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My wing suggested we all go to ...
FR: Girl Says: "She Has A Big Pussy!"
My wing suggested we all go to the local bar with all the hotties. (Not the most eloquent sentence I've ever written, but you get the point). I found the girls to be very, very receptive. I'll just write up a couple of interactions. I'm going to have to throw away the "indirect method" manual. It just doesn't work for me.
#1: Italian Hottie
I'm pretty anxious at first, which seems to happen if I don't go out for a while. But, I start taking swigs from a beer, and my wing opens a set right away, and all of a sudden, my inhibitions drop immediately, lol. I see a brunette hottie walk by. "Hey, I know you!" I say, or something to that effect. She keeps walking but she is smiling flirtatiously over her shoulder as she walks by. I re-open her a minute later when she walks back in the opposite direction.
I tell her I know her, that she was mean to me the last time I talked to her, total b.s. She's tossing her head back laughing, mouth open, I can see the fillings in her back teeth. Eww. But she's hot. She moves closer. And closer. And closer. Now we are nose to nose. My hand finds her way to her breast, as she leans in. This seems to happen every night I go out. I keep yapping away, and after a few minutes, she leaves. She wanted me to make out with her. You would think that these girls would need more than thirty seconds of conversation before a makeout or putting their t**s on me, but that's not the case.
#2: Costa Rican Hottie:
I open a tall blonde girl making her way to the bar besides me. My wing games her too, but so what, there's three hot girls in the group so I don't feel needy. The hottest girl in the group, a brunette of average height, opens me as I talk to the blonde. There's a cute little Asian girl in the group too. The Costa Rican girl is behaving in the same way as the Italian gal. She's leaning in so much our faces are just a few inches apart and she is grinning broadly staring into my eyes. Anyway, like a knucklehead, I keep talking instead of making out with her, and she leaves, as did the Italian hottie.
The "Costa Rican" girl has no accent nor does she look hispanic really. Hot gal. Very hot.
#3: Unintentional Neg Goes Awry; Another Hot Brunette
I'm getting more and more drunk as the night goes on. I open a tall-ish thin, hot brunette with blue or green? eyes. I tell her her earrings are really, really big. They look so big that you could throw a football through them. At first, she's just staring and listening. THEN SHE GETS PISSED.
She says, as I re-open her later: "don't talk to me! You need to learn how to talk to girls! If you make fun of how a girl looks, then that's why you're going to go home alone EVERY NIGHT! What if I made fun of you, your glasses are on backwards! On the back of your bald head!"
I try to go into damage control mode. I tell her I like her, and that it was nice talking to her, getting ready to leave. But she's not through. She eyes me up and down: "I don't like how you look!" I'm trying to leave but there's a big crowd and all I can do is turn my back. She keeps talking to me, "don't talk to me! Just go away!"
I'm trying to leave, but I'm kind of stuck in the crowd. Crazy. I thought it was just a playful comment, but she just lost it.
#4 Last Call: "Big Pussy"
"The bar is closed! Please move outside!" The bouncer gives me a gentle shove towards the door. Now I'm standing around on the street in front of the bar. I'm completely, absolutely drunk. I open a group of three girls. I ask them: "hey girls, let me ask you this. If I said your earrings were big, would you be offended?"
girl 1: "No way! She needs to chill!" (Or something along those lines). She produces earrings the size of hula hoops from her tiny purse. "She has a big pussy!" she says about her girlfriend, who is standing right next to her.
Wing: "are these girls giving you trouble?"
girl 1: "He (Adamm) said she has a big pussy!"
I don't know how to respond to this shit. The girls walk away a couple minutes later, as the conversation sputters to a halt.
1. indirect method is not well suited to my game. Indirect method dictates running 10-15 minutes of attraction material. Then 4-10 hours of comfort, with a kiss sometime in that period. These girls want to kiss within a minute, or within a minute or two. I think direct game is better suited to the types of interactions I always seem to have.
I have to be flexible. Different types of game are suited to different types of men.
2. Take it easy with the negs. Again, an indirect game issue. I didn't even think I negged her. I said her earrings were big. True, I did say they were big enough to throw a football through, but I thought it would just be a funny/cute comment, not something she would take personally. She went ballistic, saying she didn't like how I looked, and said I wouldn't get laid talking to girls like that. Strange conversation.
3. I didn't really know what to do with the "big pussy" comment. Any suggestions on that?
"Less Analytic; More Animalistic."
Addam, you must be incredibly good looking....
Originally Posted by adamm411
1) If the girl wants to kiss you, what're you doing running "Attraction Material"?? Kiss her. OR.. tell her how badly you want to kiss her, and then switch topics if you really want to ramp her sex craving up 10 notches - probably best to do if you're trying to bring her home that night...
2) There was only one problem I can see in this situation.. you had a cunt on your hands. She's clearly insecure if she can't take something as light hearted as that... Just move on
3) "HAHAHA"... This is exactly what I did when I read that... I laughed out loud... Thats exactly what I would've done if I was there. pretty normal human reaction... Why're you thinking of a good response for it? I really don't think you're going to run into that so often that you want a killer response stored up.
Me: God you're fuckin filthy.. I love it.
Me: You have to admit though... her cute jeans hide it really well (then taken the BIG PUSSY girl's hand and twirled her around)
I have no idea how the convo was going... or what you guys were talking about, but i would've probably said something like that.
"LOL.. I don think size actually matters, but thanks..." continue with topic
didn't really know what to do with the "big pussy" comment. Any suggestions on that?
"Really...and I have a small dick" ..continue with previous topic
"I prefer Blowjobs.. you know 3 years ago my friend....blahblah"
"I wont tell anyone" continue ....
"sorry, no sex talk before marriage" ( then take your target, and merry her (Let one of girls be priest.. best man... merry her)
Then Make out with your new wife( Target)
I pulled this one so many times on those Party ( half-drunk) type of girls.
But yes, direct works much better (its faster)
Dude that's pure gold. There are a thousand cocky/funny retorts:
Originally Posted by adamm411
"Well then, its never going to work between us, I have a really small tongue!"
"Sweet! Is it deep or just wide?"
"Oh, yeah, I thought I heard an echo here".
fuckin hilarious...i love girls with a sense of humor-- they let you jazz it up with some creativity
"oh cool, i just got back from a cave-diving trip. great times"
Hey, thanks for the feedback everyone. In retrospect, I noticed a couple things:
Big Earrings Girl: At first, I really just kept jabbering because of her reaction. She just stared at me after I opened her. Her eyes were wide open and they had kind of a glazed appearance, and her mouth was open and her lower jaw was slack. She was just staring at me, wide eyed, slack jawed and completely silent for some time. So I just went blah blah blah.
Big Pussy Comment Girl: She was in a group of three girls. They were not in a circle closed off, they were standing side by side, looking out at everyone else. This was on the street at about 2:15 AM.
1. Big earring girl was kind of trancing out on my appearance and wanted some sort of nice romantic opener. Oh well.
2. The three girls were looking to get picked up on cinco de mayo weekend. Hence, the sexually charged comment at closing time. She repeated the comment twice, I didn't bite, and they turned and left immediately.
See, these closes should not take much time at all. You just have to react split second without thinking. That's why I drank a little bit. It still did not push me to get beyond this apparent close anxiety. I'm going to have to push beyond my comfort zone.
Anyway, until next weekend.
Originally Posted by Medley
"Less Analytic; More Animalistic."