Where to go in Sarasota?

I am moving down to Sarasota within the next few months for my new job. I grew up in Venice, so I know the city fairly well, but where are the best places to go for women now? It's much different than when I was in high school. I know of some places on Siesta Key and there are some bars on Main Street, and some new place called Minxx that is in the place where Livingston's used to be. Any help would be appreciated.