of luck and be on your way. She may or may not come back. Just continue chasing tens, maybe the next one will feel the same way this time. It may suck, but I think you honestly should just let her go man. It's for the best.

[waterboy20]

I agree with Scars. Let the bitch go. There are so many more. Lay down the law, and make her choose. If she chooses the other guy get her ||||ing number out of your phone . Now I'm pretty new to the PUA game, but I have a feeling taking a break from the 9's and 10's will be good for you. Since they are most always high matienance, focus on a few 8's that have really nice personalities that you can connect with. Slow down a little on the dating and move to around 2 or 3. I think from what you've told me that you are getting tired of simply ||||ing these girls no matter how hot they are (hence the Gym episode), ie you just don't give a ||||. Save yourself a couple of STD's and start a few relationships that are emotionally fulfilling as well as sexually. See what happens. That's my 2 cents, if you don't like it delete it, but that's what I'd do. But he what do I know?

[waterboy20]

Oh and this may be a dumb question which it probably is, but how do I start a new thread? I'm sure it's pretty easy, since I just joined could someone enlighten me?

Thanks

[TheLasher]

seems like every PUA has that phase. If you got this far, you should either just take a break, or work through it like it never happened. Or go back to basics and start fresh. Different places clubs you've never been to, etc.

[Doesit]

Originally Posted by waterboy20

but how do I start a new thread?

Thanks

[TheLasher]

Originally Posted by Doesit

agreed, doesit...


Use Control + F, friend, then type exactly what you're looking for on that page and press "next" till you find it.


God, I have too much time on my hands.

[Steveo69]

Yea bros I am simply puzzled at my asshole reaction at the gym today... how funny I just replied to a post yesterday on gym pick ups and I was going to sarge today at the gym and then a HB9 opens me and I treated her like a dog??? Ive sat around for the last 6 hours and let that replay through my head, and now I think its funny because shes ||||ing hot... shes probably at the plastic surgeons office right now sitting in the waiting room flipping through magizines and wishing death on me.

I feel that this case of one-itis just pushed me over the redline... 3 weeks ago was a sure sign that I was slipping when this HB-8.5 that I had been banging for about a month calls me 11:00 at night and sez "I want you right now... and you can do anything you want to me" I was like HELL YEA come over then 2 minutes later I called her back and told her I was tired, been in the sun all day, and need to get up early. She was butt-hurt and called me bitching a few days later because I have not called her. The crazy thing is that this chick rates in my TOP 10 best ||||ers and I shut her down.

Yea the one-itis with the HB10 is quickly going away as I have trained myself on this issue in the past, dont get me wrong it STILL SUCKS but I bounce back fast. I guess the issue is through the one-itis I found myself wanting a relationship and that freaks my ass out because my life is going really good so why fix whats not broken?

Any you bros ever get seriously burned out? and what did you do to fix it?

I guess thats my real question thats got me in a tailspin.

Coolio,
Steveo

[miaddict]

No one-itis topic! This has been discussed several times on the forums.

However, I agree with the OP's proposal to put his |||| on the table and smash it with a hammer. Laptops dont quite do it for me.

Jive turkeyed.