BBM's No Keyboard Jockeying Effort To Mastery
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- 07-26-2012, 08:22 PM #101
- I have Friday and Sat off. This is good news.
- Stripper HB10 is chasing me again. I gave her a 2 month freeze out. I'm being a standoffish dick to her with a little bit of pull thrown in there and it seems to be working. She wants me to visit her tonight but I'm ignoring her. I'm not unblocking her on Facebook. She's gonna have to work hard for that.
- I'm thinking back to my 1 on 1 with Hoss, and what I've been reading over in the Project Rockstar Journals. If I go over to HB10's house, i have a small window of opportunity to create attraction and fuck her. She's not slotting me into friend zone territory. The key seems to be getting into her personal space and escalating hard, then pulling back. Repeat.
- A year ago I wouldn't have had the skills to fuck her, but now it seems within the realm of possibility. I've been described as being calibrated. So let's hope that my "calibration" works out. There's attraction here, evidently she's chasing me. I need to nurture this attraction.
- I've wanted to fuck her for a long time. I'm going to fuck her. My weekend right now is looking at a night with HB Nails and a guys night out.
- Got lots of stuff going on outside of my 60 hour work week.
- Reconnected with an old girlfriend now master art designer. Never fclosed, but I want to make sweet love like I did to other girls in our social circle. I love educated, sophisticated, ivy-league schooled asians.
...also trying to get over my sticking point on number closes.
- 07-27-2012, 12:02 PM #102
The late nights are really killing me. This morning I realized that my studiousness is getting the better of me.
- working 60 hours.
- after-hour projects: interning with LS, paintings, writing, selling off my stuff.
- just when I thought my Divorce was about to be finalized, I got thrown a curveball today. I've dealt with it though it's early to say if this potential bomb has been defused.
- Masterbation, evening drinks, and overly studiousness are murderous. Having a girl Im dating is setting me back from going out, though it's notedly temporary.
- Project Rockstar Journals are REALLY motivating. Reading their struggles and insights reminds me of just how far I have to go and what I have to look forward to. There's many takeaways here, like getting into a woman's personal space and escalating, which is what I need to now work on.
- Today I will go to the gym on the way home to do just a few exercises. In time Ill build on this momentum and transition more of my life into it. As the transition is gradual itll prevent shock and disruption.
- And I feel the urge to go out and open. Open open open!
- Im realizing how i can get over my number closing plateau.:: VANCOUVER CREW ::
- Identity flips every attraction switch at once.
- 07-28-2012, 01:19 PM #103
Last night was a date and comfort building with HB Aesthetician. She knows I won't be here for more than a couple of months. This is so "neither of us are hurt". At the same time, I say "let's make the best of it". She hasn't put a label on me to people, but I tell her I'm referring to her as a "girlfriend to keep things simple for others".
Some man-tears from sharing something very personal with her I don't share with others. Telling her my story. First there were some really dark times. I found myself out in the wilderness where I grew up and made something of myself. The grieving process that comes from tragedy and how you spin it into something incredibly positive. And eventually the third part of my story will be that I return home and wrap up the old tangents as a greater man with life experience I never had before. And striving to a greater purpose of reaching to the sky. Is this breakthrough comfort? Who knows.
But today. Today I have an assignment from Gil Rio for an ebook he wants me to complete. And then there are the book designs that LS has given me to work on. It is fucking awesome so look forward to it.
I have a sticking point and that is not wanting to go out and game when I'm all fucked out. When happens when you have too much sex where you now feel celibate?
Tonight will be a good night!
- 07-28-2012, 08:00 PM #104
Well, here I am working on that Dates book drawing. My art is very good and is drawing the attention of the bartenders and waitresses. I had to redraw it because the first drawing looked like the girl was pushing the guy away. HB Aesthetician thought is was pretty funny, so she texted: Dating Guide: How to Scare Women Into Going on Dates with You AHAH.
This second drawing is much better and now I'm down to ink it.
I had a guy come over to check out what I was doing, shake my hand, and take my website. Where's my damn business cards already. They should already be ready for pickup so I can start giving them out to people.
One of the waitresses took my website address. I explain a bit about how Im paid and more about this drawing Im working on. I've been having them give me opinions on certain things throughout the day. I say usually people pay me but sometimes I do ones for free. I tell her if she texts me I might do one for her as well (wink). So comes over later and wants to make sure she has the right address.
So this is great. If she contacts me, this means I just got closed by a hired gun.
- 08-01-2012, 11:56 AM #105
Im done writing about the process and am going to limit what I post from now on. Ill post the odd thing in here but Ill only write an FR when I get something really solid. And that's a maybe.
I used to be an open book here but I cant do that anymore. A lot of my accomplishments Im going to just keep to my circle of friends.
I believe this journal may be finished as I forsee my real life intersecting with anonymity.:: VANCOUVER CREW ::
- Identity flips every attraction switch at once.
- 09-07-2012, 10:39 PM #106
Still here. Recap:
- Going out once a week. So far Thursdays.
52 weeks in a year gives me 52 sessions. That could be 104 if it's twicely. 156 if thrice. I look forward to my forthcoming 3 weeks in Vancouver as that will be a non-stop vacation of daily sarges. My daygame mojo was great there... here where I live... not so great. What gives?
- Been dating a "not-gf" for the past two months.
So far: no labels, no relationship talk.
Framing: Reminding her "I won't be here forever". Talk about my job moving me across Canada.
Actions: Meet whenever I feel like it, which happens to be a Saturday evening or Sunday.
Result: Future projections about starting our own comedy improv youtube channel, me getting in touch with my "inner douche", realizations about push/pull, some stability added to my life (this is not one-itis), social circle shenanigans.
- Body Building:
I'm on Week 1 Day 4 for a body building intensive. Allegedly, it's the same program the Rockstars were doing. At first I was overwhelmed by how I'd fit in several meals a day not to mention how to cook and prepare all that food. Then I was like how can I eat all this? Now I can do all that and I feel good. Tomorrow is my 10 hour work day, then Day 5 of the workout, then a poker tournament. I'm feel confident.
- Daygame Concerns:
Im on fire in Vancouver but here where I live, it's like I've lost my mojo. What gives?
- Nightgame Sticking Points:
I've narrowed it down to hesitating with the open, and qualifying / escalating. My solutions are this:
For Opening - short-set with something neutral. "Hi, I'm Dan". Ready transitions: "What are we celebrating?", etc. Chode questions are okay as the point is for me to work the room and talk to people. I need consistency to develop those social skills / warm up. Once I've warmed up, I can practice with opinion openers / direct and lead into attraction material (roleplays, moving, escalation).
For Attraction - some sets I will have immediate attraction, which dies quickly because I don't move the girl, escalate, keep the interaction light and playful, or any of that stuff. I have a clear head when writing this stuff but in field not so much. To get good, I need to be consistent and to be consistent I need to open consistently and to do that I need a no-pressure way to start the night, which is: just saying hi and offering a handshake.
Transitions are very simple: thread on what everyone's celebrating. you can hi-five / cheer for whatever their answer is. Transition to how they know each other.
My learning is bouncing all over the place. That concerns me. Or is it that I'm just narrowing down what I thought would be useful to what I ACTUALLY need to work at. Maybe this is what the instructors mean when they say you make a lot of progress even when you seem to plateau.
- DISTINGUISHING PUAS WITHOUT GIVING YOURSELF AWAY:
I don't talk about Lovesystems, or Pickup, or Game generally. Some terms are natural and easy to use, like "pull" and "set" and "daygame" and the concept of "practicing". A guy that knows more than he lets on won't question what those terms mean. He'll get it. He might even throw out terms like "instadate". If you're feeling bold, mention "AA" in passing. If he knows what "AA" is, he's definitely a Pickup Dude.
I met a Pickup dude at work who's cool as fuck. He's very low radar about it and seems to have superior game to another guy on site that likes to talk about whatever bartender he "closed". I've actually met a little core group of cool dudes that are into Pickup. But they're not PUAs. But they have above-average Game. I wouldn't quite call them Naturals...
Either way, there's about five or six of us that hit the clubs and out of us probably three of us do approaches. And that one Pickup dude, him and I wing each other. We're talking about doing a group Vegas trip. That'd be cool. Skydiving and shooting guns and other shenanigans.
And that one guy still has no idea that I've done training or taken bootcamps or that I even read Pickup literature. I just completely disqualify to guys that I have any game whatsoever. I actually like it that way.
- KEEPING TRACK OF SETS:
I like this idea of my buddy's. Keeping track of sets. Not really going into detail about sets unless it's something worthwhile and entertaining... but just mentioning how many sets you did. I can't say I know how many sets I've done this last year... a lot? Lol. Now I'm starting to think of this in terms of sets and reps.
- The X Game:
I want to test this out. It's so simple and I've seen it so widely used. It's not a routine. It's not an attitude. It's just... a filter. She's giving you an attitude? That's the "attitude game". You can make it fun. Boring interview transition questions from her? That's the "interview game". Make it fun. Anything's a game, really. "Guess the ethnicity game".
Yep. Making note of it right now.
- Last Words:
It's 11:36pm. Fuck. I could have been out sarging. Bastard of a landlord intermediary pushed my move-out an hour later. Then I had to come home and cook my meals for the next day... and I didn't even get to fully do that either. Yeppers, Kris Gethin takes priority over sarging. Waking up in 6 hours for stair cardio. And cooking. I'm fucked. But the day will be awesome.
Poker tournament. Stealing everyone's money. Passing up my lay opportunity... for a night out with the guys... and sarging. Okay maybe there might be last minute not-gf sex and a possible back massage and major lovin.. perhaps. Oo... paintball on Sunday maybe... last weekend was killer.
The LOUNGE is full of money posts.
My work schedule is kind of fucking my sarging life in the ass. But I love money.
END OF RAMBLES.
- 09-08-2012, 03:14 PM #107
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Blackbelt making money & gaming bitches haha. The super conference keeps inching it's way closer.. I want to read some more crazy pull posts from you in the near future boyi.
- 09-09-2012, 12:48 AM #108
Holy shit! Instapull tonight!! Currently at the liquor store buying booze:: VANCOUVER CREW ::
- Identity flips every attraction switch at once.
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Sweet journal, subscribed
- 09-09-2012, 08:56 AM #110
Wow. What the fuck was that. Thought she was a bomb then it turned out to be a dud. I was so certain I was getting laid but when I got her back she was all weird. Then she fell asleep. And I slept in another room because I was weirded out.
But first a recount because a few of the sets I did were fucked up. Tonight I was also focused on getting my sets in. I'd count the numbers to stay on top.
1. Two hotties were on my radar. My group was circle chilling and they were right next to me just talking to each other. I decide to open em but not until a few of us are on an interesting topic: how many times we've been hit on by girls or ugly people so far tonight. My friend says she hasn't been hit on by any girls yet, just ugly guys. I ask the girls for their opinion and they say, "two or three". Haha my friend goes, "Nice try!!" and I regret to say nothing more came of it.
That was my warm-up set and while it was shit I realized a few things as I type this:
I coulda teased those three girls about hitting one each other. Then transitioned to how they know each other and bam I'm in set.
Total Sets tonight: prob 8.
I slayed some dragons
Friends and I were at the club last night. There's two girls and a bunch of us. They point to two beasties dancing on the pull that are breathing fire and making the earth rumble when they say go "hit on them hard". I refuse. 1. I aint making out with them. 2. I have a price for doing stuff like that. They say they'll buy me a shot for just dancing with them. Which I do.
So we head to the bar and I get my victory drink.
Then I danced with a shit test machine
This is a first... I immediately got shit tested right form the start and that was how the rest of the set went.
Her: Just how old are you?
Me: Oh I know this game... lemme see... 90 years old.
Her: No. C'mon. How old are you?
Me: How old are YOU?
Her: You tell me.
Me: I asked first
Her: I DID.
Me: No I did. I'm older than you.
Her: How old are you really?
She kept insisting, so at this point I thought she was just screening me as I do look younger than my years. I thought what the hell. I'll tell her my age. So I did. I learned hers, 24. Then she goes:
Her: "I'm a truck driver!!" (tone of voice: "Oh yeah? Take this!).
Me: "Cool. I do x (amused by her tone of voice)
Her: "Oh yeah?? I have my own business. I'm an entrepreneur!" (tone of voice: And this! Check..mate..!).
Me: "Cool. I'm an entrepreneur too. I also have my own business".
I fit in some foolish dancing.
She points out her dad:
Her: "That's my dad over there. He's my dad."
Me: "Cool. Is he good at dancing too."
Her: "Yeah he's really good. I learned everything from him".
I say hi to the guy and am like are you really her dad? N I qualify some. He pegs her as an "entrepreneur". I qualify that and how she's also difficult as well. I said he raised her well.
We get her dad up onto one of the other platforms to show off his dance moves. Ironically he goes to the other side of the club away from us. My friends are meanwhile watching what's going on.
I fit in more foolish dancing and she shit tests me on that. I point out how I'm just confidence and don't give a damn what anyone thinks. I'm having fun. She goes, "Yeah, so am I!"
Her: "You just like me because I have short hair".
Me: "I happen to like girls with long hair. But you're different and I like that because of x, y, z."
Me: I pointed out how everyone was drunk and girls were being bitchy and her and I were both sober and I happened to notice her for something other than her looks. I said all these girls are wearing cocktail dresses and are super hot and she stood out to me. As I write this, I forget what I said to qualify her.
I do a takeaway. I think I told her immediately after I'm going to go get a drink with my friends and I'd see her later. In hindsight, I could have thanked her for the dance and told her to come find me later. So there's something for the future.
Then my pull happened:
Earlier on the dance floor I'd seen this girl pass me. Some mutual attraction as she passed by. It seemed like I was going to be dragged away to some corner of the bar. Nope. She disappeared with her white feather boa and party props never to be seen again.
Later at the bar I'm doing shots with my friends when she comes up to order drinks. There's some people between her and I and she doesn't notice me.
I open with, "Hey I saw you earlier!". She comes over and I forget what happened next but I told her to kiss my cheek and instead we make-out. I give her a shot from one of the ones I'd ordered and we make out some more. Then she said some logistical thing like, "What are we doing?" or "I'm bored" and I suggest we leave. And we do. We leave without my expensive jacket (hope my buddy got my text to retrieve it).
We waive a taxi. She's asking lots of questions. Then she says she's gotta go back into the club to get her girlfriend friend to join us... cause she's a lesbien apparently. I'm like thinking HOLY MOTHER OF FUCK. THREE SOME!! YEAH. The taxi driver's like, "She aint coming back man". But she does. It's just her. So we head to the liquor store and I tell him don't take off. Then we head back to my place.
The weirdness has starts. She's asking me the same questions and questions that have nothing to do with anything. She's repeating her questions. And again. We get back to my place and the taxi driver warns me to do my thing and send her home and not let her use my phone as apparently she has some "brothers that will come find me and he's worried for my safety". Huh, what haha?
We get inside and she's raving about how she's hungry. So I cook her some food which she devours. She tells me she's a model. That's all I know about her. I don't know whom she is or even what her name is. She thanks me for feeding her and says we're going to fuck and she loves sex. LOL?
She gets excited I have a bedroom (Huh?) and enthusiastically lets me lead her there. I remember starting the seduction off with a massage. I remember her saying, "okay get the fuck off me". It's gets even weirder and she starts calling me her ex-bf's name and shouts his name randomly. Think, "STELLA!!" and asking, "Are you ____?" and doing it over and over again.
I had enough of her bullshit and told her she was being a fucking weirdo and said I'd call a cab on her. She suddenly snaps out of her weirdness and goes, "No, don't". Then she's embarrassed that she called me her ex bf's name and was acting like a weirdo (that had her heart broken recently).
Then she doesn't want seduction. She wants straight fucking. She won't pull off her pants so I go down on her. She's moaning a bit so I get her pants off and it's just her panties and then I don't even take those off. I move em over and just lick her pussy.
Then she tells me to "please stop", which I do abruptly. I lay next to her and she cuddles into me and falls asleep. She won't wake up either. This is really weird for me so I tuck her in go into another room and sleep there.
I wake up early and check up on her, but she's done and there's a trail of feathers leading to the door. And my mickey of alcohol is no where to be seen. That shit's three times as expensive up here as it is in the States. Fuck me.
My other sets were un-memorable. Oh yeah, there was one. I noticed two cute asians so I thought what the hell. I went over and ran a direct line. I pointed out they seemed shy and did a contrast talk about us vs the rest of the club being drunk and all over the place.
I had her talking to me but then this guy came in and hit on the friend, causing them both to leave. He thought I knew the girls too.
I remember asking girls, "Whats the celebration" then I just hi5 them on whatever they say. If they didn't know how to qualify, I'd share something to lead on the interaction, causing them to play along. Tonight I took something that's seemed to work and I made it into a game where each person takes turns contributing what they're celebrating. For instance, Im flying out in two weeks.
This was my first solo pull here and at the time it seemed promising and I was looking forward to great, awesome sex... but instead I got my hand.
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