problem!! bouncing all around!!

[nighle]

as i dont want to go into a full fledged report here ill try to be more concise

im finding myself in a situation where due to touring through a city (with all my fellow colledge students, of my generation of course).

So im taking this preclasses tour with my soon to be fellow students (as i changed schools, im the only one that has never met anyone before this, but they do have their little groups of like 5 people in which they all know each other). that means we are together like 30 mins to wait for the bus, then 30 mins inside the bus, then 10 mins outside the place we are visiting, then we take some tour through the place, then we are left to roam around at our pleasure.

I really didnt know what to do in this situation, so i played it by just being super social from the very beggining (which ive become since i started with MM), i just started talking to a group and after making sure i could get back confortably (the bounce back group) and using that initiall willingness to talk to everyone in first day of school, i just started conversations with other groups (looking back, it should have probably been a good idea to merge groups, but we are interrupted often by teachers and the whole getting on and off buses thing so idont know).

So far its been a couple of days of touring and as a result, i can go from one group to another smootly and then just pop up again whenever i want (i have a firm position in at least 4 different groups)

So after a while, i got groups fighting over me, they would like, whenever im talking to some other group, reserve me to go somewhere else that night, or to sit with them in the next ride (which i initially though was a good idea and complied, because i though it was a form of making girls compete with each other)

The problem is i get IOIs from a girl in a group, then some other groups yells and asks me to come with them somewhere else, i go to whatever they reserved me for, run normal game but instead of making things easier, girls actually stop giving me IOIs, then some other girl comes to invite me to go with them, but when i get there, the same girl that pulled me out (not rudely but noticeably) ignores me. Then i tried to punish them by going back to the other group and they like make a big fuss of me coming pack (yay! welcome back baby! kind of thing...) but (you guessed) they pay no real attention to me.

Next time it happened, (i run normal game, get attraction going) i tried not complying in the beggining, like making the girls convince me to go with them and say that im having to much fun here etc, and i did amplyfy the attraction from the girl doing the invitation, but the other girl with which i was talking to and that was giving me huge IOIs instead of competing for me, just plain stops talking to me at all. So i chance groups and the same shit again, i get a huge IOI when i come back (Its so cool that you came back! smile, arm hug) but then she IOIer starts ignoring me again.

I admit i have no experience with this situations and that im like winging it cause i couldnt even find anything here remotely resemblying my situation, but im completely confused and i can tell its not going anywhere. What am i doing wrong??

All help-comments appreciated

[breaks11]

I think, you need to figure out who your target is. Then continue with your game because it seems like you have a solid game, but when you don't aim you can't hit.

Also, when you figure out who- as in which individual girl- is your target. Don't forget cat-string theory. It seems like your running your game not a person but on groups, figure out who the person your targeting is then when the girls give you IOI's it doesn't matter, you'll be looking and noticing what your target is doing. Haha, concentrating on all of them is pulling you apart man! =P

hope this helps