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Today is Sunday. Yesterday I went to my new sanchas house and took care of my needs. I woke up to the horrible news that a porn actress unfollowed me on Twitter. The fact that it pained me caused me to go out and sarge. Thank god I did. I saw a nice 8 at the bus stop. Dark skin with tattoos. Ghetto beauty. Got a lot of kino and # closed with her saying "We'll talk soon". To me, that's like a girl saying "I want to fuck". That boosted my mood a bit. Then I went down to the beach, approached a mixed set 2m1f and got them laughing. We were walking and I didn't feel to lock in. I spotted a 2 set of what turned out to be 8s or 9s depending on your preferences. Definitely they were as hot as it gets around here. I walked past them but then came back and opened, locked in and proceeded to gain a sort of flow. They were deferring conversation threads to me, laughing and doing a lot of "flashing". UNFORTUNATELY, I was somewhat out of state and a bit thrown off by their confidence. Being both beautiful, well-educated and well-traveled I silently deduced that they were models. I did not kino at all. I was kind of blown away by them a bit. Great attitude. Would be an excellent score for anyone, for sure.
I learned that if a girl is flashing (allowing you to see cleavage, crotch, directly smiling at you, etc) then that's pretty much a kino invitation. I don't know that for sure, but as I was walking away after not being able to number close like I had with the girl at the bus stop, I was thinking, "Damn. I should have kinoed!". Of course, one should always endeavor to kino. I know they say that you can't split a 2 set without a wing. But, being that I'm developing my own game, I'm going to experiment with these "kino invitations". Like Future said, something happens between "Hello" and putting your dick in her mouth. I didn't even shake hands and do an introduction. I don't know. Somebody slap me. Live and learn. In the next few days I hope to experiment with these "kino invitations" and see if I'm right or not. Certainly, one does not always see these cues and may kino without them, just as one can approach without an approach invitation. I have never heard about anyone talking about these. Come to think of it, the girl at the bus stop DID give me a kino invitation. She did it by leaning AWAY from me as though she was protecting herself from wanting to be kinoed. Normally if a girl does that it's cause she's extremely uncomfortable but this was different.
So, kino invitations. I wonder if anyone else has experienced this phenomenon.
The game seems so intensely lame right now.
I have been getting numbers with greater frequency. I got one off okcupid recently. The online messaging method I've been following is a short comment about their profile with some value thrown in. Here's an example:
me: That sounds like a cool job. I'm a creative type myself.
her: What kind of music do you play?
Me: I play a mix of rock and electronic. Gotta bring the sparkles and the leather together! If you want, I'll take your number so we can get off this site and into real life.
her: Sorry for the delay, my computer was in the hospital... xxx-xxxx
This was not quite as nice as some others. Here's another:
m: You're not from the midwest
h: Oh really? What makes you say that?
m: I know a Midwestern girl when I see one. You've got the vibe of a Southern Belle.
h: Oh wow southern belle? I don't think I've ever been called that before. So what does a midwestern girl look like?
m: Lets put it this way: If you could buy one at Toys R Us, she's come in an oversized package and her accessories would be a cell phone and a Mc Donald's cheeseburger.
YOU GET THE POINT
h: Ha! I thought you would say she'd be holding a chicken in one hand and an ear of corn in the other. So do you play that guitar, or is it just an accessory?
m: I definitely think it'd be better to show you in person. I can call you and maybe we can arrange a meet.
h: Sounds like an ok plan. xxx. My name is xxx, but I'm guessing you deduced that. Your name is?
Then I text and called. Worked her up and for some reason killed it. But, it was going well. A short fuse as they say. I'm working on the first example now. Will post.
I'm still here.
It seems like the game cannot be avoided.
I try to tell myself, "I can't do this." That's just a lie. I *can* do it. Rationally, I can't think of a good reason other than since I can do it and it's difficult that it's just a challenge.
If I really couldn't do it, then there would be no problem. Like, I can't fly. I can't time travel. I can't turn into Batman.
But I can game. I'm just a white belt. In jiu jitsu the belts go white, blue, purple, brown and black. I heard that a blue belt is just a white that got his ass kicked. So in pick up, a blue belt would just be a white belt that got rejected to near-death.
I make it sound horrible but paradoxically I'm doing better. Except for my neighbor I was gaming only to find her outside her apartment today snuggled up with some other guy. Good for him. I'd hate on him but I *did* try to game today. He just happened to be today's victor.
It's a cold, cruel and heartless game. But, I can't pretend I'm happy or content not playing. There really does not seem to be an alternative.
So, with that, let's start a new week and forget the past.
You guys, I think social circle is where it's at. Just like the dude says, your inner game will be crazy being a lone hunter. If you want the girls to come to you, you got to get involved with some activities/places and let the girls work for you.
I think cold approach is like hypertrophy. It beats your ass but makes you stronger.
Warm approach is like cardio. Hang in there and you'll get there.
I've been following cues in my circles. It makes so much sense. Outside is all out. Inside is chill.
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