Picking Up A Celebrity Playboy Playmate

Picking Up A Celebrity Playboy Playmate

by Mr M
(Lead Love Systems Instructor)

In the book ‘The Game ’, Style talks about how he ‘number closes’ a playboy playmate. I’m pleased to report that I was able to take things one step further.

I don’t regularly do Field Reports (FR’s) because they take a long time to write and ever since Braddock and I developed Social Circle Mastery, hooking up with hot girls happens with such regularity that it seldom warrants anything to write about. Nonetheless, Savoy asked me personally to write this one up and I believe that I can put in some good information that readers can use to improve their interactions with women.

So here it is...

The name of the Playmate will unfortunately not be divulged because I’m still in contact with her and she has a high media profile – TV appearances, reality TV shows, magazines, etc. [EDIT - NB: I have also removed all pictures now due to privacy reasons and the fact that some people from the forum stalked her (and me), which was creepy]. This is my type of girl. She's super hot, bitchy to most guys, turns heads in the street and has high social value (i.e. has accomplished something with her life). It's (a topic Braddock and I cover in an interview series ) and is something that I teach at . In a recent interview series , Braddock and I go through (i.e. the way that we pick up 9's and 10's). [EDIT: Note all pictures have since been removed due to weird people putting them up on different forums and contacting her.]

Part 1: The Pickup

A few months ago, I led a bootcamp in LA. It was day 2 of the seminar. Dahunter and I were walking into the hotel lobby and waiting for the lifts to the seminar room. As we’re waiting, Dahunter gazes over at the hotel counter.

Dahunter taps me on the shoulder and whispers, ‘Dude, that chick is SO hot.’ Dahunter standards are notoriously high. The guy has incredible game.

I look over my shoulder.

God. He’s right. There is a phenomenally beautiful woman waiting in the hotel lobby. Even in gym clothes, you could tell that this was a genuine 10. The lift ‘dings’, telling us to get in. My mind asks me... ‘Get in or approach?’ As always, there are 500 excuses not to approach and only one good reason to just do it.

I still get some approach anxiety . Everyone does, even if it manifests only in the form of slight hesitation (unless you are a sociopath). However, I have now made it a HABIT to open as part of everyday life. One of the principles that Braddock and I teach in the Inner Game Seminar is that ‘Habit is Destiny’. In short, I have learned to make opening has become one of my habits. My ‘Push Equilibrium’ (another key concept in Revolutionary Inner Game) has expanded.

I walk over... I’ve done this hundreds, possibly thousands of times before. I’m calm. But as I get closer, I realize that this girl is actually a lot hotter than she was from a distance. She gets a little more beautiful with every step. Long blond hair, a voluptuous figure and beautiful features. And seminar starts in 5 minutes. Damn!!

So, the first question is: how do you open a 10 in day game and solidly close her within 5 minutes? Tough ask, even for an instructor.

Well, you can go for a direct approach or an indirect approach. Direct ‘shock and awe’ game works. Full credit to Soul though for all that day and direct game stuff he’s pioneering!

In my experience, for genuine 10’s with high social value , if it is appropriate to execute in the given situation, then I have found that an indirect approach has a slightly better percentage. Of course, if this isn't an option (like when she is walking by on the street, for example), best thing is to go direct. If you want to learn about direct street approaches, Soul is the man.

A particular technique that I like to use is to DHV to people around them first. When a target is stationary/static in day game , I’ll open any set or person near her with a functional opener. It is important that it is a functional opener because the opener NEEDS to be:

• fast;
• low compliance;
• easily transferable to the adjoining set; and
• you need to throw in a DHV in the first 10 seconds or so which is easily observable by the target.

I go for the indirect opener and use social proof .

One of the things we teach students in Social Circle Mastery is that the most credible attraction triggers are conveyed when the woman is indirectly observing you as opposed to when you demonstrate value to her directly through your words. This is not to say that words are not enough to get the job done – they definitely are, but Social Circle Mastery is one of the most advanced looks at game available in the dating industry.

So I open the guy next to her and allow her to soak in DHVs and subcommunications through my interactions with others.

Mr M: ‘Hey buddy… do you know if there’s a place around here where I can get some quick food?’ [Functional opener, delivered just loud enough for her to hear]
GUY: ‘Hmm…’
Mr M: ‘I’ve got to lead a seminar downstairs in 5 minutes but I’m starving and there is something wrong with the meat in this burger (pointing to fast food paper bag in my hand). I'm not even sure its cow...’.

Out of the corner of my eye, I see that she smiles. Two demonstrations of value (humor and leadership), a time constraint, good sub communications and presto - some value is established.

I open her with the same functional opener.

Mr M: You know where I can get healthy beef burger?
The opener burns out super quickly but we transition beautifully.
Playmate: There’s a burger shop down the road.
Mr M: Do they have good burgers?
Playmate: I think so.
Mr M: Made from healthy cows?
Playmate: [Laughs]
Mr M: Thanks. [Body rock, pause and hold eye contact] You know, you remind me of a friend of mine that I used to hang out with while I traveled Australia. Her name was Brenda but we used to call her Bertha. Thanks Bertha [Hold hand out to shake her hand]
Playmate: [Laughs] I really don’t like that name. [shakes my hand].
Mr M: Jesus, I’ve only known you for like 2 seconds and we're already not getting along.

The interaction continues.

I don’t use routines much anymore and take a more principle based approach to game. I mostly use ‘Trigger Words’ – a revolutionary concept developed by my good friend Braddock, which he and I teach exclusively at our bootcamps.

Throughout the interaction I mention my ex, framing my job and what I do as fun and interesting (as interesting as you can make ‘lawyer’ and other things I do to be - see my bio for more about me), push-pulling, teasing etc. Soon, I begin to ‘vibe’ with her – ‘vibing’ is where you get to a point where the ebb and flow of the communication, rather than the content coming from one party, sustains the interaction.

I role-play, tease and even incorporate one or two of my specialty ‘bitch shield destroyers’ as she was quite cold and closed off initially (probably due to the fact that she had been hit on hundreds of times by guys). I re-frame (which has a PROFOUND effect later on – read on). As a side note, I have honestly found that framing is the KEY to getting the 9’s and 10’s. I may write a post about this soon, but it is once again something that I teach at my bootcamps and is something that I will cover in the upcoming Love Systems book on Attraction.

Under a barrage of social weaponry, she’s softening… and the indications of interest come more freely.

I am now very conscious that Dahunter and I need to get to seminar. It’s been like 10 - 15 minute, so we’re getting late.

Dahunter is watching. But I now have a student watching too. Plus, the guy I originally asked about the burger is starting to stare!!

I’ve got an audience… time to 'time bridge' and eject.

I’ve demonstrated enough value. Any other girl would have been putty-in-my-hands already so I close using a standard, but solid, number close: ‘It was cool meeting you. Lets catch up tonight [at the time bridge location]. What’s the best way of getting into contact with you?’ Full credit to my old wing and mate AFC AdamLondon for that line.

She pulls out a card from her purse (surprisingly large one actually), gets a pen and writes her number on it.

I take the card. It reads, ‘[Name], Playboy Playmate, FHM model, Cover Girl on [a bunch of magazines], TV appearances on [about 20 programs including MTV soulmates, NBC, E! etc etc]’. Her mobile phone number is written in pen on the back. And it has a half naked centerfold picture of her on it. Awesome.

For all those newbies out there, and those struggling to mastery... it is THESE TYPES OF MOMENTS that you get into where you think 'SO THIS IS WHY I TRAINED SO HARD!'.

I tease her for being a 'poster girl', say goodbye, smile warmly, walk away and get into the lift. I hand Dahunter the card. He looks at me sheepishly. We both start to laugh. Poor guy says it was a turning point for him not to hesitate as it should have been him! Since that time, I have never seen a better opener than Dahunter lol.

Part 2: The Night

After getting the phone number, I teach the bootcamp. I love bootcamp. Teaching is one of my passions. Game and social dynamics the other. Bootcamp is the perfect marry between the two.

I call her that afternoon to arrange to meet up. I had solidly time-bridged but like all hot women on a cold approach, I expected flakiness (note that you get a lot less flakiness if you get her through the social circle route, which is a tenet of Social Circle Mastery).

I dial the number.

The phone rings.

And rings.

And rings.

No pick up.

Goddamn it.

I thought she'd flaked – it sometimes happens with hot girls, especially if you didn't build enough emotional investment or value in the initial interaction.

Nonetheless, true to the abundance mentality (once again, a crucial concept we really dig deep into in Inner Game), it didn’t matter to me a single bit.

I throw the phone to Dahunter and go have a shower to get ready for in-field portion of the bootcamp.

5 minutes later, I come out and Dahunter is sitting on our hotel bed, smirking at me. ‘Txt game’, the cowboy says. ‘The low compliance alternative’.

He throws the phone back to me. Dahunter had used texts messages to get two replies from her.

Don’t underestimate the power of text messaging. While a girl may not pick up the phone for fear of social awkwardness, she will seldom not reply to a good text. Throughout the evening, we texted back and forth. I followed basic txt game principles:

• Don’t appear too eager
• Try to be light-hearted, succinct and funny
• Always appear to be having a more fun and interesting time than she is
• Make your responses come at unpredictable times

If you are interested in good text game , here is a free chapter of The Ultimate Guide To Phone And Text Game for forum readers only: http://www.lovesystems.com/publicati...me-book-sample.

It was lively. We teased, mocked, bantered. After about 5 exchanges, I got her qualifying. Getting a 10 to qualify is absolutely KEY. I can't emphasize this enough. See my post on Qualification here: Guide To Qualification

I demonstrated value using all of my regular txt techniques and made her sporadically wait for a reply – which had the effect of her sending the same message (to make sure I got it). I achieved the ‘Tempo’ (a concept that I invented which I teach on my bootcamps and cover in Braddock's upcoming text game product) of the text interaction.

She asked me to come and meet her at the bar that she was at.

I replied that she should come and meet me (in truth – I was running a bootcamp so quite lucky she didn’t come – I like to focus on the students). This is often something hot women will do – make you come to a place where she is surrounded by guys and has the highest social value . Don’t do it and if you do… take a wing to vibe off (can’t go into advanced winging or the social dynamics as to why right now, but trust me, it’s a good idea).

Very soon, after lots of back and forth banter, she sent me a txt that said, ‘why don’t you just swing by to my place and we’ll have a drink’.

Booya!

At this point, bootcamp had finished, so we drive over.

Dahunter goes into her room with me.

I’m not going to document everything I said here but I think this may have been some of the most insane 2 hours of game that I think that I have ever been in. Really testing stuff.

The strangest thing is that her intuition about men was off the chart. She floored me with her insights into my world when I opened up. She also made cold reads on Dahunter after he left. The next day, I told Dahunter some of the things that she had said about him… and he freaked out completely. What an amazing girl – it is very rare I meet anyone with that sort of intuition.

Dahunter was respectful. He could have tried to game her as well. That would have likely led to a collapse for the both of us. I asked him not to prior to coming into the room. Too many guys I’ve met from this ‘community’ DO NOT know how to wing properly. Dahunter and Braddock are by far the best wings that I have ever had.

GOLDEN RULE NO. 1: You DHV your wing and respect his call.

Enough from me… Dahunter agreed to write up what happened in the hotel room, from his point of view:

Let me start by saying Mr. M is not what you would imagine at first. You hear about his mad skills, but he’s definitely not the best looking guy and he comes in “under the radar.” But as soon as he opens his mouth, you realize that he’s a monster of social value . His sub-communications are really calibrated for what Braddock and I refer to as “10 game,” which means dating exceptionally beautiful and high-status women. He covers this really well in his bootcamps.

So, back when she texted Mr. M to come over to her hotel, we had no details of who else was there or any other logistical problems that could come up. I say “we” because I was highly interested in seeing my friend Mr. M"]Mr. M [/URL] succeed with one of the hottest women I’ve ever seen, so I was involved in the entire text messaging process through the night by learning from his “10 game” and also throwing out my suggestions on any ideas I had to send the perfect text message every time. Like anyone who knows what they are doing, I first learned a lot of the basics from Savoy and Sinn ’s interview on phone game.

We were in a cab thinking of the possible variables of the situation. He could get there and it could turn out that there were more people there, which would have made him the outsider. This is one of the reasons I offered to go in with him, so if there were other people Mr. M wouldn’t be by himself. If she was by herself, I could have a drink and then leave, but my initial presence would also help, because it would imply that Mr. M didn’t just show up expecting sex, which might have initially turned her off.

When we get there, she was by herself. We go in, I have a couple of drinks and just observe Mr. M’s game. She just starts talking naturally about the celebrities she hangs out with and things she has done, and Mr. M systematically demonstrates equivalent or greater value each time, showing that he is at her level and he is used to women of her level. This is a key element to attracting exceptionally beautiful and high-status women. I play a role in this by agreeing with Mr. M and chiming in to enhance the stories that show his value. I also have fun with the process by sending him text messages saying things like “Tag Team!” – if you’re not having fun, then dating science isn’t for you.

After a while, it was time for me to leave. It was a sort of celebration and a lesson at the same time. I had done everything I could to help my friend get with one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. The biggest lesson was that I was originally going to approach her, but I pushed Mr. M to do it instead, and now he’s the one with the Playmate story to tell. As Mr. M says: “who dares wins.”

-- Dahunter

Back to me. To cut a long story short, it took me about an hour and about 5 different kiss attempts to actually get with her IN HER ROOM. Remember guys - if you are pushing the escalation, you may have to try more than once for the kiss close - particularly if you are pushing the boundaries of the natural time progression of seduction . The key is to be unreactive to the first rejection. If she stays there after that, you have green light to escalate and try again. Of course, you want to avoid this if possible by having an easy progression of touch / kino .

Out of this experience actually came what is now my favorite k-closes. This is only because I tried them ALL and she rejected me on ALL of them!

The technique I use now, which is the one that actually worked, was, without going word for word into it, to create an intensely good feeling through either emotional connection or laughter. Then cut it dead and say that I think I should leave. Importantly, she has to feel that loss. Then hesitate slightly. Then kiss her!

The core idea is that the feeling of loss (the threat of you going away) overwhelms the instinct to push you away again.

In retrospect, what got things really going was the reframing. It’s not something emphasized enough in pick up. I know everyone has different experiences with this but I've found the real 9's and 10's (and when I say 10, I mean looks and social value ) really respond to it. Reframing is basically changing the overriding assumption of the conversation so that the sexual selector. For example, with the Playmate, I was saying things about like how LA girls are too touchy feely and can't keep their hands to themselves at bars. Or things like how I can’t ever find a girl that’s loyal, fun and a sexual freak. I've got a whole bunch of routine based ones in my head, but tend not to use them so much anymore. Reframing becomes natural after you become good at this and actually have abundance.

In fact, I'd reframed SO much and so successfully that while we were lying together in the aftermath, she said to me - 'I bet you're one of those guys who girls like me go crazy for all the time.' I was like, 'What do you mean?'. She's like, 'you know, FHM models, playmates and that'. I’m like 'Why?'. She's like, 'Well because you think like us – I mean, women treat you the way guys treat us'. Reframing. Tell me it’s not phenomenally powerful. As a general note, reframing can have a massive effect on any human interaction. It is also usable as an extremely potent social technique for social manipulation and control (for more on social dynamics, social techniques and manipulation of social dynamics, see the four part article series called Revealing the Social Matrix here).

It took quite a while to get her top off. I’m not going to go into the details of what came after – it’s not my style. Suffice to say we had a lot of fun. It was not a full close, but close (in the end, I had to leave to teach seminar the next day and was also due to fly back to the UK and had to pack). But there is plenty to learn from this.

Best,

Mr M

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Thanks.

Sorry for the temporary detour, MrM, and the Field Report is a textbook chapter in itself! Awesome work.

FYI, I'm staying with Mr M right now and he really does practice what he preaches. Here's a photo of the stripper from last night on the cage at the venue (guess she likes to climb things on her day off as well):

[photo deleted by moderator]

TGO lifestyle... inspiring!

PS Slept on the couch so he could pull back this lay. Karma Points ++

Originally Posted by black_swan

FYI, I'm staying with Mr M right now and he really does practice what he preaches. Here's a photo of the stripper from last night on the cage at the venue (guess she likes to climb things on her day off as well):



TGO lifestyle... inspiring!

PS I had to fucking sleep on the couch for this lay with drunken Ed snoring til 6 am. He owes me big time. I plan on taking full advantage of the karma points I've earned.

Cash in on his ass! Make him sleep on the Budha bag



TGO + Supernova = Hot Sauce......



-Braddock

I can't wait for the super conference , I'll see all of you there =D

Peace

I know I'm going to get flamed for this one... but.... With all due respect, any one can post a picture of a hot chick. Why don't you show pictures of the two of you together! Not just some modeling photo and saying yeah I banged that chick. I didn't read the post at all but did notice the pictures looked very professionally snap shot taken in the photo shoots...

Originally Posted by Mr M

Picking Up A Celebrity Playboy Playmate

by Mr M
(Lead Love Systems Instructor)

In the book ‘The Game ’, Style talks about how he ‘number closes’ a playboy playmate.

I’m pleased to report that I was able to take things one step further.

I don’t regularly do Field Reports (FR’s) because they take a long time to write and ever since Braddock and I developed Social Circle Mastery, hooking up with hot girls happens with such regularity that it seldom warrants anything to write about. Nonetheless, Savoy asked me personally to write this one up and I believe that I can put in some good information that readers can use to improve their interactions with women.

So here it is...

The name of the Playmate will unfortunately not be divulged because I’m still in contact with her and she has a high media profile – TV appearances, reality TV shows, magazines, etc. I may put pictures of her up on the Lounge, but here are some not-so-easy-to-identify photos which have been also been modified to prevent recognition:





This is my type of girl.

She's super hot, bitchy to most guys, turns heads in the street and has high social value (i.e. has accomplished something with her life).

It's (a topic Braddock and I cover in an interview series ) and is something that I teach at . In a recent interview series , Braddock and I go through (i.e. the way that we pick up 9's and 10's).

Please note - if you do recognize her, I would really appreciate if you kept it to yourself. We still get together when I'm in LA. Please guys, I really mean this, I am risking a lot putting these up, particularly given her public status.

Part 1: The Pickup

A few months ago, I led a bootcamp in LA. It was day 2 of the seminar. Dahunter and I were walking into the hotel lobby and waiting for the lifts to the seminar room. As we’re waiting, Dahunter gazes over at the hotel counter.

Dahunter taps me on the shoulder and whispers, ‘Dude, that chick is SO hot.’ Dahunter standards are notoriously high. The guy has incredible game.

I look over my shoulder.

God. He’s right.

There is a phenomenally beautiful woman waiting in the hotel lobby.

Even in gym clothes, you could tell that this was a genuine 10.

The lift ‘dings’, telling us to get in. My mind asks me... ‘Get in or approach?’

As always, there are 500 excuses not to approach and only one good reason to just do it.

I still get some approach anxiety . However, I have now made it a HABIT to open as part of everyday life. One of the principles that Braddock and I teach in the Revolutionary Inner Game Seminar is that ‘Habit is Destiny’. In short, I have learned to make opening has become one of my habits. My ‘Push Equilibrium’ (another key concept in Revolutionary Inner Game) has expanded.

I walk over...

... and begin to see the proverbial game ‘matrix’.

I’ve done this hundreds, possibly thousands of times before.

I see the angles of approach and tactically decide on the best approach.

I’m calm. But as I get closer, I realize that this girl is actually a lot hotter than she was from a distance. She gets a little more beautiful with every step. Long blond hair, a voluptuous figure and beautiful features.

And seminar starts in 5 minutes. Shit.

So, the first question is: how do you open a 10 in day game ?

And solidly close her within 5 minutes... tough ask, even for an instructor.

Well, you can go for a direct approach or an indirect approach. Direct ‘shock and awe’ game works. Full credit to Soul though for all that day and direct game stuff he’s pioneering!

In my experience, for genuine 10’s with high social value , if it is appropriate to execute in the given situation, then I have found that an indirect approach has a slightly better percentage. Of course, if this isn't an option (like when she is walking by on the street, for example), best thing is to go direct.

If you want to learn about direct street approaches, Soul is the man.

A particular technique that I like to use is to DHV to people around them first. When a target is stationary/static in day game , I’ll open any set or person near her with a functional opener. It is important that it is a functional opener because the opener NEEDS to be:

• fast;
• low compliance;
• easily transferable to the adjoining set; and
• you need to throw in a DHV in the first 10 seconds or so which is easily observable by the target.

I go for the indirect opener and use social proof .

One of the things we teach students in Social Circle Mastery is that the most credible attraction triggers are conveyed when the woman is indirectly observing you as opposed to when you demonstrate value to her directly through your words. This is not to say that words are not enough to get the job done – they definitely are, but Social Circle Mastery is one of the most advanced looks at game available in the dating industry.

So, what do I do? I open the guy next to her.

I allow her to soak in DHVs and subcommunications through my interactions with others.

Mr M: ‘Hey buddy… do you know if there’s a place around here where I can get some quick food?’ [Functional opener, delivered just loud enough for her to hear]
GUY: ‘Hmm…’
Mr M: ‘I’ve got to lead a seminar downstairs in 5 minutes but I’m starving and there is something wrong with the meat in this burger (pointing to fast food paper bag in my hand). I'm not even sure its cow...’.

Out of the corner of my eye, I see that she smiles. Two demonstrations of value (humor and leadership), a time constraint, good sub communications and presto - some value is established.

I open her with the same functional opener.

Mr M: You know where I can get healthy beef burger?
The opener burns out super quickly but we transition beautifully.
Playmate: There’s a burger shop down the road.
Mr M: Do they have good burgers?
Playmate: I think so.
Mr M: Made from healthy cows?
Playmate: [Laughs]
Mr M: Thanks. [Body rock, pause and hold eye contact] You know, you remind me of a friend of mine that I used to hang out with while I travelled Australia. Her name was Brenda but we used to call her Bertha. Thanks Bertha [Hold hand out to shake her hand]
Playmate: [Laughs] I really don’t like that name. [shakes my hand].
Mr M: Jesus, I’ve only known you for like 2 seconds and we're already not getting along.

The interaction continues.

I don’t use routines much anymore and take a more principle based approach to game. I mostly use ‘Trigger Words’ – a revolutionary concept developed by my good friend Braddock, which he and I teach exclusively at our bootcamps... combined with a few normal conversational techniques taught to me by Seb Drake from The Approach.

Throughout the interaction I mention my ex, framing my job and what I do as fun and interesting (as interesting as you can make ‘lawyer’ and other things I do to be - see my bio for more about me), push-pulling, teasing etc. Soon, I begin to ‘vibe’ with her – ‘vibing’ is where you get to a point where the ebb and flow of the communication, rather than the content coming from one party, sustains the interaction.

I role-play, tease and even incorporate one or two of my specialty ‘bitch shield destroyers’ as she was quite cold and closed off initially (probably due to the fact that she had been hit on hundreds of times by guys). I re-frame (which has a PROFOUND effect later on – read on). As a side note, I have honestly found that framing is the KEY to getting the 9’s and 10’s. I may write a post about this soon, but it is once again something that I teach at my bootcamps and is something that I will cover in the upcoming Love Systems book on Attraction.

Under a barrage of social weaponry, she’s softening… and the indications of interest come more freely.

I am now very conscious that Dahunter and I need to get to seminar. It’s been like 10 - 15 minute, so we’re getting late.

Dahunter is watching. But I now have a student watching too. Plus, the guy I originally asked about the burger is starting to stare!!

I’ve got an audience… time to 'time bridge' and eject.

I’ve demonstrated enough value. Any other girl would have been putty-in-my-hands already so I close using a standard, but solid, number close: ‘It was cool meeting you. Lets catch up tonight [at the time bridge location]. What’s the best way of getting into contact with you?’ Full credit to my old wing and mate AFC AdamLondon for that line.

She pulls out a card from her purse (surprisingly large one actually), gets a pen and writes her number on it.

I take the card. It reads, ‘[Name], Playboy Playmate, FHM model, Cover Girl on [a bunch of magazines], TV appearances on [about 20 programs including MTV soulmates, NBC, E! etc etc]’. Her mobile phone number is written in pen on the back.

And it has a half naked centerfold picture of her on it. Awesome.

There is a eerie silence in my mind. Or is that an audience applauding?

For all those newbies out there, and those struggling to mastery... it is THESE TYPES OF MOMENTS that you get into where you think 'SO THIS IS WHY I TRAINED SO HARD!'.

I tease her for being a 'poster girl', say goodbye, smile warmly, walk away and get into the lift. I hand Dahunter the card. He looks at me sheepishly. We both start to laugh. Poor guy says it was a turning point for him not to hesitate as it should have been him! Since that time, I have never seen a better opener than Dahunter lol.

Part 2: The Close

After getting the phone number, I teach the bootcamp. I love bootcamp. Teaching is one of my passions. Game and social dynamics the other. Bootcamp is the perfect marry between the two.

I call her that afternoon to arrange to meet up. I had solidly time-bridged but like all hot women on a cold approach, I expected flakiness (note that you get a lot less flakiness if you get her through the social circle route, which is a tenet of Social Circle Mastery).

I dial the number.

The phone rings.

And rings.

And rings.

No pick up.

Goddamn it.

I thought she'd flaked – it sometimes happens with hot girls, especially if you didn't build enough emotional investment or value in the initial interaction.

Nonetheless, true to the abundance mentality (once again, a crucial concept we really dig deep into in Revolutionary Inner Game), it didn’t matter to me a single bit.

I throw the phone to Dahunter and go have a shower to get ready for in-field portion of the bootcamp.

5 minutes later, I come out and Dahunter is sitting on our hotel bed, smirking at me. ‘Txt game’, the cowboy says. ‘The low compliance alternative’.

He throws the phone back to me. Dahunter had used texts messages to get two replies from her.

Don’t underestimate the power of text messaging. While a girl may not pick up the phone for fear of social awkwardness, she will seldom not reply to a good text.

Throughout the evening, we texted back and forth. I followed basic txt game principles:

• Don’t appear too eager
• Try to be light-hearted, succinct and funny
• Always appear to be having a more fun and interesting time than she is
• Make your responses come at unpredictable times

Also, see Braddock's upcoming text game product for info on text game . The guy is a MONSTER at text game , seriously. I've rarely seen anyone as good at text game . It's going to be an amazing product (note to mention, I am writing a key chapter).

It was lively. We teased, mocked, bantered. After about 5 exchanges, I got her qualifying. Getting a 10 to qualify is absolutely KEY. I can't emphasize this enough. See the essential post on Qualification here: Guide To Qualification

I demonstrated value using all of my regular txt techniques and made her sporadically wait for a reply – which had the effect of her sending the same message (to make sure I got it). I achieved the ‘Tempo’ (a concept that I invented which I teach on my bootcamps and cover in Braddock's upcoming text game product) of the text interaction.

She asked me to come and meet her at the bar that she was at.

I replied that she should come and meet me (in truth – I was running a bootcamp so quite lucky she didn’t come – I like to focus on the students). This is often something hot women will do – make you come to a place where she is surrounded by guys and has the highest social value . Don’t do it and if you do… take a wing to vibe off (can’t go into advanced winging or the social dynamics as to why right now, but trust me, it’s a good idea).

Very soon, after lots of back and forth banter, she sent me a txt that said, ‘why don’t you just swing by to my place and we’ll have a drink’.

Booya!

At this point, bootcamp had finished, so we drive over.

Dahunter goes into her room with me.

I’m not going to document everything I said here but I think this may have been some of the most insane 2 hours of game that I think that I have ever been in. Really testing stuff.

The strangest thing is that her intuition about men was off the chart. She floored me with her insights into my world when I opened up a little bit. She also made cold reads on Dahunter after he left. The next day, I told Dahunter some of the things that she had said about him… and he freaked out completely. What an amazing girl – it is very rare I meet anyone with that sort of intuition.

Dahunter was respectful. He could have tried to game her as well. That would have likely led to a collapse for the both of us. I asked him not to prior to coming into the room. Too many guys I’ve met from this ‘community’ DO NOT know how to wing properly. Dahunter, AFC AdamLondon and Braddock are by far the best wings that I have ever had.

GOLDEN RULE NO. 1: You DHV your wing and respect his call.

Enough from me… Dahunter agreed to write up what happened in the hotel room, from his point of view:

Let me start by saying Mr. M is not what you would imagine at first. You hear about his mad skills, but he’s definitely not the best looking guy and he comes in “under the radar.” But as soon as he opens his mouth, you realize that he’s a monster of social value . His sub-communications are really calibrated for what Braddock and I refer to as “10 game,” which means dating exceptionally beautiful and high-status women. He covers this really well in his bootcamps.

So, back when she texted Mr. M to come over to her hotel, we had no details of who else was there or any other logistical problems that could come up. I say “we” because I was highly interested in seeing my friend Mr. M"]Mr. M [/URL] succeed with one of the hottest women I’ve ever seen, so I was involved in the entire text messaging process through the night by learning from his “10 game” and also throwing out my suggestions on any ideas I had to send the perfect text message every time. Like anyone who knows what they are doing, I first learned a lot of the basics from Savoy and Sinn ’s interview on phone game.

We were in a cab thinking of the possible variables of the situation. He could get there and it could turn out that there were more people there, which would have made him the outsider. This is one of the reasons I offered to go in with him, so if there were other people Mr. M wouldn’t be by himself. If she was by herself, I could have a drink and then leave, but my initial presence would also help, because it would imply that Mr. M didn’t just show up expecting sex, which might have initially turned her off.

When we get there, she was by herself. We go in, I have a couple of drinks and just observe Mr. M’s game. She just starts talking naturally about the celebrities she hangs out with and things she has done, and Mr. M systematically demonstrates equivalent or greater value each time, showing that he is at her level and he is used to women of her level. This is a key element to attracting exceptionally beautiful and high-status women. I play a role in this by agreeing with Mr. M and chiming in to enhance the stories that show his value. I also have fun with the process by sending him text messages saying things like “Tag Team!” – if you’re not having fun, then dating science isn’t for you.

After a while, it was time for me to leave. It was a sort of celebration and a lesson at the same time. I had done everything I could to help my friend get with one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. The biggest lesson was that I was originally going to approach her, but I pushed Mr. M to do it instead, and now he’s the one with the Playmate story to tell. As Mr. M says: “who dares wins.”

-- Dahunter

Back to me. To cut a long story short, it took me about an hour and about 5 different kiss attempts to actually get with her IN HER ROOM. Remember guys - if you are pushing the escalation, you may have to try more than once for the kiss close - particularly if you are pushing the boundaries of the natural time progression of seduction . The key is to be unreactive to the first rejection. If she stays there after that, you have green light to escalate and try again. Of course, you want to avoid this if possible by having an easy progression of touch / kino .

Out of this experience actually came what is now my favorite k-closes.

This is only because I tried them ALL and she rejected me on ALL of them!

The technique I use now, which is the one that actually worked, was, without going word for word into it, to create an intensely good feeling through either emotional connection or laughter.

Then cut it dead and say that I think I should leave.

Importantly, she has to feel that loss.

Then hesitate slightly.

Then kiss her!

The core idea is that the feeling of loss (the threat of you going away) overwhelms the instinct to push you away again.

In retrospect, what got things really going was the reframing. It’s not something emphasized enough in pick up. I know everyone has different experiences with this but I've found the real 9's and 10's (and when I say 10, I mean looks and social value ) really respond to it. Reframing is basically changing the overriding assumption of the conversation so that the sexual selector. For example, with the Playmate, I was saying things about like how LA girls are too touchy feely and can't keep their hands to themselves at bars. Or things like how I can’t ever find a girl that’s loyal, fun and a sexual freak. I've got a whole bunch of routine based ones in my head, but tend not to use them so much anymore. Reframing becomes natural after you become good at this and actually have abundance.

In fact, I'd reframed SO much and so successfully that while we were lying together in the aftermath, she said to me - 'I bet you're one of those guys who girls like me go crazy for all the time.' I was like, 'What do you mean?'. She's like, 'you know, FHM models, playmates and that'. I’m like 'Why?'. She's like, 'Well because you think like us – I mean, women treat you the way guys treat us'. Reframing. Tell me it’s not phenomenally powerful.

As a general note, reframing can have a massive effect on any human interaction. It is also usable as an extremely potent social technique for social manipulation and control (for more on social dynamics, social techniques and manipulation of social dynamics, see the four part article series called Revealing the Social Matrix here).

It took quite a while to get her top off. I’m not going to go into the details of what came after – it’s not my style. Suffice to say we had a lot of fun.

But in summary, I met her THAT DAY, in the DAY TIME, for 10 MINUTES and I was in bed with her THAT NIGHT - a celebrity, a 10 and a playboy playmate in LA.

To the London boys (5.0, Vercetti, Kevsta, Soul, Paladin and others) living TGO (Ten Game Only)… that's 10 game baby!

Best,

Mr M

I agree with the above could you post pictures with the girl just like sitting on a couch or something?

Hey Mr. M , quick question:
What would you have done if the guy you opened next to the playmate knew a place and immediately said: there's a place down the road. I'd like to use that technique some time in the future, but if it backfires I need a way to save the approach lol