I recently visited New York with a few buddies and stayed with a girl i know from college. I didnt get to far, but we made out one night and we both like each other. She hates country music and i love it, and i told her at the end of the summer when shes leaves new york and comes back to school that i would get her to like country. So im trying to make her a cd that i will send to new york and surprise her. I am going to throw a few country songs in but besides that i would appreciate any suggestions on any songs you guys think would be good. I have known this girl for around a year, but interest has just been recently sparked so i dont want the cd to be to lovey dovey, but i guess i want to send some sort of message, i just dont know what to include. Also, what would you guys write on the cd, like name or something clever, etc... Thanks for the help.

no. bro, your brain is working under the wrong frame. It seems you've just started with the game. Buy the VAH. or buy Magic Bullets. Don't talk to another girl til you read them. Making a girl a cd will not help until you are in comfort. You are not in comfort when you haven't seen her in months

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Making that cd is an excellent way of ensuring that nothing ever happens between you.

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Great idea!!! But why don't you just send her a poem instead?

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I believe Naldo is "taking the piss."

Second the recommendation for Magic Bullets. But it does sound like you've done zero reading so far. At the minimum, read the post that launched David DeAngelo's business empire.

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True. dannym13 if you are genuinely contemplating sending her a mixed cd, that you personally laboured over, you might as well send her a poem to really consolidate the relationship as purely platonic. I'm sure you two will be really cute best friends.

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Wow, thanks for the advice... and it seemed like such a good idea at the time. ill rethink this i guess

That can only work if you're absolutely nails-on, 100% positive she adores you already and you're just being a little bitch about closing the deal with her.

A place you want to be with a girl in terms of a long-term, meaningful rapport, is where you can say whatever positive things you want and be as cheesy as you want and she accepts it as a component of you adoring her.

It's not that stuff like that doesn't work. It's just that 99% of the time it's used as a means to prove or beg for affection when the ideal meaning of the gift is merely as a celebration of your mutual feelings.

Yes, it's cheesy. Don't misunderstand me. But saying dogmatically that it just "doesn't work" is simply a fallacy. (It's just that it almost never works.)

(Seriously, though, you should be able to close her regardless if you're in the state of sexualized emotional rapport that I'm talking about... so... close it if there's any doubt.)

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If a girl is into you then she'll accept/get into whatever you're into. Chicks are flexible and have a "people pleaser" tendancy. But she has to be into you first.