Newbie Mission - Semnae

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    Go get you some, Semnae!



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    I like that system that you use regarding A1,A2 etc.. Benjamin Franklin had a similar system to that to change his behavior and I keep a system kind of like his for sarging purposes only. Brick by brick just like Mystery says focus on building solid game.

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    Hey, nice work. I just found your thread today and have read some of it so far... first off good luck with Driver Girl!!! I've read the begining and some of the last posts of this thread. I can definitly see some progress man. Like u were saying, u have trouble by being a nice guy all the time.... so here's a witty/CnF comment or opener u can use. I've done this a lot of times at work, the place I worked had alot of ppl doing partime jobs... so i got to field test it quite a bit. It went something like this...btw i had some repore with the person first...
    Me: Hey! umm.. can i ask u a favor... (sly smile)
    Her: sure/wat etc
    Me: See... im feeling kinda lazy right now.... so.... could u hurry up with ur work then come over and finish mine...
    Her: hahah noway
    Me: *shakes head in disaproval* some friend u are...
    Her: hahaha
    Me: *shake head when saying this*...u know... i kinda liked u a bit up until now...but... u just ruined ur chances with me... ok well theres something else u can help me with.....well i need a female opinion on something....or...wat do u think about this... etc etc

    The transition to the female opinion opener im not saying i've tested it, just thought of it this very momment . Looks alright.

    I never got a woman actually say yes to the "favor"... that was never the point lol... but just incase, u might want to have a comeback for it...
    "haha i wasn't actually serious, but i do have have a ton of garbage to throw out this week.... **first thing that came to my mind...anyway...**

    Ok, I used that at work... but in ur case I guess u could change the "finish up ur work then..." part with something else. Maybe...

    im feeling lazy...i've left a helluva lot of books at the computer room, (the one 2 blocks down :P)... *something absurd* etc
    Just a thought mate. Take it or leave it... U could field test it with a female friend. oh and btw If u haven't got it already I reccomend David Deangelo's stuff. His -Double Your Dating ebook, then his Cocky Comedy video series. keep up the good work and keep us posted

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    4/16/2007

    We had tornadic storms all day Friday, so I didn't go anywhere, and I was out of town with family the entire weekend. Hoping to redeem myself, I invited Bleach Girl over again for Monday afternoon. I slept in late again, and came directly home to be there on time, so again I didn't have any time for any other sarges. She arrived and we made small talk a little bit before watching anime.

    When we sat down on my couch, I made a point of taking the middle seat so she would have to sit close to me. We were in direct contact with each other for the 5 hours we watched Bleach. I tried playfully poking her in the arm, and she flirtatiously responded and poked me back. Unfortunately, that's about as far as I got.

    I tried putting my hand on hers, which was face down, and she didn't react. I tried playing a little footsie with her, but she jumped and said it tickled. She got up a few times, and when she came back she sat as far away from me as possible.

    After that, my family kept walking through so any moves I made would have been extremely awkward. I can't go to her place because her renter strictly prohibits men inside his houses. Seriously, he kicked some women out recently because he discovered they had brought some men home one night. What's up with that? Is he trying to build his own personal harem or something? There's simply no real way for us to be alone together without interruptions.

    After 5 hours of marathoning Bleach she ran out to her car and brought in her PS2. My sister joined us and we played Dance Dance Revolution until it got late and she had to leave.
    All I want in life's a little bit of love to take the pain away
    Getting strong today
    A giant step each day

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    Quote Originally Posted by Semnae View Post

    When we sat down on my couch, I made a point of taking the middle seat so she would have to sit close to me. We were in direct contact with each other for the 5 hours we watched Bleach. I tried playfully poking her in the arm, and she flirtatiously responded and poked me back. Unfortunately, that's about as far as I got.
    That worked well since it was playful and more importantly, blatant and a big, visible move in the sense that you had to be confident and physical in doing it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Semnae View Post
    I tried putting my hand on hers, which was face down, and she didn't react. I tried playing a little footsie with her, but she jumped and said it tickled. She got up a few times, and when she came back she sat as far away from me as possible.
    This didn't work as well since it was telegraphing - I'd say that when you put your hand on hers it was done in quite a covert way when you were sitting beside her while you were both watching tv so it was kind of "snuck in there". It possibly came across as you being interested, but in an unconfident way which made her a little wary first of all. Whereas if you had sat down beside here, picked up her hand with your left hand, interlinked her fingers with your right hand and then put it down between the two of you on the couch in a way obvious that everyone could see then that would have been better. Plus if you want to see if she's comfortable you could give her hand a squeeze and see if she squeezes back. Likewise when you touched her foot it was trying to jump the gun a little bit so she used it as an excuse to move away. You're not gonna come across as a comfortable person if you're trying to hide things like this from your folks moving through the room. I'd suggest maybe getting touchy feely but only in a friendly way with her and the rest of the group purely as an exercise to make yourself more comfortable and natural in being affectionate to women.

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    4/19/2007

    The last night of anime club for this school year. Before I left, I noticed that Driver Girl had sent me an IM apoligizing for making me "feel uncomfortable" in our last conversation. I wasn't there to recieve the IM, so I couldn't respond. In the club meeting, we finished watching VanDread and Samurai 7. After that, we talked as usual. Driver Girl seemed embarrassed to have offered to let me spend the night at her place, so I didn't bring it up. I think the opportunity is lost. I'll likely see her again in another couple weeks after she moves into her new appartment.

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    Getting strong today
    A giant step each day

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    Are you losing your motivation man?

    Where is all that spark you once had? Getting 9 sets a day!?!!

    And now you are only getting like 1 and not even keeping it updated daily. You are beginning to lose interest, and the more and more you wait, the longer it'll be before you move on in your progress. So I say you get out there and SARGE, GET SETS, AND DO WHATEVER.

    (Or something along the lines of that)

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    Keep at it Sem! I know it's hard when life gets busy, but let us know how you're doing.

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    4/23/2007
    Bleach Girl is coming over regularly now about once a week. I noticed that I seem to be a little fixed on her since I feel I've progressed furthest with her. I haven't spent near the same amount of time sarging other women. We watched the next episode of Bleach, the first two seasons of Red vs. Blue, and several episodes of Witch Hunter Robin. I then asked her to leave because I suddenly wasn't feeling well. I think I didn't get enough sleep the night before.

    I've been rather busy with finals and end of year band concerts, but that's really no excuse. I think I really am loosing my motivation. It's been months and I haven't even gotten as far as a kiss. I haven't been updating because I haven't been doing anything worth making a post about. My free time has gone back to spending all day playing video games. I feel like I'm failing my mission, and I can only blame myself at this point. I need to try harder. I'm going to try and jump start my efforts. Nine sets per day, no excuses.

    One the bright side, I've made a couple of wardrobe changes for the better. At a truck stop on my way to visit my sister, I found a black genuine leather jacket for only $20, so I grabbed it. In addition to that, I bought a new silver studded belt at Hot Topic for $25. I must have gone through dozens of stores looking for a belt. The more interesting places were in the mall at Pac Sun and Hot Topic. I was a little nervous to enter Hot Topic at first, because it looked like the sort of place you would shop if you wanted to look like a creepy goth, but they really have some nice stuff.
    All I want in life's a little bit of love to take the pain away
    Getting strong today
    A giant step each day

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