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    Field report: 22.sep.06-23.sep.06, Part 1

    Field report: 22.sep.06-23.sep.06
    Part 1
    It’s Friday and I have a nice weekend planned—tonight I’ve been invited to this girl’s house for a party. Tomorrow night I’m hanging out with a little cutie from new york and her friend who was on the cover of vogue (france). I’m a little tired, but it’s looking like a good weekend none the less.
    I finally get directions for the party—turns out its in red bank nj, which is about 90 miles from where I live. CRAP! I wish she had told me that before I agreed. I promised her I’d go though, she wants to introduce me to her friends.
    So I make the trek. It’s a nice place, but not exactly what I was expecting based on the hype she had been feeding me. There’s a lot of family there: older people and little kids, but some people around my age. C-block from work is there too. He’s not a bad guy, its just that he has some very annoying afc social habits that can drag you down if you’re not careful.
    t. drags me around to a bunch of her friends and introduces me. Apparently I’m “trouble? and a “playa? but I also give great relationship device. I give a mischievious look to her crew and jokingly deny the whole “trouble? and “playa? rumours. They laugh and I can see I’m getting checked out. They don’t make the cut though.
    I see a little skinny talking to c-block, so I roll in.
    Dagger: “hey [c-block]…is this your girlfriend??
    Cb:?nah dude, she’s still on her way?
    Dagger: “oh I’m sorry…so how do you two know each other??
    Cb:?uh, we dated briefl-“

    She cuts him off
    Girl: “we met through t.?
    Clearly she didn’t want to say they dated. We talk a little more. Cb starts talking about his days as a wrestler. I happened to have wrestled for 12 years all over the eastern sea board when I was younger, so I engage. I realize he’s trying to impress her and I think he feels threatened by my credentials so I start to back off, I don’t want to compete in front of her. Plus she’s probably bored out of her mind listening to us talk about wrestling.
    He’s getting more into his stories and its getting really boring. I need to break this up:
    Dagger: “so did your girlie text you yet or what? Where is she…??
    Cb: “good point…I’m sure she’ll be here soon though.?
    Dagger: “me too…hang in there fella?
    I say with a smile and pat him on the shoulder.
    I see her crack a smile, she knows exactly what I’m doing.
    Cb:?let me give her a call real quick, I’ll be right back.?
    He leaves and I chat her up for a bit. Sweet girl, but not very interesting and definitely not above a 7 looks wise. I decide its time to head back to philly so I say my goodbyes and head for home.
    1 ½ hours later I roll in and head right to my local watering hole. There’s a couple of people there when I arrive and then it quickly gets more crowded. A young girl sits next to me, lights up a cigarette, and I hit her with the smoking opener:
    dagger:?you know that’s bad for you, right??
    she looks over and I light up, she starts laughing. We hit it off pretty well. she a young Russian girl just out of college. I made one bad joke about Russian orphans—turns out she is one. I quickly redirect and cover though. She can bust chops really well so we start teeing off on each other, and initiate kino. Soon I pull her in and we start ripping together and in secret on other people in the bar.
    After a couple of rounds she’s out of cash (probably not, now that I think about it) so I buy her a beer. This girl can pound beers like a freaking champ. I get some to go and she slams the one she’s got. I grab her by the hand and tell her “I’m out, let’s go drink some beers at my place.? She agrees and we head back to my place.
    We arrive—
    Dagger: “so this is fightclub…?
    girl: “wow…?

    she’s a little impressed, I rebuilt the place from the foundations up pretty much by myself.
    Dagger: “here, let me give you the quick tour.?
    I take her around but stop short of the 3rd floor where my bedroom and lounge are.
    Dagger: “sorry, but its too messy up there…c’mon, let’s go back downstairs.?
    Girl: “oh I don’t mind, let me see it…??
    Dagger: “hmmm…maybe in a little bit.?

    I grab her by the hand and drag her back downstairs. We’re back on the stoop. We start joking around a little more, I keep pretending like she’s a bratty sister, she keeps taking little pokes at me. Finally I grab her by the hair—
    Dagger:?you’d better stop if you know what’s good for you, girl…?
    She giggles and then looks up, the time is right, so I lay her back and kiss her. She’s very aggressive, and very good.
    Dagger:? maybe I should give you the full tour…?
    We head upstairs, from there its all classic form. Push, pull, stop, tease, let her re-initiate. nothing that serious, just enough to get interested for another time. i walk her home at 5 in the morning. it was a good night after all.
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    Analysis:
    --Obviously the girl having the party gave mad props to her friends about me before I got there, they were very receptive and I was able to play with them with ease. I guess my game is working.
    --recognizing the afc cockblock was trying to make himself look better by competing was key—dispatching him by using his insecurity was clutch. The target definitely knew what was going on.
    --busting chops with the Russian was fun. Calibration was important though—go too hard too soon and she would have been history. Go too soft and she’ll walk. I’m glad I was only one beer in when I met her.
    --redirecting her to work with me and people watch was a good move. She had passed my initial testing and now I was letting her have fun with me instead of competing with me. Acceptance and comfort based on her merit.
    --taking charge at the right time—leaving the bar, the tour, the kiss—it all felt great and natural. 9 months ago I could have maybe gotten this girl to interact, but I wouldn’t have gotten shit because I probably would have tried to talk to her all night.


    dagger

    be excellent
    be desireless
    be gone

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    Great report.
    --taking charge at the right time—leaving the bar, the tour, the kiss—it all felt great and natural. 9 months ago I could have maybe gotten this girl to interact, but I wouldn’t have gotten shit because I probably would have tried to talk to her all night.
    Isn't that SO ture. Same with me, I would talk to girls for hours. I should have been kissing and fucking. It hurts to think about it.
    Now I go for the fclose pretty fast and it can be funny....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Equal View Post
    Great report.
    Isn't that SO ture. Same with me, I would talk to girls for hours. I should have been kissing and fucking. It hurts to think about it.
    Now I go for the fclose pretty fast and it can be funny....
    Equal
    thanks man.
    going for the quick lay does make for great stories...one thing to think about though--i try not to fuck on the first night anymore. i find girls are more likely to flake in the future when i do. just my opinion, but mess around the first night to make her aware of your intentions and get her thinking, but don't try to fuck her until the second or third night. that way you can get repeatedly banged instead of just a one night stand.
    just my $.02
    good luck and take care,
    dagger

    be excellent
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    Quote Originally Posted by dagger View Post
    thanks man.
    going for the quick lay does make for great stories...one thing to think about though--i try not to fuck on the first night anymore. i find girls are more likely to flake in the future when i do. just my opinion, but mess around the first night to make her aware of your intentions and get her thinking, but don't try to fuck her until the second or third night. that way you can get repeatedly banged instead of just a one night stand.
    just my $.02
    good luck and take care,
    Dagger - you are 100% correct, though for my situation a fast close is key. Getting a FB or two is more of an issue of mutual trust, so starting with the fuck frame doesnt hurt me. You are right though they flake and feel like whores a lot.
    If I didnt have a LTR - I would take your advice 100% - but then again I would have all the time in the world. At this point I don't, so I move quick.
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    I finally get directions for the party—turns out its in red bank nj, which is about 90 miles from where I live.
    ASHES and REDS in Red Bank are target rich, fyi. right in the heart of town.
    t. drags me around to a bunch of her friends and introduces me. Apparently I’m “trouble” and a “playa” but I also give great relationship device. I give a mischievious look to her crew and jokingly deny the whole “trouble” and “playa” rumours.
    This rep comes with good game. Tough part is to keep frame and not come off as a player. With this confidence comes the rep. Best way to kill it is to act nervous, not make EC, etc but that is not what you want to do. I don;t have the answer but it is a concern of mine too.
    Dagger: “hey [c-block]…is this your girlfriend?”
    Cb:”nah dude, she’s still on her way”
    Dagger: “oh I’m sorry…so how do you two know each other?”

    Perfect. Qualifying before opening. Guys don't do enough of this. Saves SO much time.
    Plus she’s probably bored out of her mind listening to us talk about wrestling.
    Replace 'probably' with definitely.
    Dagger: “me too…hang in there fella”
    I say with a smile and pat him on the shoulder.
    Perfect. [you feel like saying "I'll take it from here, champ. Hit the showers, !!!! ]
    A young girl sits next to me, lights up a cigarette, and I hit her with the smoking opener:
    dagger:”you know that’s bad for you, right?”
    Great opener. FDQ of sorts.
    she looks over and I light up, she starts laughing. We hit it off pretty well. she a young Russian girl just out of college. I made one bad joke about Russian orphans—turns out she is one. I quickly redirect and cover though. She can bust chops really well so we start teeing off on each other, and initiate kino. Soon I pull her in and we start ripping together and in secret on other people in the bar.
    LMAO!! Of allof the jokes, you go wiht the tried and true RUSSIAN ORPHAN one!!!!!?! What are the chances?
    Russian women have VERY advanced senses of humor and understand sarcasm and irony better than most. Be macho. Be aggressive. Over the top macho is the key with them.
    After a couple of rounds she’s out of cash (probably not, now that I think about it) so I buy her a beer.
    ...sucka.....
    This girl can pound beers like a freaking champ.
    Amazing how many ounces of booze that 100 lb frame can handle!!!!!! I've dated them, I've seen it go down all night long.
    [I]Dagger: “so this is fightclub…”
    I am stealing this. thanks
    [I]Dagger: “sorry, but its too messy up there…c’mon, let’s go back downstairs.”
    I'm stealing this (but replacing'messy' with something vague). Cleanliness is a DHV, IMO.]
    Dagger:” maybe I should give you the full tour…”
    I would have beenmore aggressive here. Throw her against the wall. You were too passive. BUT the sarge was flawless.
    i walk her home at 5 in the morning. it was a good night after all.
    You should have churned a batch.
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    --taking charge at the right time—leaving the bar, the tour, the kiss—it all felt great and natural. 9 months ago I could have maybe gotten this girl to interact, but I wouldn’t have gotten shit because I probably would have tried to talk to her all night.
    [/QUOTE]
    GREAT! I see this a lot around here. Stackng routines and not knowing when to press it and transition to a closing venue.
    Great FR. I felt like I was there.

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    Good report, although I disagree with not trying to go all the way the first night. If you give them a good enough lay the first time they will often come back for more. Majority of my fuck buddies have started as one night stands

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