does wacking yourself off make you last longer - The Attraction Forums

agold7964 · #1 06-22-2008, 02:55 PM

reason i ask: I never masterbate. Once or twice a month, I will get hard, and for a minute or two (sitting on computer, watching TV) I will jerk it for a couple minutes, and then stop (litteraly, a couple minutes, not more then 4, i just get bored, ready to do something else, arm starts to get tired...) (never bust from HJ)

the reason i ask: I have had sex twice, and between 6-12 BJs. and whenever I do ||||/BJ, i bust in under 5 minutes, (usually 1-3 minutes.)

the reason i ask is all my other friends say they last longer, and all my other friends wack it on a general basis.

you think if i where to wack off a lot, i would be able to last longer?

resocialize · #2 06-30-2008, 01:14 AM

yes whacking it helps, just dont overdo it.

FemmeFatale · #3 06-30-2008, 04:36 AM

Yep..it helps a lot.. but if you dont enjoy jerking off that much..just do a jerk before sex..or get her to blow you till you cum and then after a 10-15 minute break, go in for round two (sex).. you'll last much longer

Red_Nine · #4 07-03-2008, 03:10 PM

The best thing to do is a quick one, take a 5 min break, and go back in. She'll be disappointed between, but the next day she'll only remember the second, longer one.

Also, she's still slightly hot from the first one, so you need less foreplay (but she may be slightly dry, use saliva).

Also, you get to cum twice.

Mr Jack · #5 07-14-2008, 10:42 AM

in short, yes! heres my routine...

HJ in before i go on the town or round to my girls, then get them to BJ, then u've cum twice so even if u wanted to u can't, works a treat!

artie226 · #6 07-20-2008, 07:08 PM

if you wanna last longer, ive heard from many people that this actually works. When you JO , go until you are about to bust, then back off for a minute or until the erge go away, then JO again, and again back off until you are about to bust, repeat as necessary until you get borred, then finish.

Valencia · #7 07-22-2008, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by artie226

if you wanna last longer, ive heard from many people that this actually works. When you JO , go until you are about to bust, then back off for a minute or until the erge go away, then JO again, and again back off until you are about to bust, repeat as necessary until you get borred, then finish.

This does work. If you really have problems losing control, then you have to stop a number of times before you actually let yourself finish.
Also, do kegel exercises... they're good for control and hardness.

Personally, foreplay and some light touching helps me a lot before I actually go inside a girl... but generally, once I actually do go in I can last for as long as I want.
BUT, you have to have control over yourself every time you masturbate. If you get in the habit of finishing early when you're by yourself, you'll carry those habits over to when you're with a girl.
Make sense?

Mr Jack · #8 07-22-2008, 03:02 PM

i might try that, i find i don't last as long if i don't wack of, but i spose if i get used to not actually, yeah, when i wank then i won't get as 'excited' during sex....

i'll keep u all posted!

haha

'jack' love!
x

Chilly · #9 07-26-2008, 03:51 AM

Hey i read somewhere that is the main reason most guys are 2 minute men. Basically when you are jerking it and make yourself go quick, your training yourself to be a quicky... start as they said given yourself some love, then just as your feeling yourself getting close... grab your penis just under the head and squeeze it with your thumb and a finger... not hard enough that you seriously hurt the feller, just hard enough that it stops the sensation in it's tracks (just do it harder then harder till you feel it go (don't brake ya pennis then your really skrewed, or not lol)

after that give it 2 seconds and start again.... if you get bored find a porn that's got a story line to it and watch that... try whack it for the whole movie. Do that and you'll slowly learn to control it...

Hope that helps

Ch!lL

derek817 · #10 07-26-2008, 08:30 PM

but for me personally...a lil. use a thin layer of orajel....use wit a condom. If you put to much you won't feal your dick for like a day...it helps take it off ASAP and use at your own risk bro because it's going to be really hard to cum either the girl will think your gay or that she can't do it right.