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    failure

    I did alla the procedures from A1 to A3, I spent almost 20 minutes tryng to build attraction woth this HB10 that I founnd. I nag her, I talked to her, I made her jealous by talking to some other girls thilw I talked to her. She even dared me to get some other girl's phone number (which I did) and nothing !!!
    She ran out with another guy !!!!! She would not even give me her phone number! I was devastated.
    Any advice here> I sure need it.


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    I nag her

    You nagged her? No wonder you got nowhere (jk I hope you meant neg)...

    Attraction, for a 10, usually takes a good hour to accomplish, and thats when your presentation and execution are top-notch. What kind of material did you use?

    Once mistake you did in your post, you did what she told you making you easy. It was a shit test. You might have been closer to accomplish attraction if you had reframed ("You bring her here, then I might try to get her #...if I feel like it)...with 10s you gotta present yourself like YOU are the commodity, NOT them. If that is even in the back of her mind, she will blow you out and love every second of it. Don't forget you were probably the 50th guy to hit on her that day
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    Boy I was drunk when I wrote all that ... sorry! I did mean Neg her (apparently not enough though)

    Thanx for the reply Vulture629! An hour? I thought attraction was a simple thing to do! BTW could you explain commodity please?

    Today I realized what my mistake was, I showed interest and she SAW it. By doing this I lost value.

    I'm still calibrating, oh well! Tonight's another night.
    Any other comments anyone>?
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    Wow based on the difference between the two posts, you mustve been really drunk when you wrote that.

    That, in fact, was one of your problems. Do not get drunk while sarging. You will not be able to think as clearly and you will not be as on top of your game. That's something to keep in mind for next time.

    Also, attraction DOES take longer with 10s depending on how tight your game is. For me, it usually takes around 40 minutes with a 10 (ive found few to sarge around here lately, but I've sarged my fair share). The negging was good too.

    It would help us out a little more if you told us what material you used and details about how the interaction went. That way, we can point you in the right direction (if you arent already) when it comes to how the interaction was supposed to have gone.

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    AND you jumped into her frame by getting the number from the other girl when she dared you.

    While you were busy getting the number, she was hooking up with some other dude.


    I would have baited her.

    HB: I dare you to get her number.

    Me: Give me YOUR number and we'll see.


    Instant re-frame, and she can either jump through your hoop or not give you the number. Your fallback plan would be to go sarge the other girl.


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    Quote Originally Posted by cheez avenger View Post
    AND you jumped into her frame by getting the number from the other girl when she dared you.


    I would have baited her.

    HB: I dare you to get her number.

    Me: Give me YOUR number and we'll see.


    Instant re-frame, and she can either jump through your hoop or not give you the number. Your fallback plan would be to go sarge the other girl.


    -cheez avenger
    Freaking outstanding advice, Thanks. IF we could only shorten this trial/error phase ...... huh?
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