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    Quote Originally Posted by DecadentSin View Post
    Its deeper than that. You don't have to choose how it affects you if you choose not to have it happen.

    EVERYTHING is a choice. Think about it a bit more.

    People without legs run 100m races faster than I could. Stop making excuses for yourself
    I actually read a funny article about that from the last Olympics. No runners with no legs were banned because it was determined they use 40% less energy when running and therefore had an unfair advantage. Plus the only people who can do that are those who have lots of time and money. Otherwise everyone who lost a leg would have a prosthetic leg. However, how many of those people said "Cut off my legs I want to prove the world wrong"? Plus for every one of those people who said I want to run again. Probably two or three said the same thing, but were turned down for being poor.

    I can agree, yes we all have a choice to make. For some of us that choice is an option. For others that choice is fighting what cannot be helped. That is the situation I am in. I am one man with a sword against 100 with guns and there is 200 meters between us. Yes I could win the fight, there is always a chance for dumb luck. However, chances are I won't even make it to the battle. A wise man would retreat determining living on is better than dying a glourious death. Yes I can try and go out and do pick up. However, as far as I can see it is an exercise in futility. Because in the end I would just be a failure.



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    Quote Originally Posted by AFrozenSoul View Post
    @DecadentSin: However, if I had the choice on whether or not to be born. I would not be here.
    This reminds me of Sophocles' philosophy. He also said the second best thing after not being born is to die soon. He lived till he was about 90. You probably will too, so man up - that's a hell of a long time to be miserable. My suspicion is that you need to get other parts of your life handled first and the women will come later. Force yourself to do act and the thought should follow. You can cultivate a better mind-state through activity and interaction. Don't expect the mind-state to come first.

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    @Ita_vero: but the only part of my life that is not handled is my job hunt. Otherwise everything else is handled. The only reason for my depression is really because I am not sexually active and want to be.

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    You need to start a little further back than picking up girls. You need to start putting your life back together first. If you ran into a woman who had pretty much given up, you wouldnt last that long with her. Why ask a woman to do what you wouldn't? This 'Game' isn't magic. It cannot make the impossible happen.

    'I would rather die fighting than live on my knees'

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    You can't say that nobody listens to you. For one, look at all these people fighting to keep you from giving up. You have over 1,000 views as well. We all care about each other here, and help each other. If we just let you quit, we'd be failing ourselves, as well as failing you. So, I am saying this now. If you quit, I will climb the Rockies, find you by tracking your IP address, and I will beat you until you start working at this. You just have to grab yourself by your fucking balls, and go approach a set.

    Me, Changes, Zman, anybody who has attained his goals on this forum could have quit 1000 times, but we kept going to achieve our goals. I'd recommend you find a wing to keep you honest, and possibly that you set smaller more achievable goals. Read my articles in my sig. They will help. Get to it, before I make good on my threat :P

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    @DecadentSin: Hmm well I guess I am where I was when I met the only girl I have ever had. She was in a similar situation to me. We met, fucked, and had a thing for 3 years. In the end I screwed it up by not committing to her so she took the first guy that came along that muttered the word boyfriend to her. So why you say it wouldn't last long... how long is long?

    Second, how exactly is my life in shambles? What exactly is broken here? Yes I am suicidal, why because I cannot get women. When I was banging aforementioned girl, I was never depressed. I was happy, yeah I had my ups and downs. However, suicide did not come into my mind. The only thing that has changed in the past 2 years is my lack of sex. So I need some insight.

    @Grimbo: Yeah I have seen how many views I have had. It is nice to know that people at least see what I say. However, part of my..ummm style... yeah style... is discussion. Like I said I like this forums views. I really do, however, I do my best not to spam the forums with my loser bullshit. I tend to like to post loser bullshit in hopes of attracting some kind of discussion. Even if it does not seem that way.

    I have a lot of respect for you. I have read your journal on and off. You have done well, I wish I had the drive you have. I know a wing would help, however, I am afraid my wing will become like my personal trainer. When I had a personal trainer I was reliant on him to guide me to success. It was not till I could not afford him that I really started learning. Another problem I have is I learn slowly, but I learn umm well. Some people can pick up stuff in a few months. It takes me longer. However, my job and school has proven to me that when I learn something I know it inside and out. I do not think that most people have the patience. I tend to make the same mistakes over and over and over again before I learn different things from them each time. However, it takes a while before my mistakes disappear. I am afraid people will lose patience with me.

    I read a couple of your articles. They are interesting, sadly right now I am trying to fall asleep. I have 4 hour long interview tomorrow. And I am nervous about what will happen. So my brain cannot really compute a good response to them right now. Plus, I have other things on my mind. Like wishing I was making my sisters new years resolution of not sleeping with people I don't like. However, that is more me being sexually frustrated. Anyway, I will read them again and post my thoughts here in a day or two... or sometime this week.. fuck I forgot I have another 3 reviews I need to write soon... fuck...

    On a side note, it is surprising that a junior mod would have access to such information. That just means that I need to get a VPN and move sooner rather than later. I hope I get this job because then I will move and get a VPN. I can probably figure out how to bounce my IP and mac address all over the net... best I start spoofing those too. I should also probably watch my access logs and see who is pinging my router... hmmm well it will be something to pass the time.

    Anyway, I need to go to sleep. I need to get away from the computer and force myself to sleep.

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    Too late - and no I dont have access to that info ....Im just that good!
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    You shouldnt be relying on a woman to make you happy. It works the other way around. Become happy in yourself and the women follow.

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    @DecadentSin: Well I call BS on that philosophy, of me being happy brings women. I know I was happy when I had the girl in my life. Odd how I did not have any new offers in 3 years. I had a period of about 6 months where I was super motivated and not depressed. Again, oddly enough there were no women around me. So I call BS, after all if it were really true then there would be no need for this book or forum. Because all men would have to do is be happy.

    @Grimbo: Well if you did show up at my place. I would feel obligated to go out with you since you put forth the effort to stalk me.

    On a side note, I remember a while ago I said that I had a goal of getting a phone number and a date. Both withing like 2 or 3 months of each other. How much lower can I go with my goals?

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    You weren't happy in yourself, you were getting happiness from your relationship.

    As far as being a PUA goes; your biggest issue right now is inner game. Go have a look into the work of Steve. P & Rasputin (Hypnotica)

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