Discuss The PUA Life and Times of latino_heat at the Field Reports within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; 7/4/12
I had to work for the 4th of July but honestly, it didn't even ...
I've noticed that I tend to do a lot of playing dumb in the way I talk to girls. I'm not sure if its a good or bad thing but its certainly getting turned down. It might be the reason me and the friend zone are so close.
Anyways, here's a conversation I had with an HB7 on Facebook. Shes one of my friends sister that's had the privilege to dance with me in the past and has been talking to me off and on since (I'm not cocky or anything, but when it comes to dance I'm super confident in my skill) Let me know what you guys think.
Me: You, me... las vegas this saturday XD
HB7: Uh lala.......heck yeah. Is that a club or what? Hahahahaha youre so random. You message me at the wrong time. Im over here crying, haha not good but your message made me feel better.
Me: Awww, well I'm glad it made you feel a bit better. Whats wrong?
HB7: Emotional pain, .........I like spending time with myself, but some people think that im deppressed and that im holding grudges against everybody when im not at all... ive been at peace with myself, and love, i been at peace with everybody. But the person
I war hurt alot by this person , i cant that i love spending time with myself and god, it makes me sad how that person thinks of me like that. I meant i cant help if i love spending time with my self, im not deppressed ive been at peace. They tried to sit and give me advice about how i shouldnt be like that. This is who i am accept it or not, i respect your decisions why cant this person do the same for me. Im just emotionaly in pain rightnow. I need to get myself together.
Me: I didn't expect all of that lol so there's no problem then?
HB7: Im not the problem , that person has a problem. Not me ........im just in pain, i just feel like im always wrong, always... all because i choose not to have a relationship with that person. Im happy with you live your life. And ill lived mine. Sorry if it dosent make sense , im writing you from my phone.
Me: sounds like the words of a girl that's been closed off for too long
HB7: What do you mean?
Me: You just sound like the typical girl thats afraid to be in a relationship.
HB7: Lol hahaha its a girl actually. Hahahah I hit the gym ...lol some walking, pushups,squats n awww I feel so much better. hahaha I feel happy. Haha in reality all I desired is a guybest friend. Lol
Me: lol then your talking to the wrong guy. I'm a horrible best friend XD
HB7: lol wasnt really talking about you.....hahahahah im back at work now.....all the celebration and now im here again....lol hahah but i like my job. lol its peaceful and relaxing So whats las vegas....lol I had to ask
Me: Its a city in nevada duh lol
HB7: I know that....lol I thought you were talking about a club you were like me and you, las vegas.
Me: I'm not just a party boy you know... I've got genuine feelings too
HB7: awww i know you do ...well talk to me im a great listener...lol really i am. I wanna dance some bachata, merengue, cumbia.
You have pretty good game man! Keep up the work! Just work on that outergame man. How do you dress by the way? Just curious.
Whats outer game?
Originally Posted by Jack Greezy
I dress normally. Most of the time I have a t-shirt with shorts on. I can't really afford the brand name stuff so its just blank clothing and this weather almost forces me to wear shorts. Nothing tight because my belly isn't ready for that yet Think of it this way, you just woke up on your day off and you have to go run a quick errand. What you would put on in that situation is what I usually where almost all the time. I only dress... handsomely when its a special occasion. I know its not the right way to think about presentation especially if your going to do some unexpected day gaming. But once I get my base down it will all change with time, I promise!
Well today I was supposed to go out with HB8.5 two posts back but in the end I left work pretty late... and my friends wanted to hangout so I just told her I couldn't go anymore. Not that she wasn't important but my buddy's are more. I've rescheduled for a future unannounced date though. She was cool with it and to let her know.
Now there is another girl I've been talking to. She and I were actually middle school bf & gf back in the day but have broken up back in the day too. We've been talking on and off since the start of the year mostly because she goes to a school that is 2 hours away and we both have busy lives. I managed to woo her in with the charm that got us together in the first place. Man, the good middle school and 9th grade days I'll call her HB Diana and shes a solid 8. She usually comes home to her parents house in my area about every 2 weeks and next week will be the second. So, I thought it would be cool to express the random side in me that she loved back then. Here's what I said to her:
Me: I've got a proposition for you
HB Diana: What is it
Me: I'm feeling really spontaneous. i want to get Mexican... really Mexican. I'm talking down south Guanajuato Mexican. And your going to do it with me
HB Diana: Yea, sure but text me tomorrow ok
Me: Cool frijoles
HB Diana: Ok what were you talking about last night
Me: A crazy idea about having a mexican night
HB Diana: When do you want to do it
Me: When you get back. We gona hit up a damn rodeo lol
HB Diana: Mm I might go back Friday or Sunday. But I guess I'll let you know
Me: You better. I got my botas and wrangler jeans already
HB Diana: 0.o what am I supposed to wear
Me: ... Surprise me
I think this will turn out really well because being Mexican is one of my best features! So now the wait begins for Friday most likely. Til then I'll be polishing my snake skin boots
As always gents, let me know what you think.
Today I worked with the clown business once again. I wasn't doing photography, instead I was a jester for this thing called the "Crazy Hour" my boss made up. Its basically us dressed as jesters going nuts to the music and getting the crowd to join us. Going nuts is what I do best so it all works out
HB Micky and Minnie were part of it and there was a freaking flood of attraction everywhere after the crazy hour. We got the chance to join the party as normal people for 20 min (too little time ) and danced our asses off. The first thing I did was pull in HB Minnie to dance with me because of what she said last time we were working together. Of course I went all out on the floor and she was mesmerized by how good I backed up my words on my talent. I didn't just isolate HB Minnie though. I got HB Micky into it too and soon I found myself dancing with them at the same time. You could see the excitement on their faces. We had a great time and my confidence with these women just got much more higher.
One thing that helped me with the attraction I think was actually holding back from responding with my own kino. While dancing I opted for the seperated holds because these girls were that close to me already. Giving into something isn't my thing so they need to work for it. I'm not sure if my mentality is the right way to go but its working so far.
On the way to drop the girls home, HB Minnie tells me, "We definitely need to go out to the (mexican) club soon." Its nice hearing thing like that Close to their place, we stop at a McDonalds to meet up with their ride and I jumped out the car for a stretch while we were waiting. I then lean on the car with my back, bend my head back and close my eyes. HB Micky comes out and leans on my side with her head resting on my shoulder. She lets me know, " I'm so tired" and stays there for a good while until the ride showed up and they both left.
Tonight was pretty good building up the comfort(?) with the ladies in the beginning. I had them laughing again on the way to the venue and out of it. What I really need to work on are my story telling skills. Sometimes there were long moments of just silence in the car that I really wanted to fill with something but my mind was blank at the time.
Anyways gents, let me know what you all think.
So me and the HB7 that I kiss closed on post #9 are going out tonight again. We're not going out to dance though. This time I thought it would be fun to take her to one of my favorite "secret" spots. I usually take girls there once I know we have something and I can tell me and HB7 have... something.
The spot is basically the definition of a make out spot. Its a part of a park that's in the back woods where there is a bench in front of a creek/river. There is a cut in the trees where the moon shines in its entirety down on that single spot where the bench is. Best of all, there are no indications on the main park trail that lead up to it. I stumbled upon it myself by accident one day riding my bike too fast and ended up crashing into a tree close to the area
Anyways, I hope to get more intimate with here this time and see where it takes me. I'm feeling pretty confident about it.
Then after dropping off HB7 at her place, I'm going to go dancing with HB Dancer again. I'm not a player or anything but I can't deny a girl who asks me to go dancing with her. Again, HB Dancer is the girl I have no attraction to. She's my go to dance partner and we have a lot of fun when ever we go dancing. I can't wait for that either.
Tonights going to be fun fellas. I know it
Everything went as planned. I took HB7 to the spot and read her a poem I wrote like 5 min. before I left for her place. It might be a little cheesy but it got her in my arms and on my lips right after I read it to her. But... I don't know if it was the make up or clothes she wore. Maybe it could have been absence of the sun but she transformed into an HB5 last night. I think its the first time I actually looked at her body and took a good scan of it. The girls cute, but man why did that have to end up on a body like that Anyways, I'm going to stop talking to her altogether. I've gotten into PUA to pick up honeys not honey jars.
After I dropped her off at her place, me and HB Dancer went to the club! It was pretty baron walking in. We didn't care. We started the party by being the first people on the dance floor. Later as more people arrived we were still on the dance floor. HB Dancer and I share a common interest and that is girls. Shes bi and I'm completely ok with that because we both be looking out for teh pretty ladies Only thing I don't like about HB Dancer is that she doesn't like dancing the Mexican stuff. She's Puerto Rican and I can understand that but c'mon... -,- Anyways, we both like setting each other up with other people in the club that we like and I was set up with an HB9 (best wing woman ever) As always, I lead her to the dance floor and let my feet do the talking. There really is no gaming needed when you can have your talents do the work for you. At the beginning, we danced the fast paced cumbia and merengue. Then the bachata came on. Its a slow song with simple stepping that can get really intimate. By nature I draw the HB9's hands around my neck and lay mine on her hips. My eyes never left hers. We were like that for 2 songs. On the third song, the other brain in my pants was almost yelling to me, "Touch her ass NAO" and thats what I did. HB9 had no problem with it and it intensified the moment. Right after I went in for the kiss and got some amazing feed back from this woman. We basically made out until the 3rd song was over then it switched to another style. Thats when she told me she had to go. My stupid dumb ass all mesmerized in the moment just said "Ok, see ya later." On the way back home I was beating my self to hell for not asking for her number
Overall a good night. I can't wait to have another one like that and not make the same mistake again. Let me know what you think gents.
Well, Its been a weird week and I really don't feel like going through any of the days because nothing has happened game wise except 1 single thing; I apparently have a girlfriend now. So for now this will be my ending post. If everything goes right, you all will never hear from me again. If things go wrong, expect me here in the future. Not that it matters or anything though. I'm not that fucking important here anyways
Good luck dude! Make sure you are ready to be that commited. After being in the game and have the ability to attract as we do, its tough to settle down. UNLESS a girlfriend is what you were in the game for. :-)
Anyway good luck.
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