Kiss and # close-No call back

[Pithore]

I consider myself pretty new to the game. In the past my sticking points have been getting stuck dragging an opener on and on but I'm getting better. This weekend i followed the model pretty well from opener to DHV etc.

I'm 30 and met this great 32 year old at Saturday night. I did a good job moving her about the bar and and transitioning through the phases eventually isolating her and getting her into my lap (I'm in a wheelchair) and getting her to qualify. After awhile I asked her if she wanted to kiss me, she said no and i replied, yea me neither you just looked like you had something on your mind. 5 minutes later she's locking lips and telling me how she loves my lip ring. She was there with a few guy friends and introduced me to her friend Dave. Short interaction but all went well. We exchanged numbers and she told me to make sure I called her tomorrow after 4. I told her I would but only if she remembered my real name, which i hadn't actually told her my real name yet. I then told her and we chilled out a bit more before we both left with our friends separate ways.

I sent her a quick text the next afternoon and left her a message on her phone that night. A few days later no call back so I left another message with some call back humor from our conversations. Still no call back.

The only thing I can think of that I did wrong is maybe not talking to her friends enough and her being embarrassed of making out with some guy she just met in a bar.

This happened to me a few weeks ago as well after kiss closing where it seems a girl is really into it but then won't answer the phone or call back. I only call twice and if no results stop there. how many calls is too much without looking desperate and whats up with the flaking?

[stellar87]

the number my friend is 2 your right on with that one, if they don't get back to you after that, forget them, and get back in the saddle. resarge the clubs. get another girl, if the prior one sees you and tries to talk to you, nonchalantly talk to them if they apologize for not getting back to you, tell them its cool and that you have been busy. if not, keep talking to the other one and mildly talk to the first one she'll get the point and walk off like most men do when girls talk to their own.

[Pithore]

Thanks for the advice, cant wait for the weekend!

[slowboy]

I always find in that situation the best thing is to smile and say "hey, its no big deal" and then politely turn back to your latest target.

seems to spark the energy again like a gallon of gas and a freshly filled zippo!

[spifflove]

This has happened to me before and you are falling into the buyers remorse (player) trap.

You are pumping a girls emotions then when you call her you did not have enough DHV for her to answer. You need to slow it down sailor.

[Pithore]

So...funny thing is I wound up at the same club last weekend and this girl shows up again. Total snub, which was alright cause I had a couple other girls hanging off me and f closed :P

[kicknitinkc]

Yeah, I have been getting a lot of flaky numbers and kcloses lately too. Its kind of discouraging but its a learning experience. Just have to add more material and knowledge to your skillset.

[stellar87]

yup been there done that, screw the flakes, and admire the fool arounds in the club, gives you a hell of a routine to build off of for the next set.