Thread: FR: 2 girls get jealous

So I went to a college apartment party last night. I invite two different girls to come, a HB7 "Jess" and another HB7 "Meghan." Both I've gamed to some degree in the past, and both were clearly into me.

I figured that having both of them there might generate a little friendly competition between them, and improve my chances. I was wrong.

When they each saw me flirting with other girls, they backed off instead of competing for me. They both left the party without saying bye to me.

Later, I get this text from Jess (spelling preserved).

Jess: Hvae fun with ur bitches. I will
Larks: ... where you at homie? you left without saying bye?
Jess: I asumd u were talking 2 some other girl/people. Idk. Ttul then.
Larks: ha ok then, we'll chill soon
Jess: Their r hoter chicks out there, its fine. I kind.a liked u but np. I understand.w,e. Yea i know im drunk
Larks: Ok friend
Jess: I thought u mite have likd me but i gues not
Larks: Youre pretty and I like you. You should know that.
Jess: Goodnite mr. [Larks]. We shall play again.


Meanwhile, I decide to text the other girl Meghan, who came with her HB6 friend "Amber." Here's how our conversation went:

Larks: You left without saying bye? Laaame.
Meghan: Sorry. You were too cool and amber had to get going loll
Larks: Im cool but im never too cool for you. Get at me
Meghan: Thats what i thought;-) lol you doin anythin tomm?
Larks: Im partying w u tomorrow duh
Meghan: K cant wait:)

(So now I actually have to take Meghan somewhere tonight.)


I think I did pretty good damage control with the texts, but I'm more curious about how I could have gamed better when they were actually at the party.

Looking forward to your comments/feedback/advice!

hahh i had a similiar issue. but with only one girl. i kinda messed up but
#-closed her and ended up texting her the rest of the night. Now i gotta date wednesday O.O Hopefully i dont fuck it up again...

that was pretty ballsy inviting them both. good damage control though next time I wouldn't advise inviting two girls your gaming to the same party

I always invite more than one girl because girls always flake out. 2 came out to this club on Friday (one of them I had sex with Wednesday night) for a little friendly competition which turned ugly when my main girl showed up with her girlfriends. I had to stick with my main girl and needless to say I think I lost the other 2 off the team, they were pissed

Ksilvia and DatAzz, you both have good points. In the month since I've been introduced to PUA, I've purposefully never invited more than one girl to a party. I think I'll stick to that rule, and when they flake I'll stick to gaming girls already there.

By the way, last night I invited that 2nd girl, HB7 Meghan, to my dorm... She came with her friend Amber, and although I didn't hook up with Meghan (I never had a good opportunity to isolate), I definitely set the stage for future encounters.

I usually won't invite more than one girl I have already hooked up with but if its girls that I just got their number and nothing more, I will. I send out mass texts to the girls I have recently got their number about where I'm headed that night and see which ones bite. IMO a girl who you have only gotten her number and have not really spent much time with will be even more attracted to you if you invite her out and are not clinging to her side the entire night and she sees you interact with other cute girls. I will excuse myself from her to "Say hi to my friend" (the other girl I invited) I like to bounce back and forth between a few girls seeing which one shows the most interest and is most likely to come home with me that night.

I'm down with Datazz -- it really depends on how you handle the situation. If you bounce back and forth between the two girls and give them each some much-needed attention, you should be fine. If you're ignoring one girl to much, or being blatantly flirtatious (to the point it's rude), then it won't go well.

Originally Posted by The Magic Man

[...]If you're ignoring one girl to much, or being blatantly flirtatious (to the point it's rude), then it won't go well.

Yeah I guess that's where I went wrong. One girl (Meghan) I didn't give enough attention to, and I was being blatantly flirtatious (hair tugging, shoving, pinching, etc.) with other girls in front of Jess.

I think what really put off Jess is that she saw me doing to other girls the same sort of things I used to rope her in.