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Old 04-05-2008, 10:40 AM
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I have always dated beautiful women and I have dated this woman for about six months. Before this I was in a three year engagement with another beautiful woman. The relationship crushed me and ended badly. She cheated, we got back, she cheated again and finally we split.
I hit a low, but with the advent of knowledge I started studying and working on myself. I was always decent with women but I started reading the game, Mysterys book, and the forums and throwing myself into the limelight. For three months I sarged with major success and a great confidence and finally met a girl I felt worthy of calling my girlfried.
This girl is a great girl, but it comes with certain unfortunates. We actually only would have sex once a week. She hates to make out and is a hgue germ freak. Nevertheless she is so trustworthy, career driven, and beautiful. We started dating quickly found ourselves labeled.
We had a falling out because I overreacted to her getting body painted one night and thought she was flirting to much. Even though it was her job, I was a douchebag and when she was having fun and making new contacts for her modeling gigs I buzzkilled her. We fought all night and the next day she told me it was over. Also, she is moving and is very OCD. Despite the news, I still helped her move her ENTIRE apartment into a 24 foot truck. We hungout for a lttle bit and stayed at a hotel that night.
I thought we were back on, but we weren't. She kept saying that she was on the fence and did not know. This occured and is still happening now. She said we're done, but then she said she doesnt know. We hungout once this week and she slept over. No sex, just cuddling and she told me that it feels so right to be with me but shes a logical person and the fights (the recurring topic of me being overprotective) kills her and kills her attraction.
I kept trying to get her to say yes and come back. I did a bunch of mistakes and would not give her space. FInally I said fuck it and backed off. Although it kills me, I have not contacted her in a day or so. Sounds like nothing, but when you are with someone every night for six months it shakes you up.
She is hanging out with her friends and staying at her friends house because her new place is not finished yet. She has been hanging out with her friends, but not calling me back.
She lives vicariously through myspace, and her relationship status has not changed to single. I know this means a lot because she has told me that it does. She truly says she needs time.
What is your take on this situation? Is it salvageable? Any guesses on what to happen? Should I refrain from ALL contact?

Need your opinion bros,
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Old 04-05-2008, 10:43 AM
BigDuke6 BigDuke6 is online now  - Male
 
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You DLVed yourself too much with this one. Happens to the best of us. Don't torture yourself. You're looking at a path of misery if you stick around. There's no fun left, and it's too much work to salvage this one. Besides, you weren't having any fun with her germ phobia and her drastically low libido. Next. You don't have to end it ugly, just give her all the space she needs. Look forward to the future. Things will get better. Perhaps not with her, but you can take these lessons you learned and apply them to the next relationships you enter.
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