You've probably already blown it by NOT leaving a message... you know she saw he missed calls. I ALWAYS leave a message the first time and do so with real confidence that she will return my call. If you dont have the real confidence, fake it. Be non-chalant and throw in a small
neg.... something like:
"Hey it's ppenguin, just wanted to see if you were still cool. Call me back."
Or even better is to throw in a reference to a
neg you have already used like:
"Hey its that guy you can't stop thinking about. Just checking to see if you've figured out how to keep track of your purse. Call me and maybe I'll let you come over and meet my goldfish."