I met up with Lor, also a lairguy I sometimes sarge with. Diego was also in town but with a non community friend. We started by checking out a new club. It's more classy, it's nice to have it cause the bars here are all kind of the same, small dance bars with pretty casual folks. That place has the look of a more chill club. Although it took me a while to approach, I felt like I was floating on air. It really felt like my house. The sarging overdose of this week is doing good things to me. It really helps to get that momentum going, it's been a long while since I felt it. I didn't do that much because I didn't feel pressured at all, it's been the 4th night this week I went out so I just wanted to have a good time and do the occasional approaches when I felt like it. I was getting eye contact from all over the place again. One girl in particular gave me repeated eye contact. She looked familiar to me too. Maybe I should have opened her, but there was no pressure and I wasn't that into her.
Set 1: warmup
I open an adjacent two set with "Do you guys know where the toilet is here?". I needed to go and I really didn't know where it was. "No I don't know, I didn't have to go yet". "You should definitely drink more then!" "Haha. I think it's downstairs though." Talked a little while more and then ejected. They were both very friendly.
Set 2: this was bound to happen
Lor didn't really like the club cause he's a more an alternative guy so we went back to the dance bars. We also met up with Diego and his friend there. When inside Lor opened a group of girls and Diego's friend is like "wow good going!". Diego and me are standing there pretty unimpressed like it's the most normal thing in the world.. (well it is to us) and I go "Oh, yeah, that's how we roll!". Diego laughed. It's kind of funny going out when there's non community people in the company too. They continue to be impressed by the approaches , it's kind of a reality check to see how far in fact we have come.
Anyway, I see this cute girl that deserved a direct opener. I go in, open, and she's very receptive. I do my usual shit and she's touching me and stuff, so far so good. I decided at this point it would be a good idea to let her introduce her friends to make my presence in that set more sticky and that they would accept me being there for a prolonged time. She introduces me to her friend standing to my left. The friend says "It's the second time already you get introduced to me and you still don't know my name phssst". Not in a teasy way but I could tell she really was upset about that. My target kind of apologises for her friend. I try to salvage the situation and ask when I met her then. She doesn't even want to answer it. My target is now distancing her from me by taking her phone and sending a text. She was attracted but the situation was obviously awkward and her friend hating me is obviously a dealbreaker. Just my fucking luck again. But yeah, this was bound to happen some time . I realise this isn't going to go anywhere anymore so I eject. I have no clue when I got introduced to her before though. oh well.
Lor wants to try out some kind of routine with a camera. My phone has a pretty good camera so he asks the girls to take a picture of us. The girl taking the picture hands the camera back to me. I bullshit a bit "you'd be an excellent photographer". Blabla she says she wants to study that after her current studies or something. The reason i'm mentioning this is because she was touching me A LOT. She was only a 7 at most though so I wasn't really interested. The plan to involve the whole set with hotter girl kind of failed. What's up with all the IOI's and eyecontact of girls? It's my state, it's really strange, I have no clue what I do different but somehow the girls notice it, it's like an aura of winning or something. I used to have nights like this when I was in good state and stuff started happening, but now I was in state for 4 nights in a row. We'll see what the future brings. I am starting to have even more fun then I used to. If i think back on all those nights I wasted getting absolutely smashed. Man, what a waste
Set 3: physical opener
We changed venues. Lor opens a girl that's dancing with very high energy. He tries to open her but she even just ignores him. I say to him that girls like that needed to be opened with a physical opener. He said "ok, show me how". Now I had to open of course. So I put out my hand and she takes it I spin her around a few times but there's where it ends. It doesn't hook, she wanders off again. These kind of sets usually end up in either very fast escalation or a very short "interaction".
In the same bar I also see a non community friend of me and I come over to say hello. He's apparently friends with the girl friend of HB27 who was also there. There was another girl with him and I talked a bit to her. I asked for her full name in the end to add to facebook. Building that social circle!
Again we change venues and there's this girl sitting outside asking us if we have a cigarette. I said "no, neither of us smoke." I don't remember what I said next but we end up in a convo and I am leaning against some wall thingy locked in. This is how smooth it goes when you are in state! Next thing I know a girl is coming outside and I look at her and it's the spanish girl I was gaming months ago! It was nice seeing her again. We joined her in the bar she was at for a while. Place pretty much sucks so I talked to her for a while and we had one drink there. I also pinged if she was still together with her bf or not. She was. When we finished our drinks we went outside and I kissed her goodbye.
After that I didn't do much anymore. Very fun night, a few social contacts.. a lot of IOI's from all over the place. One very good approach with potential but bad luck. No real results though. I want to start closing those sets that go very well and where I am attracted to like HBFaroeIslands and the one yesterday. I said if i'm able to do that i'll be at a ratio of 1/10 but the way it's going now it would be more like a 1/5 ratio. How awesome would that be?
I had a slight headache today though, all the going out is taking it's toll. I normally never have headaches. I think my brain is trying to process everything what happened over the week/weekend. I'll try to have my rest the coming next days.
This weekend it's also officially one year ago since I took the bootcamp. So i have roughly one year of gaming behind me. I'm 500 sets in. Not that much for a whole year but atleast I have been going at it pretty consistently. I will continue to game and continue to build that social circle. The future will bring good things If I compare my mindset one year ago to now it's a huge difference. Only that is worth it even though I haven't been getting that many results YET. I'll keep being a persistent mofo and eventually it will all fall into place. Get ready for another year of reading my FR's!! Hopefully less boring