date with 28 year old woman

[masterH]

so I met her on dating site. we exchanged info about ourselves and I gave her my number but she gave me her number by saying 'I don't call first'
I replied as 'we will see ' and will wait couple days before contacting her.

she is 28, business woman. so obviously it would be kinda weird to ask her to hangout at bowling places things like that.

I am thinking about good sushi place.

should I pick her up?
I should pay for the meal obviously?

this is cheesy question but since I am from out of country, I want to make sure lol....

[DeadEyeDick]

I try to make a first meet something fun and time-limited. To me, the idea is to get together and see if you have any interest in getting to know this chick any better. Coffee or drinks usually works.

Either can be extended if things are going well, are inexpensive even if you decide to pick up the check (almost every woman I've gone out with from an online meeting has offered to split the check before I ever said a word, and the older they have been the sooner they did that), and can be ended early without seeming like you're bailing!

Have fun, and don't overthink it!

[masterH]

yeah coffee place sounds better than AFC style fine dinner lol

so she said 'I don't call first', how can I control her attitude?
I think all I can do is let couple days pass and make her wonder why I don't call her immediately?

[DeadEyeDick]

Well, on the one hand, "I don't call first" sounds stiff, prissy, and like she has a dry snatch. On the other hand, I haven't sent my number unsolicited to a chick in a long time ... I usually get their number, call fairly soon and get things going. I hate wasting time!