http://www.theattractionforums.com/ en Thu, 17 May 2012 10:43:03 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.theattractionforums.com/images/misc/rss.png http://www.theattractionforums.com/ http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155038-stopping-drinking-has-propelled-my-game-another-level-ive-never-been-so-excited.html Thu, 17 May 2012 10:36:03 GMT Last night me and my wing decided we will no longer drink when we go out and game. This is THOUGH as i've been gaming drunk for the last 15 years.

A little back ground info about me. Im 6 foot, decent looking, athletic and good sense of style. I do good with 7's and pull the occasional 8's and 9's. I have always relied on alcohol to talk to girls. Every date I've ever been on, I have drank before each one. Its so bad that if im not drinking, i cant talk to girls...

So all that stopped yesterday.

I went to a ultra lounge. And my goal that night was to open 5 girls. If i was drunk.. that would be no problem. I decided, as soon as i go in, im going to open the first girl i see. So i walk in and i see a 6 1/2... So i go right up and said " do you have a smoke?" She said no.. and i said "oh, .. i dont smoke i just wanted to talk to you" to which she replied "i have a boy friend". and then i just walked off

WTF!!!

I never open with something like that if i was drunk.

Next girl.. i say " hi how you doing?" to which she just walked away

So this repeat about 3 times. Im still feeling good because im opening a girl sober !!! I've never thought i could do it!!

Ended up talking to a 7 for about 5 min,... totally weak body language, ran out of things to say.. Pretty sure if i was drunk i could of pulled it but i know i have to go though a pain period first.

So i was very happy last night. Goal was open 5 girls and i open probably 8 and had a 5 min conversation with a 7.

TONIGHT:

Went to a club and opened a 7 as a warm up, nothing happend but was happy just to be able to open sober.... Then i saw her...

A hot 8.5 is walking towards me.. Im like.. i gotta talk to her so....

I stop her and say " Hey i love your outfit its so cool" ( By the way, I always see this as an opener and i always thought it was dumb and wouldn't work. Not sure why i used it..)

Her: Oh, thank you!
Me: Where you from?
Her: Here
Me: NO WAY! Im from here too, not too many locals come to this club.
Her: I know right?, so how long have you lived here?
Me: 30 years, you?
Her: 12
Me: where were you before that

I will end it here, basically I talked to her for 20 minuets sober !! Moved her to the bar with me to get a red bull, then moved to another location to chat... I could not believe it. I ended up getting her number, and made plans to take her to a movie. All this i did sober!! and she was also sober !! and she was an 8.5..!! Im just so excited right now. Maybe this will lead to nothing, maybe she will not answer my text tomorrow, but WHO CARES?!?!?! I just talked to an 8.5 for 20 min and number closed sober!

woke up this morning with NO hang over, drove home not worry about drunk driving and cops. I don't know why it took me so long to do this??

Hopefully this will give me the courage to start talking to girls every where i go and start day gaming. Im so happy and excited right now about the future possibility. Im just so happy right now that i want to shout it to the world !! Thanks for reading and i will appreciate all advice on how to make my transition from drunk to sober easier! ]]> General Discussion wuballz http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155038-stopping-drinking-has-propelled-my-game-another-level-ive-never-been-so-excited.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/italiano/155037-seduzione-con-il-social-fb.html Thu, 17 May 2012 10:35:51 GMT Ciao a tutti, Girando per la rete ho trovato una persona che vende un manualetto ebook per sedurre con fb, come creare un profilo attraente, cosa... Ciao a tutti,
Girando per la rete ho trovato una persona che vende un manualetto ebook per sedurre con fb, come creare un profilo attraente, cosa dire in chat ecc.
Insomma, secondo voi quanto può essere valido questo manuale?
Secondo me non esiste una frase che seduca una donna tramite fb. O un comportamento scritto che la faccia bagnare.
Un profilo attraente vabbè lo sanno anche gli asini.
Cosa ne pensate voi? senza che spendo 22€ di quel manuale che sicuramente sarà inutile e spiega per l'ennesima volta cose che già so da 7 anni.
Consigli su come sedurre su fb.
Cosa dire?
Come crearlo un profilo attraente?
Che foto mettere?
Come comunicare senza poter mostrare il mio BL?
Insomma tutte queste cose? cosa mi consigliate. Grazie fratelli. ]]> Italiano ExcitingLove http://www.theattractionforums.com/italiano/155037-seduzione-con-il-social-fb.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/155036-how-do-i-get-girl-work-sorry-long-ass-post.html Thu, 17 May 2012 10:07:31 GMT OK. So you've heard this story many times on this forum before...there's a woman at work who I'm in love with. The thing is, she's not like a super HB10 or anything, and my work mates don't see why I'm making such a big fuss about her. But to me, she's unbelievable (oneitis?). I've been in my job for about 6 months now and I noticed her a few weeks after I started. Now, I'm not really an awkward type of guy, and in other environments and situations, I don't have issues talking with woman, but I've placed this girl on a high podium and made it even harder for myself to interact with her. Let me begin to tell you why...

So I start this new job and I'm loving it because there's so many hot girls about, its like I'm back at uni! Anyways, a week or so in, I notice THE WOMAN (I refer to her as my No. 1) walking by my office door. I'm instantly hooked, there's just something about her that I can't put into words effectively to describe the feeling, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced this. But moving on... she starts to notice me every time she walks past my office, and after a few weeks it gets to the point that every time she does walk on by, we make eye contact for a second or two and then look away from each other. I take it from these moments that she
knows I fancy her.

I later find out that a work colleague that I speak with from time to time, is friends with her, so I do some digging to find out some information about her. Anyways, later on he let's slip to her that he knows someone who fancies her. She starts harassing him about who it may be, then she gets smart, puts two and two together, and asks if its someone from my department, he says yes and she realises that its me. She tells him that I'm alright (lol I was expecting more, but oh well). After hearing this information, I don't do anything about the situation and continue to just make eye contact with her. At this stage I start feeling very awkward whenever I see her. I do manage to speak to her while she's in the kitchen with her mate, but I was I'll equipped to have a conversation with her while her friend was there (I reckon she also knows I fancy her mate), and I'm a newbie to love systems.

Moving further on, the whole company moves office and departments are moved to different floors. I reckon that its very likely that I will not see her as often. Although this turns out to be true, it works out better than expected, my department gets placed alongside another department that she visits for long periods of time because she has friends there. So I don't see her every day like I used too, but when I do, she's there for like half an hour just talking with her mates.

Now I'm guessing your thinking "why the f*** is this guy being a pussy, just go up to that group when she's there and make conversation", but its not that simple. One, as soon as I attempt to do such a thing, my cover is blown, Two, I would have to game her while other work colleagues are there (not sure how that would go down, yet alone how to do such a thing), Three, I don't want to escalate any possible relationship that quickly, I'd rather slowly get to know her (lol, but she knows I like her already!!!!), and Four, I just don't have a clue where to begin!!!

I want to get to know this girl without her feeling awkward that I'm trying to chat her up at work. What do I do and how do I go about doing it?

Again sorry for the long post, and hopefully you understand what I've just told you.

Thanks for any advice given.

PS. For those who don't think its a good idea to meet women at work, I have no issue with the possible consequences (although I know she could have).

I've written too much now, over to you guys and girls, thanks!

Sent from my Nexus S using Tapatalk 2 ]]> Newbie Discussion Forum Tyler Strong http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/155036-how-do-i-get-girl-work-sorry-long-ass-post.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/18-21-forum/155035-sleeping-same-bed-friends-game-over.html Thu, 17 May 2012 09:12:52 GMT I ended up going out for a drink with a girl I know a bit but not that well. I missed the last coach back, so she said I could stay at hers. I... I ended up going out for a drink with a girl I know a bit but not that well. I missed the last coach back, so she said I could stay at hers. I thought I was getting hints of interest, for instance because she did have another bed but she said it would be easier to share hers because the other one had stuff on it. But before we got into bed together, without me saying anything or trying to make a move on her, she told me not to expect a wild night, and I just said that was fine and went to sleep.

Have I consigned myself forever to the friend zone? ]]> The 18-21 Forum Ita_vero http://www.theattractionforums.com/18-21-forum/155035-sleeping-same-bed-friends-game-over.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/155033-im-being-needy.html Thu, 17 May 2012 09:03:19 GMT Somebody slap me. Please. Seriously, fly to Afghanistan and I will let you slap the shit out of me. I'm being a needy little bitch. Over the last few months I've slowly but surely let an old oneitis creep in under the radar and become the center of my life AGAIN. I was rid of the bitch once, but now she's back. And the problem isn't her, it's me. I'M the one expecting more out of her. I'M the one getting pissy when she doesn't respond according to my time line. I'M the one getting jealous when she's talking to other guys instead of me. It's MY motherfucking fault for making her a priority instead of focusing on what's really important i.e. working out, reading, learning, and stacking bread. I refuse to let someone else have control of my emotional state. ]]> Relationships jasonjackson http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/155033-im-being-needy.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/nc-north-carolina-lair/155032-mentor-winston.html Thu, 17 May 2012 06:08:30 GMT Like the title says , I'm looking for a mentor in the winston salem area. Just pm me or whatever. ]]> NC - North Carolina Lair Rinsuku http://www.theattractionforums.com/nc-north-carolina-lair/155032-mentor-winston.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/phone-text-game/155031-text-me-when-you-get-home-after-date.html Thu, 17 May 2012 04:48:00 GMT I have been getting this a lot lately. After a date she will tell me to "text me when you get home". It usually seems to come off like she just wants to make sure I got home safe on the drive home.

This happened a few times with different women. We would go out on a date and I would drop her off or leave and she would say this. I live in NJ and frequently go on dates in NYC. So in a way it's normal for them to say this. I usually text something like "Ahh, home sweet home, good night!" when I get home. Although sometimes I wonder if they are checking to see if I am going out again which I do sometimes.

I might be over analyzing here; just want to make sure I am not dlv'ing here. ]]> Phone/Text Game ProtoMatter http://www.theattractionforums.com/phone-text-game/155031-text-me-when-you-get-home-after-date.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/culture-lifestyle/155029-jeans-big-thighs-small-waist.html Thu, 17 May 2012 03:41:28 GMT Anyone have this issue? I lost a ton of weight and went through skin reduction. I went from a size 60inch waist to a 36. The problem is...36inch... Anyone have this issue? I lost a ton of weight and went through skin reduction. I went from a size 60inch waist to a 36. The problem is...36inch pants don't fit around my thighs or my ass...just way too tight for my liking. But 38's cause the pants to be too lose and a belt just looks silly sometimes.

Anyone know any brands that have a decent loose fitting thigh/leg style? I have a lot of DKNY and Marc Ecko but they are few and far between that seem to fit. ]]> Culture and Lifestyle GreggCas http://www.theattractionforums.com/culture-lifestyle/155029-jeans-big-thighs-small-waist.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155028-former-current-interns-what-did-you-gain.html Thu, 17 May 2012 03:29:42 GMT I'd like to know what former and current interns had to walk away with after their intern experience. I got the send out email about positions open and i wanted to know what i have to look forward to when hindsight kicks in. ]]> General Discussion styleten http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155028-former-current-interns-what-did-you-gain.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/155027-difficulty-finding-hv-males.html Thu, 17 May 2012 02:18:34 GMT Gentleman,

I enjoy PUA for a variety of reasons. However I often find myself at a disadvantage in many social situations.

I've noticed that in clubs or other venues if you enter with a large group you have instant social proof. Usually sets of 3 or 4 are more likely to interact with you because your target's friends may have their eyes on someone. This makes boucing from set to set so much easier and they are hooked much faster because these girls want to be part of your large group.

I have no friends who are students of PUA, Ive tried to get some into it but none have given it an honest shot. The ones who are into it are so bad they actually hurt my game.

What I want to know is, if any other PUA's struggle with finding similar HV males and second if there is a way to meet these HV guys.

-DJ ]]> Newbie Discussion Forum diamondjim http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/155027-difficulty-finding-hv-males.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/155026-her-staying-over-multiple-nights-row.html Thu, 17 May 2012 02:03:24 GMT How do y'all feel about this? Bad management?

Day 3 girl stays over night.

The very next day would you avoid asking her over? What does it say if you invite her to come over the very next night? ]]> Relationships Free style http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/155026-her-staying-over-multiple-nights-row.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/field-reports/155025-vudo-diaries.html Thu, 17 May 2012 00:51:14 GMT Let me just start with a bit of background. I am 23, living in melbourne. I work long hours, and dont really get out during the week. However,... Let me just start with a bit of background.

I am 23, living in melbourne. I work long hours, and dont really get out during the week. However, Friday nights I usually try and schedule a date or something (as I cant drink or really go out to late due to sporting commitments on Saturday)

Saturday nights I always go out, try and cut loose, work on my game, and get chicks.



2 Months ago I broke up with my GF for 18 months - I am still working on getting over that, but am making very good progress... Not 100% there, by getting very close.

As soon as we broke up, I started gaming other women straight away. Had several girls waiting in the wings, and sure enough, over the next 2 months, I had 2 FB who I saw frequently to help me move on from the break up.

Over the late 6 weeks, I have been venturing out to the city more (better clubs and better quality women than my small town). I have been doing pretty well, getting a lot of numbers, and several F-Closes, and a couple of SNL

I want to start documenting my progress, as I think I have come a long way over the past few months.

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TEXT Game: I have really had to work on this... as to say the least... it was shit! I started a thread asking for advice gaming a girl via text who I met one night... and if you want to see some really really really bad game... Read that.

I think it has improved lately, and I have been solidly texting a HB9.
We have been texting constantly for about 2 week. In which time I tried to get her out for a quick drink, or a catch up twice. Both times she said she was busy and declined
(did not try to schedule another meet up or anything, just said she was busy)

I took this as a major IOD and proceeded to pull away, and not text as much.

Over the last few days, she has been initiating all the texting, which I have been very cold about.

She sent me a message yesterday, asking if I was free tuesday, and wanted to catch up
"The next time I'm free is next Tuesday. Appart from that, I am not free untill June 15th"

I responded

"I have training on Tuesdays"

"Okay. I got my diary out. Are you free next Thursday?

"No good :P Training Tuesdays and Thursdays. Im sure you can find a few hours to chill on Sunday"

"I dont normally make plans on a Sunday. Incase I seal the night before"

Thats all we have got at the moment.

I am probably going to say something along the lines of

"I love being the exception to the rules"

I am also gaming a few others girl, and have scheduled to meet up with one tomorrow night.

I will hopefully update this Saturday night with a lay report :) ]]> Field Reports VUDO http://www.theattractionforums.com/field-reports/155025-vudo-diaries.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/155024-whats-wrong-girls-today.html Wed, 16 May 2012 22:22:48 GMT I mean, I write funny messages/openers. Yet none of these girls find it hilarious. But it's like 35% do.
Like this girl I just message right now.
Me:Me and my friend are not believing you're not real. We think you're some 40 year old virgin in his parents basement playing wow. :-p
Her : then why did you bother of writing to me in the first place.
Me: why do guys write to you? It's all about having fun on facebook 2.0 :-p
Her: not interested later

Is it just me or is it like this everywhere ]]> Online Game and IMs scubasteve1 http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/155024-whats-wrong-girls-today.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155023-daygame-question-how-do-you-approach-when-other-people-around.html Wed, 16 May 2012 22:16:46 GMT I think this is one question I have posted in the past before because the answer I get just never sticks.

I know in Soul's book he talks about approaching women in day game and who cares if someone else listens because they are walking by and will walk away shortly thereafter.

But how about approaching women for which there is a outsider standing right nearby?

I've always waited till the girl is alone to approach. ]]> General Discussion shaq420 http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/155023-daygame-question-how-do-you-approach-when-other-people-around.html http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/155022-first-time-any-advice.html Wed, 16 May 2012 19:59:35 GMT I have had sex once like two years ago ya I know terrible. Well I like this girl and she likes me and I know for sure where going to fuck. The thing... I have had sex once like two years ago ya I know terrible. Well I like this girl and she likes me and I know for sure where going to fuck. The thing is I feel like a virgin I don't know why. I am just wondering if any of you guys could give me advice how to last long and to make it good for the both of us. Im pretty much a virgin. Any Advice would help.

Cheers ]]> Sex XxGodFatherxX http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/155022-first-time-any-advice.html