when a girl asks how many girls u've been with

[Enlightened]

I found out about this community when i first heard about the game and have been reading and studying the books. I haven't really had a chance to go out sarging cause im 18 so I cant get into clubs but my interactions with women have improved. I was at a girls place the other night and we were making out, I was teasin her with push and pull and it was goin well but I got some last min resistance and it didnt get much further. She asked me how many girls I've had sex with and the number is 3 but I didnt know wat a good response would be so I just brushed the question off. Anyone know of a good response to this question?

[doc]

1) you`ve posted in the 30+ section....basically for older guys with older type questions.
2) You`d get a wider response in the General section.
3) It`s SHIT-TEST..plain and simple...
.....does this dress make my ass look fat....?
......which one of my friends would you like to have sex with.....?
4) Gentlemen Do Not kiss and tell...Period......

[sauce]

I agree with Doc, you should have posted in the general area section. However, this was a total shit-test that she gave you. You could use the answer Doc gave you, but she probably wasn't looking for a specific number as much as "feeling" if she gave it up to you that she'd be a slut. What you need to do ANY time you receive this last minute LMR is to totally back away from her and say I understand and act like it doesn't bother you at all. And the important rule here is to act like nothing is wrong!! Always remember push-pull, give-take, and have her chasing you.

[El_Burro]

" Always remember push-pull, give-take, and have her chasing you."
It'd be tough to improve on that advice, so I won't even try. Strong work.
Ain't it amusin'....women recoil at the "how many have you been with" question (and rightly so, it's an unbelievably tacky thing to ask someone). But I've had a few girlies ask me that very question, and I went on to score with them w/o providing anything like a straight answer, so don't be too rattled by a little LMR.
Dunno if this helps anyone else out there, but it helped me a great deal when I finally realized that women cannot HELP being difficult...it is simply in their nature. Therefore, it only makes sense that they respond well if you are difficult to them. And THAT, imho, is why the push-pull, give-take, etc., is so invariably effective......
Burro out.

[NewMan-L]

I have been tested on this lately...
How many - > "Most guys like to try and just jump on everything they can, (look perplexed) I have always selected women of quality (look stead fast)... it wierd because I have always thought it is better to invest time in people who I really like and have interest in rather than trying to impress people." Depending how receptive... "I really have to feel more connected with you before we go further (slight neg)" or "I am surprised you asked me, I guess it is because you feel comfortable enough to ask". I am trying to subtly convey; I am quality, you need to be qualifed to be with me. Or if she is really into you, being very passionate, full kino etc. I am trying to convey we have a connection, and that we are open enough to communicate... play on the 'it just happened' rational.
Regardless it is a test, you are getting close, you know it, she knows it and is trying to protect herself.
newMan-L

[dmelt]

The last girl I was in love with asked me this same question.. just as we were about to have sex for the first time. I faultered and couldn't overcome the LMR. I'd made it a point to never lie to her and I was not about to tell her my real number.. so i said something like "why would you ask that?"
I know, weak.
I told some female friends what happened the next day.. and this is the line they gave back..
"..enough to know what I'm doing but not enough to stop trying."