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    So for the past few days I've really been getting into stopping masterbating. Watched a few videos and decided that enough is enough. Really feel that it's going to be best in the long run. I have tons more energy. But it ain't exactly easy to control myself sometimes. I do notice myself having drunk vision where I'm attracted to girls I normally wouldnt be. I guess that cool, cause with porn I seriously was getting some Ed. Anyways, going out sarging tonight downtown.



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    A few things. From the initial meeting and when you bounced her back to your place. She wouldn't have come to your place if sex wasn't wasnt an option. She just gave you a little LMR, no big deal. Just plow or freeze out next time. Also, ALWAYS be the first one to end the kissing. Go in caveman style and just stop and do something else. It will get her flowing and confused.

    Second, girls want a blow job to be their idea, not yours. If you are making out and she grabs your dick she will do something with it. Best if you are laying on your side then she will get on top of you and slowly go down on you. Don't ask for a blowjob ever.

    Lastly, there is a reason your friends game is better than yours when you are together. It is because he is more alpha and confident. The same reason yours is better around your friends. Because you believe you are better than them and in turn are more confident and can game better. I have friends who can't pull and who can. When my friends that can pull and I get together we are like the A team of getting ass, because we feed off each other and know how to help each other when we get in a situation.

    Good luck with your game and keep building your skills. There is always room to improve
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    Quote Originally Posted by kinger22 View Post
    A few things. From the initial meeting and when you bounced her back to your place. She wouldn't have come to your place if sex wasn't wasnt an option. She just gave you a little LMR, no big deal. Just plow or freeze out next time. Also, ALWAYS be the first one to end the kissing. Go in caveman style and just stop and do something else. It will get her flowing and confused.

    Second, girls want a blow job to be their idea, not yours. If you are making out and she grabs your dick she will do something with it. Best if you are laying on your side then she will get on top of you and slowly go down on you. Don't ask for a blowjob ever.

    Lastly, there is a reason your friends game is better than yours when you are together. It is because he is more alpha and confident. The same reason yours is better around your friends. Because you believe you are better than them and in turn are more confident and can game better. I have friends who can't pull and who can. When my friends that can pull and I get together we are like the A team of getting ass, because we feed off each other and know how to help each other when we get in a situation.

    Good luck with your game and keep building your skills. There is always room to improve
    I was to pushy with the blow job, and stay there too long when kissing. Alot of great advice, thank you, I'll keep at it next time I see her. And yeah my one buddy is very alpha, and I guess I'm trying to compete with him and see him as a threat. Man I gotta change that shit

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    So I tryed the sarging solo deal yesterday, but was just to tired, it was a long day. I went to a bar and chatted up a few girls. Real quick conversation, but I bailed out quickly. My night game is pretty lowsy when solo, so that's an area I definitely can work on. The girl I started this thread about is comming over tonight do that should be fun

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    Had the girl over again really thought it was going to go down, started making out again did a message and light kissing then pulling away. Then things got hot, heavy make out, teasing her. All was good, was rubbing her pussy through her jeans, sucking on her neck and ear. Then once my hand went up her shirt she turned away and sighed. LMR again, its like I just keep walking into this wall. Its frustrating, I never had a girls keep this up this long. It's like she's just not into it. I was really turned off. So I stopped and went to sleep, I guess I could have started it back up later but I was pretty fed up. I think this one just may not happen, I don't think I'm making her comfortable enough. One thing I realized is we don't talk about sex at all, I think if I see her again I'll directly bring up sex and try to get her to open u. I need to see if there's something I'm missing here. I send her flirty texts but don't really get a felling that we were being open talking about sex. Usually a girl brings sex talk up, and I never had to, I get reserved about talking openly about sex, so that's the next step

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    Haha was just texting her and she asked me why I stopped, I was textless! Seriously! She wanted me to keep going, all that crap that I thought that she was really not into me was total bs!!! So it's on!! Lol man that shit had me going crazy, I was about to cut it off too. Man! I guess you just have to freeze out and keep going. Man I wish I would have just kept going. Oh man I'm pumped it's on like donkey kong now!!

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    Sexual tension is a strong weapon my friend. Now just play it cool. Don't fall into this trap
    There's a support group for my ex's. They meet on wednesdays..

    I don't work out to look good, I work out to look good naked

    The quickest route to celibacy is through marriage

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    So it's on she's comming over tomorrow and she's dtf! Thanks somador, playboyGenius and kinger22! You guys rock!!!!!

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    Awesome bro. Hope all ends well and you keep us updated. Glad you're making progress.

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    Good day today had her over and it went down perfectly. This time I guess I felt entitled to sex so I just went for it alot more matter of factly. I guess that's something I really would like to hammer in there is to be more assertive. Cause this girl definitely wants me initiate everything, and that's awesome. So yeah it was a good day!

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