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Hey guys, I got a call last night from my buddy wondering ...
Fr: Lmr virgin!
Hey guys, I got a call last night from my buddy wondering if I wanted to go out to these girls place that he knows from college and then go out to the bars afterwards. When we got there there were 3 HB's and some other guy they knew, there were to HB8's and a HB6. So immediately I start running cocky funny game, hard. Everyone was loving it, the HB's were laughing at my jokes, comments etc. We start pre-drinking and I get into some comfort building with the one HB8 (lets call her HB8A), still running cocky funny game. We get cabs to go DT and we get to the club, and I start dancing with HB8A that I was building comfort with, she immediately starts making out with me. So now I'm thinking, this is wayyyyyyyyyy to easy, which it was cause then after the song is over she pretty much goes over to my buddy starts making out with him, then the other guy after. So were all thinking wtf is with these girls cause they were allll doing it.
We get a cab back to their place and I ask HB8A where I'm sleeping and she takes my hand and we go upstairs into her room and start making out on her bed. After making out for awhile I start escalating, running my hands up her thighs, getting really close to her pussy then backing off, then I go to start fingering her and she pushes away and says:
HB8A: "I don't think we should be doing this"
Sid: "You're right we should stop, we just met"
So that line worked like a charm cause shortly after I said that we were back at it again, and I start escalating again, teasing her running my hand up and down her thigh trying to get her for aroused. We start having "dry sex" and I go to start undressing her and she stops me again.
HB8A: "I can't"
Sid: "why not, blah blah blah"
HB8A: "why do you think?"
Sid: "cause you are a virgin?"
After that we talk for a bit make out again, she gives me a blow job and then we pass out.
Does anyone know how to get passed this kind of LMR? I had never encountered it b4 so i was stuck on what to do other than to try and escalate again. Tell me what you guys think I could have, or should have done, feedback!!
Virgins just take a long amount of time. If she's blowing you, she'll sleep with you, just give it time.
You said why not,
Should have initated a freeze out
IMO, Virgins need more comfort time. They need peer approval and shit.
Attraction is not just sufficient
Anyway, keep rocking!
First! Calm down.
Here's what you do:
You read this field report by Soul:
Same Day Lay: The 18 year old virgin
You want to be slow, gentle, approving. Just comforting.
I've been through a lot of sets where the target's a virgin, and I've even been in sets where the girl has never been kissed.
Take you're time, and don't ask for much.
Oh and this line works like a charm:
"you ever meet someone and it feels like you've known them your whole life?"
Whatever you do, don't do this!!!
Originally Posted by Mindstate
Don't ever EVER do this.
What kind of girl shares something as deep as her virginity to you, and then you do something to mock her like freeze her out.
It's like saying your parents died, and someone going "what the fuck is your problem?"
This is where your sincere comfort and understanding comes in.
Please don't freeze her out.
Yeah the whole freeze out thing is a definite no no, i know that haha. I do remember stopping part way through and we talked a bit then went back at it again but then that was when she pulled the "i can't" BS, but I'll just build more comfort next time, maybe I'll through a little Question game in there. Thanks for the advice
pretty much,if she's blowing you she's interested but dont rely on that. how many other guys she sucked and didnt let f**k. virgins need aot of comfort building. dont get discouraged ! virgins take time.
What why not...
Originally Posted by Trigger99
If she says, I cant because I am a virgin
and you say, "I totally understand, do you wnt to do something else" and kiss her on the forehead
Have I got a freeze out wrong?
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