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    LR: Finally got laid!

    First I just want to thank all of you guys for all the advice I've learned from this site, last night I found myself doing a lot of the things at the club naturally, from preventing getting AMOG'd, to noticing IOI's and capitalizing, having her buy me a drink, and finally initiating a venue change (her apartment ). Just little details that a few months ago I would have totally overlooked like the complete AFC I was. But last night, with great pride I can finally say I'm no longer the 23 year old virgin.

    But it wasn't all that great really... I lowered my standards and I payed the price to get laid for the first time, was it worth it? I think so, I feel much more in control of my sexual destiny now. This girl was thick, like.. really thick. Not downright fat, but she had a belly but a cute face, and the alcohol might've made her look cuter than she did in the morning, lol. But she was going to let me do whatever I wanted, so as a 23 year old virgin, I had to give it the green light.

    We go to her place, start feeling eachother up.. and I start rubbing her down there... and.. it's hairy.. ugh. Maybe I watched too many pornos, but this was a big turn off, even when I was pretty drunk. I took one for the team and went down, tried to just imitate the pornos and well.. let's just say I learned a lot. It didn't smell bad, but not great either. I was too put off by the bush to really enjoy it. Pubes in my mouth.. not cool. hahaha, can't believe I'm writing this but it is what it is.

    And then it was her turn.. I don't know if it was just her, or me.. but her sucking my dick didn't really do it for me, she wasn't very good or something. It was really... dry.. and she kept tugging on my cock in a way that was not very stimulating... haha. Maybe I'm too used to masturbating having been a virgin this long... I don't know.. but for some reason I couldn't get it all the way up. I wasn't really too nervous, but I was over excited probably, and I was thinking thoughts like, "wow I can't believe this girl is sucking my dick. damn why's she gotta be overweight. damn why didn't she shave" way too much, I had a bad headache the whole time.

    So I couldn't quite get it hard enough, and when the time came to put the condom on.. the shit was so tight it just killed the little man. I got in there for a little but you could tell it wasn't meant to be, her thighs were so big, I just wasn't attracted to her. At that point I told myself, "now that you've gotten laid.. technically... from this point forward it's all HB7+'s... now that the pressure to get laid is gone".

    So we chilled out for abit.. and then started back up, this time I fingered her much better, and she tried to give me head but it was futile, so eventually I just started jerkin it and sure enough... the little man came back full power. Came in her mouth and she swallowed, that made the night worth it, hahaha.

    So yeah.. I dunno what to think right now. I always thought since I'd been a virgin so long I'd blow my load right away on the first girl I meet but that doesn't seem to be the case.. maybe I'm desensitized from having watched too much porno... I dunno, maybe I was just too anxious, or the attraction just wasn't there.. she kinda felt bad and was blaming herself.. which inside I kinda agreed with.. but hope this doesn't happen again with a hot HB.



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    congrats, kinda.
    you have it out of the way now. personally i would never go down on a girl with a bush. gross. as for the blowjob if she was drunk she prob had cottonmouth next time get her a glass of water. if im bring a girl home and we have been drinking i always make it a point to bring a glass of water to the bedroom for that reason. i suggest you start doing the same.
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    Don't worry about having to jerk it yourself to get off during sex. I just had sex yesterday with two girls at the same time, one of whom I've wanted to bang for YEARS, and I still couldn't get off unless I just did it myself! Two things that help:

    1) Being less drunk. They call it 'whiskey dick' for a reason!
    2) Be less anxious. This one is obviously harder to help, but being relaxed makes it all go easier.

    And my first girl was a thick one too, you aren't alone Good job buddy. It only gets better from here on out!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ty_200003 View Post
    First I just want to thank all of you guys for all the advice I've learned from this site, last night I found myself doing a lot of the things at the club naturally, from preventing getting AMOG'd, to noticing IOI's and capitalizing, having her buy me a drink, and finally initiating a venue change (her apartment ). Just little details that a few months ago I would have totally overlooked like the complete AFC I was. But last night, with great pride I can finally say I'm no longer the 23 year old virgin.
    Glad you received help, but a little more detail on how you did these things would make a better LR

    But it wasn't all that great really... I lowered my standards and I payed the price to get laid for the first time, was it worth it? I think so, I feel much more in control of my sexual destiny now. This girl was thick, like.. really thick. Not downright fat, but she had a belly but a cute face, and the alcohol might've made her look cuter than she did in the morning, lol. But she was going to let me do whatever I wanted, so as a 23 year old virgin, I had to give it the green light.
    LOL... good job on the honesty... many of us bagged a fatty for our first conquest... just adjust your standards as you get experience.

    We go to her place, start feeling eachother up.. and I start rubbing her down there... and.. it's hairy.. ugh. Maybe I watched too many pornos, but this was a big turn off, even when I was pretty drunk. I took one for the team and went down, tried to just imitate the pornos and well.. let's just say I learned a lot. It didn't smell bad, but not great either. I was too put off by the bush to really enjoy it. Pubes in my mouth.. not cool. hahaha, can't believe I'm writing this but it is what it is.
    I've only found one girl with a full bush, and somehow it was hot on her... can't really explain it. Maybe that I don't get to see it much. Make sure you shave if you want them too, definitely encourages them to stay on the ball. When I went down on a girl with a bush, I avoided most of the pubes by using her hair as handles to pull that shit apart.

    And then it was her turn.. I don't know if it was just her, or me.. but her sucking my dick didn't really do it for me, she wasn't very good or something. It was really... dry.. and she kept tugging on my cock in a way that was not very stimulating... haha. Maybe I'm too used to masturbating having been a virgin this long... I don't know.. but for some reason I couldn't get it all the way up. I wasn't really too nervous, but I was over excited probably, and I was thinking thoughts like, "wow I can't believe this girl is sucking my dick. damn why's she gotta be overweight. damn why didn't she shave" way too much, I had a bad headache the whole time.
    Her mouth being dry is weird, drinking or not. It sounds like this girl was very sexual inexperienced judging by the lack of BJ skills, bush, weight, etc... Next time go for a slutty fatty... j/k

    So I couldn't quite get it hard enough, and when the time came to put the condom on.. the shit was so tight it just killed the little man. I got in there for a little but you could tell it wasn't meant to be, her thighs were so big, I just wasn't attracted to her. At that point I told myself, "now that you've gotten laid.. technically... from this point forward it's all HB7+'s... now that the pressure to get laid is gone".
    That's why god made magnums... they fit much nicer. Sounds like you were in your head a lot on this one... next time try letting go, hopefully with an HB.

    So we chilled out for abit.. and then started back up, this time I fingered her much better, and she tried to give me head but it was futile, so eventually I just started jerkin it and sure enough... the little man came back full power. Came in her mouth and she swallowed, that made the night worth it, hahaha.
    She was probably hungry... =) I love busting in a girl's mouth too.... although I've preferred the facials lately.

    So yeah.. I dunno what to think right now. I always thought since I'd been a virgin so long I'd blow my load right away on the first girl I meet but that doesn't seem to be the case.. maybe I'm desensitized from having watched too much porno... I dunno, maybe I was just too anxious, or the attraction just wasn't there.. she kinda felt bad and was blaming herself.. which inside I kinda agreed with.. but hope this doesn't happen again with a hot HB.
    A lot is different once you're sleeping with more attractive women, keep pressing on... and avoid the big uns...

    Libido
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    Libido. how are you gbetting these girls to go for the facial? i can get any girl to swallow but i cant pull of any girl being okay with a facial
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    LMFAO.... I don't ask.

    Which goes back to the whole, the dirtier I treat em the more they seem to love me...

    Libido
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    ill have to try that out. ill try it on the next new girl i land
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    Some girls will do it by themselves, but that's rare.

    I usually just pull out climb over them, sometimes pinning their arms beneath my legs in the process, and shoot...

    Not the nicest thing to do though...

    Also, sometimes I say I want to come on their chest and just angle it for the face....

    Libido
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    Quote Originally Posted by R V C A View Post
    Libido. how are you getting these girls to go for the facial?
    Suggest it while you're both chatting : joking around about sex...

    I had a girl the other month just say it out of NOWHERE while in bed & it was completely unlike her normal behavior. It def would not have happened if I didn't joke with her about the subject.

    And as Chris Rock says --> You're girl WANTS to do all that nasty shit. You just have to say it the right way ;_)

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