FR: Wedding Logistics Problem and Moving Forward Advice

**Blind Boy** · 07-05-2009 08:03 PM

So I went to a wedding last night, had a blast. I got to see a ton of my old school friends and obviously, I met a cool girl along the way.

A lot of the girls at this wedding were smoking hot but most of them had bfs (like the girl I met) or were ex's of guys I am good friends with. I was content eat, drink, catchup and dance the night away with my friends and just chill on pickup.

Then, later in the evening at the bar she walks up to me (one of the bridesmaids - I know, nice right) and introduces herself, "Hey Blind Boy, I don't think we've met, I'm hb8."

I make a joke about her speech earlier and we are on our way. We talk about how we know the couple getting married and it is very easy to talk to her. I already knew at this point she had a bf (I inquired already), but talking to her was fun so I thought "fuck it, might as well."

We are back on the topic of her speech in which she had some trouble holding back the tears. Out of nowhere (I had it in me somewhere) I am talking about how moving and emotional the wedding that while I'm not a crier I was feeling it too. I honestly can't remember the detail of it because the drinks had been flowing all night, but suffice it to say I was pumping her emotions big time and she was buying in. We had some light kino and a lot of smiles and laughs after this and I ask if she is meeting up at the after party and she says yes and I said "good" which a smile and eye contact that conveyed my intentions fairly clearly.

So we head to the after party and she comes in later with some people, I smile at her from across the room and get one back. I tell one of my buddies who knows her what is going down and he says "no chance, but go for it" lol. I figure, she never told ME that she had a bf, so that is probably a good sign.

I chat with her there for a bit and everything is going swimmingly, I'm being my charming drunken self and we are acting like we've known each other a lot longer than 45 mins or so that we have. Still, I am sharing a room at the hotel and so is she so I am already thinking the logistics are fucked. Also she is from a different city so I can't really call her up the next day. I tell her we are having a party in our room after and she/they should stop by.

We head back and have some more drinks, probably not the smartest idea but we are having a great time even if she doesn't show up. They come by a bit later and the details start to escape me here

We talk some more, she's sitting close, lots of touching and friendliness

My memory is hazy here but I (somehow) got back up to her room where there are a couple beds and a dude who is passed right out. I'm thinking "nice, this could work out" and that I'll at least get somewhere with her. But it was not to be, one of the other girls in the room had a small wedding crying fit breakdown and my hb8 had to spend the next hour or so consoling her. I just ended up jetting after a bit, it was late and there was no longer a chance to figure it out.

So now I am looking for some advice. I am actually heading to her city to see some of the same friends from the wedding this wednesday. I definitely want to see her again but I don't have a number or anything. I am thinking of adding her to facebook tomorrow or tuesday and letting her know saturday was fun and I am coming to town so we should go out or do something, or get her number or something along those lines. The trip probably has more logistic problems, like her bf being around and I'm not sure where I can bring her, but damned if I'm not going to give it a shot. My other option is to go through my friends who know her. I can just go to the city and get them to invite her along somewhere. It is more casual that way and I can't decide if that is better or worse. So if anyone has any advice, on what to do, or how to reopen on facebook I'd love to hear it. I've got a couple more weddings this summer and I think I am going to enjoy myself

Cheers guys,

Blind Boy