"Guy in their late 20's are useless"

krackato · #1 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 06:21 PM

I said this to a girlfriend the other day. "Guys in their late 20's are useless." She's 26 years old and agreed.

The way I see it, a guy gets married between 24-25. But if a guy is single between the ages of 25-29, he's looking at 30 and deciding to live it up while he can. Ironically, girls in their mid to late 20's have a whole host of reasons to be dating older guys. All of us in our late 20's are just overgrown children at best.

Anyway, I'm not in my 30's yet, so let me just say it here first, us guys in our late 20's, we're useless (as stable mates). Girls know it. Make 'em realize it. I'll see you guys in a couple of years after I've grown up a bit.

Superxavier · #2 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by krackato

I'll see you guys in a couple of years after I've grown up a bit.

When you get to this thread we will be on the next one.

When you are young you are ignorant, yes, but its easier to have fun, not so many things to worry about.

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kremie · #3 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 11:55 PM

you definitely have no confidence or game, go and get some, get magic bullets or deangelo's book and go out and pick up.

DanJer · #4 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 12:09 AM

HAHAHAHAHAAAA

I'm 28.

And far from useless. Tho since you don't define and reference what you were talking about it could mean anything.

If anything. Wouldn't guys in their late 30's and older who have probably been married, had kids, kids grown up, own their house, job all sorted, etc. Wouldn't they be living it up more?? There's a notorious bar in town full of guys like that, girls looking for daddies go there to meet them.

krackato · #5 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 12:41 AM

Sigh... "as stable mates."

sdnightfly · #6 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 01:33 AM

You mean being wild right up to your 30th birthday and then you'll be ready to walk down the aisle when you hit the BIG 3-0?

I don't think settling down is as important for men as it is for women. Marriage is sort of one-itis for some..there's a need for stability so they will push for the marriage. For others, they found the greatest person as far as they're concerned. They may not be alike, but they are on the same page. They compliment each other, they might bicker in front of friends, but they don't hide how they feel. They aren't putting on a show, which a lot of couples do.

As any woman and she'll tell you "All men are overgrown children".

A lot of women say they have a "type", so do we, but you think they get that type, esp, if they've been burned by that type?

Quote:

Originally Posted by krackato

I said this to a girlfriend the other day. "Guys in their late 20's are useless." She's 26 years old and agreed.

The way I see it, a guy gets married between 24-25. But if a guy is single between the ages of 25-29, he's looking at 30 and deciding to live it up while he can. Ironically, girls in their mid to late 20's have a whole host of reasons to be dating older guys. All of us in our late 20's are just overgrown children at best.

Anyway, I'm not in my 30's yet, so let me just say it here first, us guys in our late 20's, we're useless (as stable mates). Girls know it. Make 'em realize it. I'll see you guys in a couple of years after I've grown up a bit.

kremie · #7 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 09:19 AM

I don't see what relationship this topic has to game. Just as deangelo and all the other guys said, when you get married, great, you can still use the game to keep your relationship successful,etc, just don't go out and cheat on your wife or girl if she's the right one for you. As to guys being useless, that's your opinion, i'm sure there are lot of guys the same age who are living it up and don't feel the least bit useless.

doc · #8 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 10:09 AM

Having read this topic...there`s 40 seconds of my life I`ll never get back.

Mation · #9 (**permalink**) 02-26-2008, 03:01 PM

Dude, I got news for you. I'm 29, I have a good job, I'm going to school to have an even better future, and I have enough experience to know how to have a good time. And I've been married once...kind of enjoying being single at this point in my life. You need to work on your confidence. If you think you are useless, then guess what? You ARE useless. Just my 2 cents.

rodrivers · #10 (**permalink**) 02-26-2008, 09:33 PM

Newbie/AFC. 33 years old. The temptation to find that "special" girl and get married used to weigh heavily on me. Not anymore. Now that I see the possibilities I'll choose to live in female abundance, not scarcity. My bootcamp is in a week. I'm excited. Marriage in the future? Very good chance. For certain though I'll be serial fornicating myself and having a good time. I got the nice house, clothes, good lifestyle. Why move a woman in now?