The girl im seeing is off to uni and so am I. . . Can she be trusted...?

TommyC · #1 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 01:17 AM

My 'girl' and i are both off to different universitys about a 125 miles apart.
Now this girls means alot to me we've been seeing each other since april this year (but we have had a thing sometime last year which lasted around 2months, she ended it because i was being too much of a jerk.

She was really into me still and so was i but we were both oblivious to that fact. So she found a rebound to get over me, whereas i improved my self and concentrated on my life. After about 6 months we both started seeing each other again (long story short).

Anyways...she is beautiful so she gets 'hit on' everywhere she goes... the stories she tells me about how guys hit on her are bloody hilarious, it shows how many afcs there are out there. I always say to her "its guys like them that make guys like me look better"

Now i'm a little scared about what could happen to our relationship through uni, i guess we'll be seeing each other about every 2 weeks. She is a decent girl as far as i know (we are both virgins), she might be a little flirtatious with other guys ... but so am i with the ladies (she knows i get 'hit on' by alot of girls too). All girls love attention right?

We've been through alot together over the past year and we have a special bond. We're not officially together and last week i svcked on her t!ts...so i guess she is really into me.

I will be seeing her this week so we will discuss how we plan to go about our situation. Is there anything in specific i should ask her?
Anythoughts on long distance relationships?

Escapade · #2 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 01:37 AM

I'm confused, you said shes your gf... than you said you guys aren't officially together. Which is it bro? lol

lucaluca · #3 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 01:51 AM

well in my honest opinion... People in general cannot be trusted! This is tottaly up to you though, you know her not us. Your guess is better than any of ours. Just keep your options open man so if you suspect anything you can move on fast. Good luck at your new university. Build a social circle and have fun.

TommyC · #4 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Escapade

I'm confused, you said shes your gf... than you said you guys aren't officially together. Which is it bro? lol

Thanks, i just edited it. She is a girl im seeing but we coudlnt make it official because she only broke up from her rebound for me about 2months ago.

chill84 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 05:23 AM

Nope you're fucked. When you see her just be positive, happy for her. Try to fuck her, and wish her the best. When she's gone, just game on knowing that she is probably going to fuck some random dude within the first 2 weeks. It's not your fault bro, it's just college.

dhies · #6 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by chill84

Nope you're fucked. When you see her just be positive, happy for her. Try to fuck her, and wish her the best. When she's gone, just game on knowing that she is probably going to fuck some random dude within the first 2 weeks. It's not your fault bro, it's just college.

What he said.

They'll be MANY pretty and even PRETTIER girls in college.

NumbaOneDesi · #7 (**permalink**) 08-28-2008, 10:00 PM

No. She will get drunk and fuck some other dude.

Sorry bro, but that's how it is. Break it off. Don't even concern yourself with giving a shit about her, or any broad you meet in college.

TommyC · #8 (**permalink**) 08-29-2008, 11:44 AM

Fellas, i took your advice, and we mutually ended it today. I hope i did the right thing because i feel like sh!t right now.

dhies · #9 (**permalink**) 08-29-2008, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by TommyC

Fellas, i took your advice, and we mutually ended it today. I hope i did the right thing because i feel like sh!t right now.

Dude, trust me, you'll get over it. You did the best thing. You have your balls and she respects you.

There will be much hotter and much better girls out there. I've been through the break up thing with a girl I love. It sucked ass and it took me about a month and half to get over her. Plus, there is still a twinge of pain sometimes.

The best thing you can do is hang out with your buds, go out to clubs or whatever and just chill. Heck, get a number or two from different girls.

orgasmatron · #10 (**permalink**) 08-29-2008, 04:12 PM

Hey Guys,

As a general rule unless you train your woman like a PIMP. Odds are they can not be trusted because they use their emotions to rationalize their actions.

Any woman who goes off to college and has a Long Distance whatever.... will cheat.

I've personally have been in bed with a girl when I was in college and early in the morning the answering machine took her boyfriends message and I can hear it out loud because it was back in the late 80's. Sad to hear the guy hoping to hear back from his girlfriend while she was next to me.

Women will lie about having a boyfriend if they meet a guy they want. They will pretend to be single and alone. This does not fly especially if the girl is a 9 or a 10....

Put it to you this way. Will your girlfriend cheat behind your back if the guy she wanted to cheat with was Brad Pitt, George Clooney???

Come on now be real and get real....

-Orgasmatron