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    Neil Strauss on Day Game

    I met Neil Strauss last night at a book signing in NYC. I had several questions to ask about PU, but I'm posting this in "Day Game" because I asked about direct/indirect openers during the day.

    Stlye replied with no hesitation: "indirect"

    Take it for what it's worth.



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    Thanks, I'll thank you again when I get an understanding of the difference =] Still a newbie. [=

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kingsland View Post
    I met Neil Strauss last night at a book signing in NYC. I had several questions to ask about PU, but I'm posting this in "Day Game" because I asked about direct/indirect openers during the day.

    Stlye replied with no hesitation: "indirect"

    Take it for what it's worth.
    Isn't that all he teaches tho? I have noticed that some of the more experienced guys slowly move to more direct game when at first they used mosty indirect. I think a lot of it just has to do with confidence, body language, etc.

    I use both lol. I am still learning tho and to me it's all calibration.

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    He probably gets asked a lot of questions like that and since most people are AFC (even those just getting into the game). They don't have the confidence or the body language to pull off direct so they will constantly wonder why they are failing and fail to improve...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Convo View Post
    I use both lol. I am still learning tho and to me it's all calibration.
    Calibration, co-sign.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Convo View Post
    Isn't that all he teaches tho? I have noticed that some of the more experienced guys slowly move to more direct game when at first they used mosty indirect. I think a lot of it just has to do with confidence, body language, etc.

    I use both lol. I am still learning tho and to me it's all calibration.
    I have no idea what he teaches, but I would sure like to know. He said the only time to go direct is when we have higher status than our target. Now, will the target know this by body language, voice tone, & delivery? Don't know.

    He also said during day game "you need to tone it down".

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    Thank you for this, and I'll continue taking advice from a washed-up pickup artist.

    WHO GIVES A SHIT ABOUT INDIRECT OR DIRECT?

    It's about using what works for you. Get out in the field and determine which one you like better. Finally, stop listening to every bit of advice and accepting it as the 100% god-given truth. Decide for yourself what works and what doesn't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CMPitts View Post
    Thank you for this, and I'll continue taking advice from a washed-up pickup artist.

    WHO GIVES A SHIT ABOUT INDIRECT OR DIRECT?

    It's about using what works for you. Get out in the field and determine which one you like better. Finally, stop listening to every bit of advice and accepting it as the 100% god-given truth. Decide for yourself what works and what doesn't.
    My friend,

    I think you're getting a little too carried away with yourself. I find it very convenient for you to bash people behind your laptop. I also find it very sad for a (so-called) lover of fine women to come across as a bitter punk.

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    My friend,

    I think you're getting a little too carried away with yourself. I find it very convenient for you to bash people behind your laptop. I also find it very sad for a (so-called) lover of fine women to come across as a bitter punk.
    Would you like to know what I find annoying? I find it very annoying whenever newbies to this site ask the same old questions that have been discussed millions of times.

    List of Common Questions Addressed on this forum:
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/d...sed-forum.html

    Check out the section on Indirect vs. Direct.

    If I come off as harsh, I apologize. But please, read the forum rules and stickies before you post an article.

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    kingsland, i was one of the guys at that book signing in tribeca on tuesday. i hope you weren't one of the annoying amateur PUAS(whose been in the game less then a year) who was just talking about game 24/7 before neil came in. those guys seriously made me incredibly uncomfortable lmao.

    i have to agree with CMPitts, it really doesn't matter what the fuck you say to her, indirect or direct. as long as you have a strong frame and you can transition to something else you've completed the goal. its never about what you say to her, its about how you say it. Ultimately both direct or indirect approaches both work. i can tell you this from pure experience.

    as a side note, kingsland dont become one of those ignorant PUAs who just believes what he hears from the masters. the masters can give you the best advice, but don't take it to the advice to the extreme and just accept things. you'll just run into one of those problems that'll make you fucking awesome at attraction, but then make you look like an idiot in comfort.

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