Dude,
The attraction code is a superior book. The better I got at game, the more I began to realise that I could say pretty much anything and get away with it. All my natural friends used to tell me there was no point in them teaching me how to get good with girls cos I just wouldn't understand what was going on in here [and they would always tap their temples with their finger as they said this].
The thing with
the attraction code is you almost have to realise all this stuff yourself. I read the book and was thinking..shit man, this is EXACTLY the transformation that I've been goingthrough. Learning routines, then dropping the routines, then learning that being myself, my true self [not the super polite, 'gentleman' that society trained me to be and obviously not going out of my way to be rude] was the most attractive thing.
Yes, it is confusing, but I have seen naturals say things that 'seem' AFC but still get lays..its all in the way they're projecting themselves. For example, compliment openers have ALWAYS worked for me, but many in the community regard this as AFC. But for me, they work so well because I rarely give out compliments unless something actually really catches my eye; I compliment without expecting outcome.
But trust me, don't think you realise how much GOLD is in
the attraction code. Have a little bit of faith, go out a little, everytime you find your old mindset returning, try telling yourself, women are lucky to speak to me, to have me in their lives. And you'll soon start to adopt the mindset of a natural. The way I got round it was asking myself, 'if I was a girl, would I date myself?' and of course, it was initially a no, because I thought I really had nothing to offer..so I worked on shaping a lifestyle that I would be proud of, aiming for goals that showed self respect and generally focusing on me, until eventually, I actually began to believe that women would be lucky to have me in their lives. And its funny how when you behave in a way that is consistent with your beliefs, women [and other people in life] behave in ways that is consistent with that belief.
Definitely my best pick up investment ever. And great too as a self help book, if you care to read between the lines. Can't wait to go on a
bootcamp.
Peace, be still!
Essence
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