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OK last night I was at the hard rock ...
Urgent help needed with this one!
OK last night I was at the hard rock and pulled this smokin drunk chick. We hungout for awhile and I gamed her until she decided we should go back up to her room, I'm thinking OK that was easy. When we get up there her roommate was up there fucking some dude when we walked in so that kind of freaked her out and we went back downstairs to look for her purse which she realized that she had lost. In this process she started making fun of the dude her friend was fucking. I watched her gamble and shared drinks that she paid for while I was playing with her thong and smacking her ass we finally tracked down her purse. Again we went upstairs to the same thing, it was at this point she suggested we go to my place which totally freaked her roommate out, the dude started to get dressed and was going to take this other chick to his room but her fucking roommate cock blocked me and barely let me say goodbye. I did have a brief makeout session and she offered me her number and we're supposed to hang tonight but wouldn't you know she is not answering her phone. I've always been told not to leave a message but then again I don't want to keep calling this chick every 1/2 hour to set things up for tonight and look too anxious. How should I proceed ?
dONT rush it....wait till tommarow or later 2nite to call
What about the fact she probably didn't recognize the number of who it was? What about texting her or calling her room which I do remember the number for. I'm afraid her roommate fucked it up for me so somehow I need to get her out of the way.
You've probably already blown it by NOT leaving a message... you know she saw he missed calls. I ALWAYS leave a message the first time and do so with real confidence that she will return my call. If you dont have the real confidence, fake it. Be non-chalant and throw in a small neg.... something like:
"Hey it's ppenguin, just wanted to see if you were still cool. Call me back."
Or even better is to throw in a reference to a neg you have already used like:
"Hey its that guy you can't stop thinking about. Just checking to see if you've figured out how to keep track of your purse. Call me and maybe I'll let you come over and meet my goldfish."
"I drank what?!"
If I remember correctly (and i'm just going from memory here) you got what is known as buyers remorse. You went straight from attraction to seduction, or maybe even skipped attraction all together. When seduction occurs before attraction and comfort are established, her anti-slut defense kicks in. So she probobly won't want to hang out with you because she thinks its all physical. Anyway, I say don;t call her. Go out tonight and meet someone else. Are you the guy who kept calling her, or are you the guy who has so much more going for him that it is her loss if you don't call?