Phone Game Post questions:
" Hey it's me, I'm gonna be in and out all day but try to catch me. If not I'll talk to you later." Once you have not had your initial voicemail don't ask her to call you back again, instead say you'll talk to her later.
Im confused by this comment. Are you saying this is a VM message you leave her if she has NOT returned a call for your first message? Cause "try to catch me" is call me back, but then you say "talk to you later" and then the once you have not had your initial voicemail... The real question is what does "once you have not had your initial voicemail" mean?
When you do get her on the phone, alwasy make her commit to the call, by asking her to put whatever she's doing away for five minutes to talk to you.
How do you do that without sounding like your a ||||ing salesman? "hey punk, can you talk? got a couple of minutes?" (i feel these are bad) "dont be a punk, put down your hello kitty journal and listen up/to this?"
Third and final question, and I hope you don't think it's stupid. I like the opinion VM suggestion. Your first call, she doesnt pick up, you leave a quick message saying you want to ask her opinion on something, leave number and say call me back (i actually said, i'll talk to you soon, 850 xxx xxxx, bye).
Q: Can you give me a couple of opinion questions? Of course you want to relate it to what you were talking about previous encounter but what if you dont really REMEMBER it. I basically met her, she walked away shortly thereafter and i caught up with an old buddy of mine she was with, she returned and i said my ride was leaving and i had to bounce but i would enjoy talking to you about _____ (dude, maybe i even said id love to talk to you again, throw me your digits and i'll call you tomorrow {i know, poor form}). but i got the number and then (poor form) bounced pretty quickly from group/venue. we texted twice that night at like 230am and i said:
ME: "i hope you dont think i was being rude earlier when i suddenly had to leave, but thats why i got your number JUST SO i could apologize in person for my "rudeness" :-)
HER: Lol it’s cool. You weren’t
ME: Ha! I know…!G’night. I’ll call you tomorrow..
ME: PS. You’re the fastest responder ever!!!
HER: Lol yea. I text super fast. Good night!
Drapoel