33 and at University: Younger Women

[jaysun_d7]

Hey what's up guys?

I started back at university 2 years ago when I was 32. (I will be 34 this year).

I don't think I have to tell you that there are many young and beatiful women at college campuses.

(women seem to be less attractive when they are in their 30's, they let themselves go their noses get bigger or whatever. Probably happens to guys too, but I am active and go to the gym and although I am not a model, I take care of myself. In fact, I am told all the time that I look 27 which is really cool!)

The thing is that I feel and I think the girls feel a little weird about dating a guy my age. I mean, I am often associating with girls who are like 18. That is a pretty huge gap. So far I have not met a girl who has been (openly) turned on by my "maturity." But I bet they go home and think about it eh? Little perverts! I am not ashamed of my age and normally when I am asked I will be honest about it although I think I am going to start following David D's advice on sharing little of myself...DD: How old are you? Woman: How much do you weigh?

I think as soon as I tell them they are crossing me off of the list of potential relationships.

Of course I am physically attracted to these girls and would like to give them pleasure. Some of these girls are probably very intelligent and alot of fun. I don't want to be completely excluded from the lives of younger women!

Any other older guys surrounded by younger women daily ecountering this dilema? Perhaps for you this problem is a thing of the past and you have some useful insights?

Cheers!

[DeadEyeDick]

If you scan through the thread titles in this Forum, you'll find plenty of encouragement for pursuing whomever you want.

Don't let self-limiting beliefs affect who you sarge ... you have to learn to destroy those beliefs ...

[jaysun_d7]

I am 33 and a junior in college.

I want to hook up with some of the younger women but sometimes I think that many of them would not feel comfortable dating or f.ng a guy my age.

[masterH]

style is the first step.
If you wear slacks, put cellphone on your belt, shirts that is tucked in pants things like that, there is no way, you can hang out with them.
biggest fear would be how their friends would think about her.
If you want cute girl, you should change your appearance according to her level. I call that 'mutual respect' lol

[jaysun_d7]

I am pretty much a jeans and t-shirt guy unless I have work after then I have had to dress formally.

I am not the most fashion conscious guy but on the other hand I am not dressing like a target employee.

Thanks for your feedback!

Cheers.

[FemmeFatale]

Alot of them arent comfortable with dating older men.. only because society says its bad..they put a wall up like you said before they know you, so you need to do it through the back door.. and not hit on them obviously or appear to be hitting on them at all.

I hope fashion wise you wear well fitting jeans, polo type tops (doesnt have to be high end designer stuff), fitted jumpers in winter(especially if you're built) etc.. dont dress like a tween and try too hard to blend in.

Like i said , you have to go through the back door or else they'll all put up a guard and not let you in.. so you might have to go down the friends path first to get that guard down.. then you can game.