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Old 09-14-2007, 10:34 PM
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Usually in a convo, theres a silent point where you look around and so is the girl because they'res nothing going on. What to do from there? Should your bring up something so she keeps talking or whats up?
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Old 09-14-2007, 10:38 PM
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Yes you should, that's a good idea.

Really though, something I learned awhile ago when I didn't know how to keep a conversation going or what to talk about is basically this:
First a conversation is made up of
1. A comment
2. A question
3. A response
(then repeat)
This is very good to have conversations going, and soon enough with that 'formula' above it starts off slow for you (but the point is convo's keep going at your will) and then you learn to make them more interesting, and eventually, it's just second nature.

One other thing I learned is if the convo comes to a dead stop or if you don't know what to talk about next is to repeat the last few words the other person said in question form. So ex:
Person A: Yeah so I really like potato chips.
Silence.... Silence.... (what the hell can person B say?)
Person B:You really like potato chips?
Person A: Yeah I like the ruffles, alhbalhbalhblahblahblahlb.

So even though an obvious as the next question might be (What kind of chips do you like?) the point is you don't know what to say, so you repeated the last few words in a question form, now the conversation continues.
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Old 09-15-2007, 01:08 AM
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Have routines. KNOW what to talk about. Know the emotional progression model.

You should know how to lead a conversation and have enough material for 10 mins non-stop.
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Old 09-15-2007, 02:25 AM
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at times , i allow myself to be silent.. it allows the girls to think for a minute, and kind of slows down incase if girls feel its happening all too fast....

I generally allow the girl to talk and lead the convo, which they do , if they're sufficiently into me...

Also, whenever I start the convo again , its usually my uncomfortableness with the silence.. hence i aloow the girls to start

though at attraction stages , if i'm running out of convo , i usually eject... come back with stronger material.

Hey.. that's my opinion though...
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Old 09-15-2007, 02:27 AM
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have enough material for 10 mins non-stop.
Best thing about it is that when you have routines for 10 mins, you now them very well, and you know you can use them any time, the convo with strangers seems to never stop until someone cuts it. I think that's because the fact of having some material, makes you feel relaxed about having a conversation with strangers, when you know you are not gonna run of stuff to talk about, you can talk and talk and talk not using even single of your routines
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Old 09-17-2007, 09:03 PM
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Hey, part of MM is to know your value. Don't feel the need to fill all the lulls in the conversation. Don't feel the need to always keep the conversation going. Look for IOI's and for hook points. The most important thing is to have Multiple Threads going. Cut her threads if she's boring. Talk about what you wanna talk about. Convey personality, do the cube; whatever, remember process over outcome!
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Old 09-17-2007, 10:34 PM
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I've also heard ... well i made up this rule myself butuh its good to keep the girl talking but dont let her talk to much, make sure you put ur imput in and even though she's talking control the convo... alpha male style whooo :P
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