How to make girls ur friend?

[Bludbath]

WEll shit... Where do I start here...
I've never really had too many Friend GILRS. In my life I never really considered it realistic to have friends that are girls. I always said that callin a girl your friend is just another way of saying you couldnt fuck her so you settled...

My main problem is... I can be the funny, goofy, fun guy that everyone considers they're friend, or wants to say they're friends with. BUT I dont know exactly how to HANG out with girls in a FRIENDLY way, that wont seem like I'm hitting on em, but just casual.

I have like 3 pretty HIGH value and hot girls that consider me on of their best friends, and they always come to me for advice(like most of my friends do) but I dont know exactly how to become HANG out material to the point where they would want to introduce me to their other friends...


I can only see myself in an awkward position, sitting in the back of her car, while her and her grilfriends go out to da club or something like that.. Its almost like I'm a 1 on 1 Best friend with these girls, but not in their social circles.

How do I slip myself into their circles and combine my own with them?

[Bludbath]

I know a group of Sick Pua's that have extremely high value, but they are the smile and be friendly(but are very exclusive, and kinda stuck up type).

I simply dont see a way into their social circle. I used to be on a flag football team with them, and lived in the same dorm hall, but they're a bit more distant now... I know its all about showing value, but shit to be kinda honest, I dont really have too much Showable value...I am the leader of a massive group of lame friends, and its hard to connect my popular best friends with these other outside pua's who are a part of another circle.....

How do I connect my popular circle, with the high value one I'm not in, and at the same time display value and leadership of my own???

[young dubs]

invite them to join with your friends, or somewhere you're going, bring them into your social circle instead of having them bring you into theirs. and just remind yourself that there's no pressure to be hittin on these girls or tryin to pick them up. Relate to them, when they're in a group, they'll talk about things amongst themselves, and just chime in. become part of the conversation...

or open them...get them talkin about somethin you want, but just cut the thread after a little, and walk away or move about the room...

just be friendly, take an interest in them, relate to them and just be social, don't be weird, or even try hard to make a good impression, it'll come off strange and creepy.

have good energy and from what you said about yourself in the post...be yourself, they'll see a fun guy to hang out with and a connector of social circles who's not trying to hit on them like every other guy, so they'll want to chill more... hope that helps!

Much love,

Dubs