I took the red pill, and I have seen inside the Matrix
Here's a preface to this - this is my first time really using this stuff in the field. I usually can get
Hired Guns to respond to me, and don't really have a problem getting girls I'm introduced to to laugh or enjoy my company, but I usually have a problem building attraction, which is why I got into the PUA thing in the first place. I'm also incredibly overweight (which I'm working on), bald, and hairy in all the wrong places. When I did go out, I was well groomed though, with a freshly shaved head, well trimmed goattee, and some nice duds. I've had several LTRs, but never have built a relationship from just introducing myself in public to someone.
This past Saturday was my buddy Hitman's birthday celebration at a all-nude which has/d a reputation of being a skank factory. This was not my experience. While there were some girls in there that were not very hot, most of the girls were pretty damn hot, and some were just AMAZING.
Hitman goes there often. He's been practicing his PUA game there. Basically, because the girls get hit on all the time, NOT hitting on them (as in the way of the PUA) can be very fruitful. Hitman has had a date out of it already and actually kiss-closed a girl that night (a waitress, very cute). Anyway, the point is to get practice in talking to beautiful girls, to run material by them, and see what works and doesn't work, to use in the "real world". My intention when going tonight was to just have a good time and look at some naked women, but if I could practice some of my material as well, all the better.
Anyway, when I get there, Hitman has already made himself the center of the party, which is how you're supposed to work it. There were 2 (HB9s) girls at the table already (not getting any money from the table BTW) and plenty more dropped in to say hello. I talked with the 2 girls that were already there, but didn't really try anything on them. I did get dances from them later (which I know was a mistake, but whatever, I'm only human). Anyway, when I made my way back to the table from getting a dance or being in the bathroom or something, a new girl was sitting at our table. I told her to get out of my chair so I could sit down, and then had her sit on my lap. I introduced myself after she gave me her name and she said that she had a pit bull named Ironman1231 (really my actual name). So it was a nice in.
We talked for a while and I used some material on her - silk x5, 5 questions, the cube, and spell of attraction. I also ran through the whole "we're married, divorced" gambit over the course of the conversation, and she loved that too. We talked about music and a variety of things and all in all, she was at our table talking to me (and no one else, and making 0 money) for 2.5 hours. She gave me all sorts of IOIs - when I leaned back, she leaned in, when I asked if she could cook, she went on about how good she could cook for like 5 minutes. I did some more stuff like disqualifying myself (I'm too old for you, you're too crazy for me) and escalating
kino (nothing gropy, just light touches on her thighs and knees, and arms and hands). She reciprocated by rubbing her hands through my chest hair and said how much she loved to do that. She kissed me on the cheek a bunch of different times, which was cool.
Anyway, at the end of it all, I told her I needed to leave. I was going to ask her for her number, but SHE BEAT ME TO THE FUCKING PUNCH. She said something to the effect of "come back and see me on Wednesday and I'll give you my number so we can hang out". Now, I know that sounds like BS, but realize I spent a total of 3$ on this girl (giving her dollars while she was on stage). I said "why don't you give me your number tonight so we can hang out" and she said that she wanted to make sure I actually wanted to hang out and not just fuck. So, I grabbed a coupon for 10$ entry on Wednesday, and I'm going back tonight.
Anyway, there's more I can tell, but I'm not sure how relevant it is - Hitman said it was obvious she was into me, and just about everything I did was working. There were some occasional mixed signals - she mentioned a guy she was fucking on the side (and pointed to a wiatress she was fucking as well), but made a point to say that she wasn't interested in a relationship. So I think it was really great practice for me, and so I'm happy that it happened, and I'm looking forward to seeing where else it could go. She could just want a new friend, which is fine with me, but I'm going to work on it NOT going in that direction. I will keep everyone updated.
I didn't mention what she looked like. This girl had a SMOKING hot body. She's half Thai and half German. On a scale of 1-10, she's an 8. She's 18 years old...
I'm 33.
So, I have seen the Matrix. The shit works, for realzies, and wow, having a success like this has really blown my mind.
Anyway, tonight I'm not sure what to run or not to run. I'm still really new at all of this, so I'm not sure where I am in terms of whether or not I should be building comfort or building more attraction. I was thinking of doing things like Style's EV that can do both, and also just some fun conversation pieces like Fuck Marry Kill. She had suggested that we have coffee on Thursday or Friday, so I'm going to try and position it for Friday when I have some things I want to go do. Any suggestions on how to work that in? Any suggestions on comfort building?
I may have gotten in over my head on my first try out of the gates!
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Advice on Day 2 and Beyond, Plus a FR: Strip Club 
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