what to do when you cant isolate

[nighle]

i was just wondering what are you supposed to do when for some reason its impossible to isolate. like one time when we were in some reunion at school with parents and all, and i can run a2 material but its super hard to run consistent kino with the parents there.

or other thing that happened recently, for some reason i ended up going to a restaurant with a newly found friend that i had just met earlier in some place, i said i was hungry and invited him to come along and she brought her friend (he told me she was just her best friend) that initially i didnt like much, but then as the conversation went on (mostly i was talking to this guy because he was cool) i started liking this girl, but i didnt know what to do because as i was the one who invited him, there was no way i could isolate to begin a3 or just to give consistent kino, i could not even use cocky comedy properly, because with my experience, chicks love cocky comedy but it really bothers men, older people and un avaliable women. As i really turn it up, i know that if i start cocky comedy with more men present theyll get annoyed and speak badly about me in the end, so i try not to do it much in front of them (they usually leave, but in this case he couldnt leave cause he came with me to this place unknown to him)

so my question is:
when it is clearly problematic (or impossible) to run a3, cocky comedy, or serious kino, with a girl in the set, is it best just to act social, but in an asexual way, just plain friendly, and then when you get the chance to be alone you start with cocky comedy and kino routines...? or if in the other hand, you wing it even if its a problematic situation: is it best to risk doing a bumpy cocky comedy with a lot of obstacles-interruptions??

[negsta]

With parents:Kino is a social thing, not just a come-on. If you're comfortable with your kino and well calibrated, why not try giving her parents some friendly kino as well? It'll make it less likely that they'll drag you away from their little girl the moment you start touching her, and you can get on with kino as per usual.

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by nighle

i was just wondering what are you supposed to do when for some reason its impossible to isolate. like one time when we were in some reunion at school with parents and all, and i can run a2 material but its super hard to run consistent kino with the parents there.

That's where you number/email close and continue running attraction. Towards end go into comfort. You wouldn't make out with her, but it's good to setup connection and bridge next meeting ...alone.

good luck.

[nighle]

k got it, but what about the other situation?:


another thing that happened recently, for some reason i ended up going to a restaurant with a newly found friend that i had just met earlier in some place, i said i was hungry and invited him to come along and she brought her friend (he told me she was just her best friend) that initially i didnt like much, but then as the conversation went on (mostly i was talking to this guy because he was cool) i started liking this girl, but i didnt know what to do because as i was the one who invited him, there was no way i could isolate to begin a3 or just to give consistent kino, i could not even use cocky comedy properly, because with my experience, chicks love cocky comedy but it really bothers men, older people and un avaliable women. As i really turn it up, i know that if i start cocky comedy with more men present theyll get annoyed and speak badly about me in the end, so i try not to do it much in front of them (they usually leave, but in this case he couldnt leave cause he came with me to this place unknown to him)

so my question is:
when it is clearly problematic (or impossible) to run a3, cocky comedy, or serious kino, with a girl in the set (and leaving isnt an option meaning you have to interact with her)

is it best just to act social, but in an asexual way, just plain friendly, and then when you get the chance to be alone you start with cocky comedy and kino routines...? or if in the other hand, you wing it even if its a problematic situation: is it best to risk doing a bumpy cocky comedy with a lot of obstacles-interruptions??

[nicenomore]

what are your opinions about mini- isolation??

would that be appropriate in this case?