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    What to answer when a girl asks you "what do you want from me?"

    Hello Guys:
    Sometimes in a guy's life (and I believe it has happened to all of us) we encounter a tough cookie which is a girl that thinks she is way above the rest.
    To make a long story short I met this girl in a bar while I was with my buddies and even though I have seen her many times before in the same bar this time I decided to talk to her. I could tell even before I talked to her that she had this proud air and cocky attitude.
    Well, we started talking and I can barely remember what I said to her because I was a bit drunk but anyway, she tells me that she is a lawyer in Allen & Gledhill so you guys can imagine the attitude she had. She basically feels that because of the fact that she is a lawyer, she is young, she is making a decent amount of money and she is average looking Chinese girl; all men have to kiss the ground she walks upon. That is not the case for a PUA.
    I started by throwing some NEGS at her. She was wearing this Gypsy style shirt (the long thin ones) so I said to her: “What’s up with the Sarong?? She looked at me all serious and she asked: “What do you mean Sarong? It’s a shirt!? To what I replied: “Dear, that is a damn long skirt, what r u concealing underneath? A weapon of mass destruction?? Everybody laughs (except her of course)
    To my surprise next day I found in my hand phone her number. I waited 3 days and we sent each other sms. We went out, had dinner and came back to my place for some wine and after some small talk; I looked at her, lean close and we kissed. She was quite into it and she is the kind of girl that gets very aroused when u nibble on her ear. We were kissing and hugging when she pushes me and says: “Not in the balcony, somebody can see us? (I was like I don’t give a damn baby!!!) but I decided to go into my living room and continue our session and enjoy from the cool air con.
    Our kissing session was getting quite intense and I was following De Angelo’s technique of two steps ahead and one back, so I was basically kissing her and pulling away. She was in the mood and getting into it when suddenly tragedy hit. She pushes me away, pulls her skirt down, buttons up her blouse (I was liking her breast like there is no tomorrow) and asks me a question that most guys hate to hear.
    She asks, while looking with intensity to my eyes: “what do u want? Ah? WHAT DO U WANT?????
    Silence, I am just looking at her and her eyes are not even blinking. She thinks she has me trapped. Now, while she is looking at me I already know what I am about to say. She repast her question this time coming closer to my face and putting a serious face. She says: “What do you want from me? What??
    Now, if I play the sweet good guy and I respond “I want a relationship? she will laugh at me. We all know that De Angelo said that when women encounter a nice guy, they (women) either hit the road and dump you or they marry you. Hahahaha I don’t want to be seen as Mr. Nice Guy. Forget about it.
    But if I say to her “I want to bone you bitch? (like my mind was shouting at the moment) she might not take it in a nice way and she will definitely have a last minute change of mind.
    Women don’t like to assume any kind of responsibility. In any kind of relationship which could be intimate, friendly or professional. Women NEVER want to have any responsibility. They love to put all the responsibility on us, men, and by doing so anything that goes wrong is of course our fault. Forget about it I am not going to, I refuse to play her game. I will not carry the weight of her decision on my shoulders. She is a grown up and by the love of God she is Ms. Lawyer from one of the most prominent law firms of Singapore. Forget about it X 100 times.
    She is still waiting for my answer, her face now is a bit angry, she thinks she is dealing with an AFC who will become a wuzz ball and give in. She thinks she will hear from me the sweet words “I want to date you and make you happy, lets be a couple? No way man!
    I remain calm, I sip my wine and blink slowly (please watch a James Bond movie to know what I mean by being calm and blink slowly) I take a deep breath, I look at her again. I look at my half full glass of wine take another sip of the good Shiraz I bought. I can feel she is getting more and more impatient. I look at her with a slight smirk and I finally tell her this line that I came up with:
    “What do I want? What kind of questions is that? (she is staring at me he face is less than 15 cm from my face) I will find out what I want from you further down the road while I am getting to know you; and what I want it only depends on how good you treat me.?
    She is shocked I can see clearly that her anger is melting so fast that she is speechless. She never imagined I was going to have enough confidence to tell her on her face that I will not carry on my shoulders the weight of her actions. Moreover now Ms. Lawyer knows that she has to be nice to me otherwise I will just walk out. She is 100% quiet and now her eyes are looking in all directions. 1000 PUA – 0 Ms. Lawyer.
    We fooled around that evening but I didn’t score a home run. I tried but nothing happened. She had to go back home because at the next day she had work. I didn’t want to let things calm down. Two days later we were talking over the phone and she told me that she had a pain in her back. I told her that it’s a pity that she is not here because I give superb back massages. She gave me excuses that she cant get out of the house so I told her I can come and see her. She was not sure at the beginning but finally she gave me the address of her house.
    It was past midnight, I arrived and she was waiting for me outside. Se told me to be very quiet because her parents and her brother are sleeping. She literally “smuggled? me into her daddy’s study room and open a guest bed. She lay down I began to give her a massage and 10 min later we were both naked and caressing each other. I knew what was going to happen and I brought two condoms with me. We had sex in her house and in her daddy’s study room, how is that for the cocky and proud and proper Ms. Lawyer???
    Anyway guys I wanted to keep it short and simple but I got carried away with the details. Any feedback about my line when a girl asks you “what do you want from me?? is welcomed.
    Just remember, don’t let a girl put her own responsibility on your shoulders. Women love to be the victims and blame it on the guy. Assume control of the situation and let her know who is the daddy!!


    [FONT="Courier New"][/FONT]Andre Le Cat :cool: [B][I][SIZE="2"][FONT="Courier New"][/FONT][/SIZE][/I][/B]

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    Great post! I think alot of AFCs out there would freeze n pee in their pants when a woman asks them this question. I like the way u handled the situation. Indeed u r a skilled cat...

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    "Aww. You're cute. I just want you to be yourself. So, I was at the store the other day......."
    [mental note: she is in your frame. you have her where you want her. don't rub her nose in it. plow--in a good way]

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    Sounds good. I said something similar when my friend's new guy asked me what I thought of him. I said you seem pretty good so far but your future behavior will either make you or break you.
    My opinion depends on thier behavior.
    I won't send you my picture and I don't know what she's thinking.

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    Hehe, well done man... good job...
    Now on the issiue...
    "“what do u want? Ah? WHAT DO U WANT?????"
    Ok its a simple shit test - like all the others. It was a part of LMR in that moment and you failed - you heard me - you failed to blast it this night over. Well, dont get me wrong your answer:
    “What do I want? What kind of questions is that? (she is staring at me he face is less than 15 cm from my face) I will find out what I want from you further down the road while I am getting to know you; and what I want it only depends on how good you treat me.
    was great but too much heavy for a first date /f2f/ sex...
    Instead I would answer any of this /with the idea of heaving sex this night of course/:
    /State (Cool&Funny&Playfull)/
    1. Hmm... I wanna se how good dancer you are /turn up the music and make her dance for me/... This totally reframes the question, blast the fear and allows me to pass the test without fail it /take it seriosly/...
    2. /with very serious impression - look at her for 10 secs and then/: I wanna marry you. I wanna have 5 children from you. I wanna spend the rest of my life with you living in a home in the center of the city. We shall have not only 5 children but 2 cars, 2 bathrooms, 2 dogs and a golden fish... What do you think" /with crazy look/. She will burn in laugh after this... This way I show her how silly her question is without getting mad or smtg... just passing the test correctly /by not taking it too seriosly/.
    3. "1 milion dollars - thats all I want from you" - just a simple joke... to release the pressure... then followed by step back /could be - a slight freeze out - to take drink or smtgh/ and step by step escalation again...
    If she's "No, no common be serios"... I will go with number 2 with the most serious imprresion on my face... Just showing her that she cant suck me into her reallity - to take stupied questions - seriosly... /like partly you did/.
    -Slayer
    p.s. dont get me wrong - u did ok - u showed that you have the guts but thats all... Next time do not only show that you have the guts - but show that you are interesting, smart and with sense of humor... It will get you the girl much more quickly...

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    Slayer thanks for the advice I like your way.
    Yeah there are indeed so many ways to reply and handle a single situation.
    Its so crazy that us , guys have to use such tricks to meet girls and enjoy from their body.
    Who would have said it? U need a bad of tricks to attract women.
    Is like using peanuts to make an elephant follow you. hahaha
    Thanks Slayer.
    p.d. So much info and so many rutines to keep fresh in your mind.
    KEEP ON SARGING GUYS.
    [FONT="Courier New"][/FONT]Andre Le Cat :cool: [B][I][SIZE="2"][FONT="Courier New"][/FONT][/SIZE][/I][/B]

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    nice one, dude. sg chicks got some of the highest bitch shields eh? i was actually thinking of c&f when i read your title, but u did good IMO.
    btw, great to see a sgrean around here

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    Quote Originally Posted by JirQUEST View Post
    nice one, dude. sg chicks got some of the highest bitch shields eh? i was actually thinking of c&f when i read your title, but u did good IMO.
    btw, great to see a sgrean around here
    thnaks man for your words. Yeah indeed singaporean girls have such huge bitch shields. Its as if tehy want to take a chance and have fun but the LMR (last minute resistance is huge) i hate that.
    By the way guys I AM NOT A SINGAPOREAN HAHAHAHA I am a western "kat" lost in Asia.
    I love this part of the planet!! I have a thing for asian women with cute feet!
    You may call it a fetish.
    peace guys
    keep it up
    [FONT="Courier New"][/FONT]Andre Le Cat :cool: [B][I][SIZE="2"][FONT="Courier New"][/FONT][/SIZE][/I][/B]

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    Quote Originally Posted by JirQUEST View Post
    nice one, dude. sg chicks got some of the highest bitch shields eh? i was actually thinking of c&f when i read your title, but u did good IMO.
    btw, great to see a sgrean around here
    Thanks man for your words. Yeah indeed singaporean girls have such huge bitch shields. Its as if tehy want to take a chance and have fun but the LMR (last minute resistance is huge) i hate that.
    By the way guys I AM NOT A SINGAPOREAN HAHAHAHA I am a western "kat" lost in Asia.
    I love this part of the planet!! I have a thing for asian women with cute feet!
    You may call it a fetish.
    peace guys
    keep it up
    [FONT="Courier New"][/FONT]Andre Le Cat :cool: [B][I][SIZE="2"][FONT="Courier New"][/FONT][/SIZE][/I][/B]

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