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    text with portuguese girl that just shows why i hate when girls cant make the date when i called because all the time you text it looks more and more investment on your side. Any way here how the conversation went:
    her status on bbm "my cooking is Good,even the smoke alarm seems to be cheering me on"
    me:i wanted to invite u to cook but now not a chance...n i bet it was scrambled eggs you burned
    her: lol
    me: what u doing besides burning kitchens
    her: i'm a flight attendant
    me: that's why you cant cook,u look more like a lawyer
    her:lol
    here i got irritated by LOL and i dint want to push conversation anymore so i decided to let it go
    me: u not a text person i see
    her: i'm in a meeting so i cant really text* but i'm not a sms person
    me: ok enjoy

    All replies from her side were instant besides on first msg(took her 11min to reply) while i was taking 10-15 minutes breaks


    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Snupas, I see you from Pretoria?!

    Loving the updates, I should really be doing the same but the amount of time I spend out i don't have much time!

    Where you gaming? Ever come to the Joburg side?!

    ~DeeJayD

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    Hey bro,
    Yup I'm from Pretoria. Thanks I only do updates during a week as I do have some free time there.
    I will PM you tomorrow once I'm at work, I don't want name places in FR in case one of the girls come across this website
    I can come to joburg on wkd, have no problem with that, we will discuss tomorrow

    Snupas
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Bday girl texted me yesterday again, didnt text for long as she always text after 9pm and i was already falling asleep, and i dont really like her , second day i'm thinking of a plan how to get that sorted out as i want FHM girl . They def talked about me i had that feeling on sunday , i wish i could read minds and find out "who said what to whom".
    I know the bday girl is off to England soon, personally i cant wait then i will have 2 weeks window to play propa game
    Who has any suggestions?
    it's either my brain is running out of ideas or i just gonna wait till the other girl takes off to england since i know for sure FHM girl likes me . That's a only clever thing i can think of right now
    I went to bday girl profile last night and they def very close every second photo of them together meaning that if i just go for fhm girl then bday girl will get jealious and might just tell her not to see me. Just to let you know i dont have oneitis on fhm girl just just want that and i still want to play the situation in cool way
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Had visitors from oversee last nite and went with them to dinner, while driving there HB-dancer(see page 1 in the report) texted me and i thought i would arrange a meeting with her and see her after i'm done with business dinner , here how the text went:
    her: what did the left vagina lip say to the right one?..."we used to be so tight untill some dick got between us :-)
    me:haha nice joke for traffic.how was bungee jumping
    her: hehe i aim to please. didnt end up going,coz everyone chickened out !x_x pussies!
    me: lol what a bunch of loosers invited and then chickened out x_xwhats new on ur side ms nerd?
    her:tell me about it !not much new,same old but good old! i dance at Latinova every saturday now, so u guys must come party there
    me:latinova, ok we will pop by,im actually at dinner in sandton, lets grab a drink later tonight somewhere in fourways?
    her:sounds good. let me know when you finished with dinner. I have a dance rehearsal but shouldn't be too late
    me: ok, i shud be done by 8-8:30, ill call you once i'm done :-)
    i finished at 10 and i called her at 10, she picked up , of course it was late but we had a very good convo that lasted 10 min and she invited me to party on saturday so i said i will let her know, then we did some random talk and she asked if i will be attending party on 2nd of october (biggest party here) and i say yes and she said she is attending as well so we should meet up there too
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Today i decided to do the following I will speak to bday girl tomorrow and i will say that there is nothing can be between us as she dated one of my friends and my morals dont allow me to date her (as i dont date girls that my friends dated before this is half true ) and offer her to be just friends in this case i should not hurt her feelings in any case or ego ,she smses me every day and i just chat to keep her happy so i can get along with fhm girl and today i thought thats beneath me. Decision is made and personally i think its right one, its good to be an asshole but there are limits sometimes and to play on girls feelings to get another one is just low
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Thursday 01/09/2011
    Another great success , went to russian party with russian friend planned to stay till 10 as im working today and didnt plan to drink but you cant avoid drinking with russian people. Any way chatted to few girls none of them were russian but at the end decided to go home. On way i stopped at my usual place to meet the owner of the club as always. It's busy i decided to stay , while i'm going through the crowd a girl stops me it's strange girl from report above! So we chat , she introduces me to her 2 girlfriends , we chat more , drink more it's 11 oclock i gotta go so i tell her i gotta go and say "you know whats gonna happen now" she asks "what" , i say "i'm gonna lean forward but only half way you will have to lean in another half" she says "ok" , k-close ... she asks me to stay a bit more i say no, she says "please go with me outside to meet my other friend as i'm here without a car and he left , i interrupt and say if he is not there then you will come home with me ... she says "ok"; we are looking for a guy and finally she found him , so we kiss more and she ask if she can see me tomorrow and i say "yes she can" and i leave. There was a lot of kino i almost didnt talk mostly kino. While i'm driving home she sends me few bbms .
    Any way while i was on way to my car i checked my phone(didnt really concentrate on it while i was with above girl) there is a bbm from a girl i spoke a while ago(here is our last convo Role playing propa this time) we chatted after but it was always short, she got upset because of that convo. Any way she sends me msg and here how the convo went:
    her: Het there. My husband ;-) how u
    her:are we really gonna go through with this divorce or we gonna work it out?
    me: hello wifie :-)
    me: i'm pretty drunk,no divorce, if we divorce i keep the dog ;-)
    me: what u up to
    her:im in bed!
    her: u with mates?
    her: haha no we will stay married for the dog :-p
    me:yup , already on way home to sleep
    her: but promise u wont do anyone on the side
    me: i knew it,its our fav dog :-)
    me: i wont if you send a sexy pic
    her: hahaha bribery at its best ay
    her: what kinda pic
    me: a sexy one!!!
    me: not bribery more like negotiations
    her: u have seen most of them
    me: make a new one :-)
    sends me one of the old pics
    her: now?
    me: yup
    her: im in bed with the light off
    her: will tomorrow
    me: lol put them on :-)
    her: night night hubby x
    her: got gym at 5 am tomorrow
    me: night night wifie x
    her: sweet sexy dreams
    me: if u send a sexy pic it will b

    Tonight should be another great night i dont know how i will manage bday girl,fhm girl and strange girl all in one place . Challenges at its best
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    I cant back to the begining of the thread and paste it there but i thought i will write this. This is actually about two of my friends that changed my life dramatically they are only two friends that i actually call because the rest of my friends call me.
    Yes i was a natural before and at 18 i had to start working i was so concentrating on my studyng and career growth that i stopped drinking alcohol, i didnt go out for 2 years but i got adapted to working routine and i got my manager promotion within 2 years so here i'm 20 years old and i run the second best company in SA electronics market but what they say "successful in one thing but total disaster in another" that another thing was women (i had no relationship for 2 years and i actually didn't need one but it was time to come back, i was that good mannered guy i still was getting girls but the interest used to disappear within 2-3 month, the comeback i couldn't avoid). In 2008 i met a guy that changed my view on everything i knew till date, i still remember me meeting him first time i come to pick him up , he looked like a gay guy but very confident arrogant and successful . He will be the one that will bring me back to where i was before i start concentrating on career . So we start hanging out for another 2 years we were so close that all our friends started to make jokes that we are gay boys, as we were going everywhere together, through him i met 100 people within first 3 weeks , i was back to social life . The friendship wasnt easy ,he liked to dice me about everything cloth, haircut, almost everything; at first i was letting it go as i dont take things seriously but then it grew to public and that i couldn't allow , a little i knew he did it for purpose he saw my weak points and he wanted to help(but his approach of helping was to dice me to make me understand what i did wrong by myself without him pointing my mistakes), at time we will clash in argument and just swear each other up , but that clashing actually helped me to grow my confidence , to find my self and my ego. As i mentioned dicing me on everything start leading to a complex where i was at time afraid to wear some cloth,being shy around him,as i knew he was better, i accepted it and that is where i was failing so i decided to change my style, my haircut was changing every month, every month something different , every month i was becoming better , after a year he was not able to control me anymore , it was me making jokes about him , it was me dicing him back and it was me who introduce him to a girl that he is dating for 2 years now and thinking to marry her.Yes he taught me the way i should be by applying ugly tactics , at time it was just embarrassing but i watched him , i analysed and i was taking missing pieces of the puzzle and putting them together It's 2 years now since he doesn't dice me anymore, we are equal now and i proved it to him that i'm better i beat him in his own game at the end by becoming an asshole like he is. What i learnt from him is priceless : dont call people they must call you,be arrogant(it's not that bad it just shows that you have higher value),always flirt(doesn't matter if the girl in front of you is hb5 or hb 10), talk to any person you never know who this person might be , dont hesitate, dominate, be rude, be an asshole,go to gym(it will help you to feel better about yourself than other guys trust me),dont care about outcome, dont call girl after first date as she must run after you after first date,girls must run after you because you awesome,respect yourself and believe in yourself. By the way he is natural, he didnt read any books at all , all came from experience but up to date he is one of friends that i want to thank and he is the one that made me who i am now.

    Friend number 2 the italian friend. i met him in february this year but we got on well straight away , he is the guy that actually sent me the books from which i only read David DeAngelo as he suggested that that's the best book because his stuff works on older women and young girls. Any way we started to go out together and i thought i was on his level and sadly i have to say no i'm not the more i knew her the more i was amazed , for some reason he only uses his celphone to get dates , he sits on his blackberry 24/7 chatting to 15 different girls at once. I wanted to learn that, my text game wasn't good, i started to ask questions and practise, practise, practise. I'm better but he still better , i wont stop till i reach his level, out of my big circle of friends and many guys that i know that good with women he is still the only one I can learn something from. He is the best i saw till date, he play the game in which apponent always lose and my second thank you goes to him for making me better every day. Now i watch him act and i learn and ask questions , maybe by end of the year i will be able to challenge him again but this time i wont lose
    The moral of the story dont give up ....learning takes time,practise and experience!You will never stop learning unless you will stop developing as a person yourself, there is always room for improvement and there is always gonna be someone better than you are
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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    Your lifestyle is insane, positive feedback loops where going to clubs get you to parties, going to parties gets you friends with owners of the best clubs, and all the time girls are talking with each other about you. You also seem to have a nice easy way with women, you know how to chat to them about things they are interested in, like fashion etc, which most men don't. Was interesting what you said about your good friend seeming like a gay guy at first: I think too much talk about fashion, too much interest in female things is not very alpha, but you seem to balance it by working as manager in electronics industry (very masculine) and adrenaline sports.

    On the fashion talk, I like to show a girl that I am confident enough in my masculinity to let her talk about it freely and tell me what she likes, that I know something about the different labels and I have good taste, and I aim to communicate that I am happy to take a gf shopping from time to time because I want her to look good for me. But I'll tease a girl if she talks about that stuff too much.

    The only thing I would say is keep your value high, don't became a "man slut", always be hard to get. When you choose one to be your gf, she needs to have the strong feeling that you have chosen her above all the others. If you have high value and other girls can see that you have chosen her, this gives her an insane high: it's very sexy for her to be "the one" who has been chosen by the highest value man.

    In my city there's one venue where I have a problem, because I've been on dates with three or four girls who are there all the time and some girls must have talked to each other about me, they all seem to know, even the barman knows about it. It means I have instant social proof whenever I walk in, but it's tough to meet new girls because they go "my god, seems like you've dated all the girls here, what are you like?" Of course it's not really like that, just has been a few dates here and there, two k-closes and one f-close but the way people have talked it seems to everyone that I am a player, more importantly any new girl thinks she's my fourth choice after it didn't work out with the others.

    Quote Originally Posted by Snupas
    I will speak to bday girl tomorrow and i will say that there is nothing can be between us as she dated one of my friends and my morals dont allow me to date her (as i dont date girls that my friends dated before
    I think this strategy will help you greatly with FHM girl, as obviously the girls are going to talk about this a lot. Increases your value greatly, because you have morals and will not compromise them just to get yourself a lay: the girls, at the moment, are thinking that you like bday girl. Subconsciously, FHM girl will be thinking, great this clears the path for me. But, you do need to be super-careful about this, the girls must absolutely think it is because of your moral code and not because you don't like bday girl, you need to expand on reasons, stuff like how each relationship is unique and deeply personal, intimate details exchanged which can never be forgotten etc etc. Only danger is that bday girl will like you even more because girls always want what they can't have, and so FHM girl will feel worried that she can hurt her friend by dating you. But if FHM girl is HB10 she probably doesn't worry too much about that kind of stuff because it happens to her all the time, that her friends bfs like her more, so the guilt may be reduced to quite a low level: possibly she even gets a bit of a kick and validation out of taking men off of her friends.

    Quote Originally Posted by Snupas
    me: ... im actually at dinner in sandton, lets grab a drink later tonight somewhere in fourways?
    her:sounds good. let me know when you finished with dinner. I have a dance rehearsal but shouldn't be too late
    me: ok, i shud be done by 8-8:30, ill call you once i'm done :-)
    i finished at 10 and i called her at 10, she picked up , of course it was late but we had a very good convo that lasted 10 min
    I like the way you had semi-confirmed drink with girl and then didn't bother with it just talked on phone later, very cool.

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    Hey headman,
    Long time no talk hey! Always nice to hear your opinion because you give it in full and from the heart ;-) Since i'm a sales person i always knew what to say to people and how to communicate , so my communication skills developed deeply in school where you needed to know everyone if you dont want to be beaten . Over all he was only looking gay because of the earings that he wear that time, he doesn't now. Actually from my observation if you look like a gay guy you will always get attention . First i learnt it when i met two gay guys and they said i look hot not so long after that girls started saying same compliments, the reason is if the gay guys like how you look girls will def like you too.Over all i almost never talk about fashion with girls unless they ask where i dress my fav topic is travelling and extreme sports as it's all on emotional level and of course mix it with David DeAgelo cocky-funny and you get what you wanted!As well i always try to make girl talking as i want her to invest in me . Usually when i meet girl in club she would not know anything about me besides my name but i will know almost everything about her .I would def suggest guys to know what facial cosmetics to use and so on , the more topics you can talk about the better it just shows your intellegence .
    I def agree with you about FHM girl, but it's better this way , i actually ask for advice from my first friend and he suggested to do that . Funny enough as i mentioned i was chatting to bday girl all week long via text and the plan was i will ask all those nerdy questions but she seems to like it. I was giving long answers on her short replies, i was continueing convo when it seemed to be ended but she continues to send me me msgs no matter what i say. I will see them both tonight and i need to talk to bday girl , doesnt matter how it will end , the main thing is to be human and she is nice girl at end of the day!
    I have an image of the player long time ago and persian girl calls me "man whore" but my status beats any assotiation about me and secondly i dont lie if a girl asks me "i'm a player" i always say girls like me and it's natural so if you wnat to date me you have to leave with it. At times i regret it and that's why i dont add girls on my facebook because things always get ugly there . But i can tell you one thing if i date a girl i dont cheat, i flirt with other girls but i dont cheat
    My pick up method is very simple its called "FFF" which translates as FLIRT-FUCK-FORGET
    EVER TRIED-EVER FAILED- NO MATTER-TRY AGAIN-FAIL AGAIN-FAIL BETTER
    You have one life to live.Marx teaches us to blame society for our frailties, Freud teaches us to blame our parents, and astrology teaches us to blame the universe.but the only place to look for blame is if you didnt have the guts to bring out your full self, if you didnt act on your desires, if you didnt take advantage of what was in front of you and life the life that was your potential..

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